But it needs a hard work to maintain it.
Lots of problem come along the way.What will a wife do if she can't have any kids but her husband wanna have kids even though the wife have to go through medical treatments which doesn't guarantee 100% sucess yet she needs emotional support???
2006-10-10 21:52:07 · 13 answers · asked by Prav 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
MY DEAR AS A WOMAN I CAN UNDERSTAND THIS FEELING OF URS AND ALSO CAN UNDERSTAND IN WHAT SITUATION U ARE IN , I WILL ALWAYS ADVISE U TO NOT LOOSE FAITH IN GOD ABOVE, PEOPLE IN THIS WORLD ARE TEMPRORY, THE LIFE IN PARADISE WILL BE THE BEST FOR U, NEVER GET DEPRESS MY DEAR , ALWAYS LOVE UR FAMILY UR HUSBANDS FAMILY AS WELL AS UR OWN FAMILY, THERE ARE MANY THINGS U CAN DO TODIVERT UR MIND U CAN TEACH THE CHILDER IN KINDERGARTEN OR U CAN SERVE ORPHANS OR U CAN ALSO ADOPT ONE IF HUSBAND HAS NO OBJECTION,SEE MY DEAR IF U SERVE ORPHAN CHILDREN U WILL REALLY BE HAPPY AND U WILL REALLY LOVED BY THE KIDS DEPRIVED BY LOVE.AS A WOMAN I CAN ADVICE U SOMETHING LIKE THIS WHICH WILL GIVE U HAPPINESS LIKE PARADICE , WHEN U SEE SMILE ON THE ORPHAN CHILDREN FACES, MAY GOD ABOVE BLESS U AND MAY UR WISH COMES TRUE, AND I WILL DEFINITELY PRAY FOR U, WHOM SOEVER U ARE " PRAY " !
2006-10-10 22:14:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Pls dont worry about not getting kids.
I am personally against adopting kids. I dont know why. May be, my opinion will change. I am not married now. But when i get married and if my wife or me is unable to concive. I dont think i will favour adoption.
All i can say is pls dont give up hope. My friends parents got him after 10 yrs of trying. And a family friend of ours did not have kids for 15 yrs. They tried every possible thing on earth. No use. Then a Hindu Priest blessed them and they got a cute & smart baby girl.
May be ur time is not yet come. What has to happen will happen when it has to happen. Dont stress ur self. I read once that stress is one factor that some people are not able to conceive.
So, relax and enjoy life. And keep trying and dont loose hope.
Where there is will, there is a way.
2006-10-10 22:50:15 · answer #2 · answered by SreeNadh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When the woman also desires to have kids, the problem can be come over by undergoing medical investigations by both the partners. Even whenthe desire on the part of the woman to have kids is not strong enough she could oblige the wish of her husband and then under go medical treatment along with her husband. Should always be optimistic about the result. After all marriage ultimately ends up in the children and succession not to ignore the marital bliss.
2006-10-10 22:36:20 · answer #3 · answered by Chanti 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both of u need to go for some check up, i guess. Causes of infertility 1/3 from the wife. 1/3 from the husband, 1/3 is unknown. Thru proper check up, could identify what caused ur inability to become pregnant.
How long have u been married? Some people i know, got a child after 7 yrs of marriage. Cheer Up!
2006-10-10 22:05:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all problems can be solved medically, so it is sometimes necessary to accept the limits of our body. You can ask him the same question as you put up here.
Is adoption out of the question ? One couple I know have two adopted kids, they are smart, behave well and things are going very well there. Although they are Asian kids this doesn' seem to bother anybody and they stick together like any other family.
2006-10-10 21:57:23 · answer #5 · answered by Vage Centurian 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You ask the qestion yourself. If it has been found that it is he who is medically less fit to have kids of his own what would you do? would you ask him to have medical treatments? would you help overcome his feelings?
Do just that if the case points to you.Mind you God`s creation is such that it is the woman who has been given elaborate mechanism to have this experience, much more than the man . Hence , that much more help is needed by woman.
If both of you are medically ok, then there is no blaming anybody , including God.Adopt if you are ready to take on the responsibility.
2006-10-11 00:48:06 · answer #6 · answered by YD 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Indians are forced to marry because it is a taboo to have a unmarried living partner. But, i think now things are changing. In old age you need some one to take care. Untill then just enjaaaaay.
2006-10-10 21:57:45 · answer #7 · answered by indianborntowin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everything is possible, if U have a willing mind. May god bless U. May
people anvy on Ur family relations
2006-10-11 03:32:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A child is a child ,go for adoption, its a beautiful way to start fresh and be happy with whatever God has given you
2006-10-12 07:59:07 · answer #9 · answered by twinkle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO NEED TO WORRY GET HIM ALSO TESTED MEDICALLY MAY BE SOMETHING WRONG WITH HIM. LOVE YOUR HUSBAND IF EVEN AFTER SOMETIMES YOU WILL NOT GET KIDS TRY TO PERUSE HIM FOR ADOPTION OF CHILD. TELL HIM THAT IIND MARRIAGE IS NOT100% GUARANTEE OF KIDS.
2006-10-11 00:25:38 · answer #10 · answered by RAMAN IOBIAN 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋