Is it normal?
How should I react?
2006-10-10 22:50:06 · 36 answers · asked by Lovely 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
A good question...
It's normal for a married man to masturbate, especially if he used to do it long long before marriage... it becomes a habit...
BUT, if you give him more sex activity, his body won't need to masturbate that often.
It's understood that the woman sex-drive is less than the man.. So the man usually satisfies his 'extra' need by this measure...
As long as he's with you and not with anyone else.. be happy...
2006-10-10 23:40:11 · answer #1 · answered by toon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is very normal. Men are just wired different than women! For men, stimulation is mostly in what they see, a sexy dress, a beautiful woman, or a particular body movement. I think that men think about sex several times a day. On the other hand, women are all about feelings. We need some type of feeling to be aroused in a lot of situations. Be glad he is masturbating in bed with you, and not acting out with someone else. Above all else, do not make him feel ashamed for doing this. It is just his way of relieving the sexual tension.
2006-10-11 05:17:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes its normal, you shouldnt react in no way but be glad that your husband is pleasing himself instead of having an affair. every man and woman masturbates and its totally natural and its also the best safe sex you could ever experience. if you were to react in a negative way, you could possibly drive your husband away and i know you dont want that. accept it and be open minded and dont make a deal about it to your husband because as you all know, we all need our private time and he did think you were sleeping, so just let it be.
2006-10-10 22:56:30 · answer #3 · answered by Tanya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes like everyone has stated it is normal but I can see where this might alarm you a little bit. Try not to make a big deal out of this though, hes probably embarrassed enough, and try to look at it like your the one that, more than likely, turned him on. I know that my wonderful husband says that he likes to watch me sleep at times. So cough it up to you turned him on and then you caught him in the reaction to this.
2006-10-11 00:29:01 · answer #4 · answered by red-e03 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
React by being honest about it with him, he should be okay with it. Maybe it is 'slutty' but I admit it is something I did more than once with my ex-wife although our relationship was in rapid decline by then and I knew I wasn't going to get anything from her. Sleeping next to someone who you think is physically attractive and then waking up feeling horny isn't something to be ashamed of, but if the sex is gone from the relationship then the guy is gonna have to release his frustrations on his own.
Look positve, you still turn him on and at least he isn't getting it with someone else.
2006-10-10 23:11:15 · answer #5 · answered by Very happily married. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok permit him understand the form you sense and sit down and refer to him over dinner. ask him does he think of he will harm the infant or does he not discover you as beautiful as he did in the previous ? OO dnt forget to tell him the way it make u sense and that u understand he's doing it while he thinks ur drowsing if he dont prefer to have intercourse after even speaking it out on each and every element then sweetie don't sense undesirable ..in simple terms remember after u have the infant hmmm i could make him wait purely somewhat time to show how he making you sense or till then purchase a vib. toy and do it while he drowsing wink wink ;) superb for success Btw pregnant females are beautiful do not permit him make u sense unhappy....
2016-11-27 21:03:11 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean by 'caught'? He's not a possession or a naughty child you know.
If he wants to masturbate, he has a right to do that in his own bed in his own home. You might have offered to finish it for him, rather than criticise.
2006-10-11 02:53:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
this is normal my ppartner does this all the time when am sleeping the reason i know cause he ends up waking me up when i feel the covers going up and down he says he does that so he can give me a brake and a good night sleep as we never stop a most times and it realy doesnt bother i see it as have a brake just be greatful that hes not sleeping with somebody ealse.
2006-10-10 22:55:15 · answer #8 · answered by baby dust for me 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It would have been normal if you were not beside him. So there may be a problem with your sexual life. Talk and discuss the matter openly with your husband.
2006-10-10 22:58:05 · answer #9 · answered by Sam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is normal , if you are not co-operating with him , when he feels , better practice to be available most of the time to keep him for ever with you only .
2006-10-10 22:54:36 · answer #10 · answered by your noon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋