i love her so much and i trust her and she said she loves me but i cant feel that some times i feel she loves me some times i dont and i feel that she dont care so much about me like i care i make her the frist thing in my life and i think or i feel that am not her frist
2006-10-10 20:47:37 · 8 answers · asked by lover boy 2 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
and she said to me i love you
2006-10-10 20:49:31 · update #1
First of all, you need to get your balls back from your girlfriend. You sound desperate and somewhat of a pushover. Meaning, you are whipped on her. Don't be too nice where she'll walk all over you. In addition, if you have to ask us whether she loves you or not... that simply means she doesn't love you. Take it slow and if she's the right girl, you'll know when she loves you. Good luck
2006-10-10 23:30:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she herself is confused about your feelings and doesn't want to push anything. this is where communication comes in you need to talk more about this even if it feels uncomfortable and you fear hearind somehting you do not want to . it is better to know than to live a lie. do you show one another affection often ?? even if it is a kiss every morning and every night,,,hold one another for while when you go to bed, dine out together , maybe you are both too comfortable with one another and need to refresh the relationship, when you become too comfortable in a relationship it starts to feel like a room mate instead of a partner ...sit down and talk
2006-10-11 01:56:42 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not sure just ask her, what do you have to lose? Maybe she was having pms or something at the times you thought she did not care or maybe received mixed signals. Maybe she does not like the way you talk. Anyways, Good luck.
2006-10-10 21:09:15 · answer #3 · answered by VoiceofAngelBodyFine 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldn't be comparing the love that you are giving her with the love she is giving you. this would only create insecurities on your part and a longing for something that she isn't aware you are longing for. and comparing the amount of love being given was never a part of loving. as what is often said, just love, never question yourself or the other person.
2006-10-10 20:59:37 · answer #4 · answered by jewel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry you feel this way.
YOu need to communicate these issues with her. See what she says. I f she cares about you, she will consider your feelings and reassure you that you are just misunderstanding it all and that she loves you the way you wish.
2006-10-10 20:50:49 · answer #5 · answered by denh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should put your g/f to test. Ask her that you want to marry with her. and marrige in civil court. If she is sincere in love with you, she will be very happy and will accommodate you and marry with you. If she is passing her time, then she will offer one pretext or the other and she will be intersted in other boys.
2006-10-10 20:59:29 · answer #6 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess you will just have to take her word for it. And it's not really healthy to put her first and keep dwelling on whether or not she loves you. You will end up smothering her.
2006-10-10 20:51:58 · answer #7 · answered by phoenixheat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this all depends on how old you are.
Also.....to be a great couple you need to each have your own interests. You need to be able to stand alone to be able to stand with her.
Give it time.
2006-10-10 20:50:25 · answer #8 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋