A man is really nice and helping her wife in every field ,loves her keeps kids all time and never speaks a word even if she is using bad names.He is reputed and earning good.Very good family with lots of servents to assist.PLEEEAAASSSEEE HELP
2006-10-10 21:44:48 · 13 answers · asked by dentist 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
maybe she dosent like you
2006-10-10 21:45:31 · answer #1 · answered by sleepwalker69 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Speak to her about it. Tell her flat out that (if this is you) you feel at your wits end. You care for the kids, have servants to help, etc. You say you don't speak a word even if she uses bad names. You should have said something from the beginning to stop it. It seems that once she started it, you never said it so it got worse. You have to start now. Tell her it is disrespectful to you and it hurts to be called names. Ask her to sit in your shoes for a day. If you called her all those names, how would she feel? I would suggest counseling for both of you if she isn't willing to back down. I will be praying for you. Big hug to you. Don't be afraid of your wife, stand up and be strong. You don't have to be mean about it. You can do it in a nice and respectful manner and let yourself be heard.
2006-10-11 04:52:25 · answer #2 · answered by Stephanie F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just explain your feelings. Tell her to stop the bad behavior. State that as parents each of you need to set a good example for the children. Bad behavior seldom benefits a family unit and most deserve better, this requires everyones best effort. Tell her that you are open to constructive suggestions and that you hope that she would be too. Thank her for listening ,kiss her and hold her and say that you feel better now.
2006-10-11 05:10:12 · answer #3 · answered by senseofhonor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is the help that the husband offers done with love, or in a way that makes the woman feel incompetent? If he 'keeps the kids all the time', is he making her feel like a bad mother? Perhaps she's unhappy...is the marriage loving, is she made to feel special, does the husband make love to her, making certain that she is pleased? If she's feeling incompetent, or that her husband believes she's a bad mother, or she's feeling trapped in a loveless marriage, she will strike out in self defense.
2006-10-11 04:51:54 · answer #4 · answered by hrprrbn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop helping her if you already have servants. Just enjoy the kids and leave everything else to her. She sounds like a spoiled brat. Why are you taking her abuse?
2006-10-11 04:52:09 · answer #5 · answered by ginger 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont give attension to her ! dont abuse her back ,one should be silent while other should speak that way u can keep the balance.However,use ur brain and and explain to her that whatever she is doing is wrong by ur actions.Tolerate her women are intelligent enough to observe ur body language or expression.Keep smiling and make good.Today or tomorrow when she needs you she will feel the difference.Thats when i said use your brain.
2006-10-11 04:51:06 · answer #6 · answered by nirupam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
speak to her openly, without abusing her make it clear that her harsh words r hurting you, what the reason check with her & tell her clearly not to repeat it in future.
2006-10-11 05:44:59 · answer #7 · answered by PRIYA M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you keep her at a arm's length for sometime.I suppose , little by little she will realise what is wrong and then thing may change
2006-10-11 04:47:50 · answer #8 · answered by Abbas S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Refuse to eat whatever she cooks. It'll make her think twice!!!
2006-10-11 04:48:12 · answer #9 · answered by freakydude 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave that whore. respect is more important than love.
2006-10-11 08:07:21 · answer #10 · answered by mark r 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋