My wife and I have had a long marriage. When we were younger my wife was very passionate and we had a very good sex life. At the same time we had frequent conflicts and were often on the verge of seperating. Although I guess I must take some responsibiltiy for these fights, I really believe most of them were instigated by my wife. She would fly in a rage without warning at the least excuse. She was constantly critical of me and our two children. When she was not doing this she was often moody and withdrawn. Before and during the time she went through menopause, her sex drive steadily diminished to a point where she now has very little interest in sex for her own enjoyment, although she still engages in sexual activity for my sake. The odd thing was that as her desire for sex declined. Her moods and behaviour improved proportionally. We now have a very peaceful and happy relationship and seldom fight over anything. She is loving and will now laugh off small annoyances that once would ha
2006-10-10
22:51:07
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ve seen her sulk for days. This has made our relationship stronger although I very much miss our sex life. Is it possible to have a passionate love life with someone and still be friendly and relaxed all the time or do we never get the best of both worlds?
2006-10-10
22:53:59 ·
update #1
Lucianna, Your first response was more on the money. I don't want to have an affair.
2006-10-10
23:12:09 ·
update #2