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and she has been spending all her free time with him.She tells me nothings going on even though she gone for days at a time, should I be worried

2006-10-08 02:38:43 · 20 answers · asked by Wondering If ? 1 in Family & Relationships Marriage & Divorce

she looks pregnant even though we haven't had sex in months

2006-10-08 02:40:18 · update #1

20 answers

Your name isn't Joseph, by any chance?

2006-10-08 02:45:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

of course I'd be worried, something is definitely going on. If not why doesn't she take you with her. I'd make her sit down and decide who she wants to be with, like right now especially if she looks pregnant and you said that you haven't had sex in a while, that is probably the reason she is staying away so much. The bigger she gets the more she will stay away. All you need is for her to come home one day with a little one because they guy doesn't want her then. Hurry up before it's too late.

2006-10-08 10:33:28 · answer #2 · answered by lisa b 3 · 0 0

First thing I would have done at the outset is protect what is mine. Hide everything you can in the way of assets and also get rid of what you can't hide and hide the money.

I have had this happen a long time ago but was ready for it and the cost of the diverse was very little and that was the last I ever saw of her.

It probably was over a long time ago and you didn't see it.

protect what is yours.

2006-10-08 09:47:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Why have you not had sex with your wife in 6 months? That's not a marriage...that's a prison sentence. That's forced celibacy. That's just not right. Yes, you should be afraid. Personally, I hope she is banging this other guy so she can get some real love and support.

2006-10-08 09:44:53 · answer #4 · answered by asbratcher 4 · 0 0

dude are you kidding me?? since when are married people allowed to hang out alone with people of the opposite sex for days at a time...i understand there's gotta be trust, but we don't have to be stupid either. And shes not even having sex with you. I am sure you care about her, but really think about it, do you need someone like that in your life?? she IS obviously cheating on you. Cheating doesn't necessarily mean shes sleeping with him, cheating is also her just spending time with him, time she is not spending with you...You are way too nice, you have to have more confidence in yourself, and NEVER let someone act like that with you. Good Luck!!

2006-10-08 09:45:58 · answer #5 · answered by Pebbles 2 · 0 0

time to set the record straight .Its time to let him go or you she can`t have both.You need to have her trailed.No one spends that amount of time away just to visit so said.If she does not want to stay home its time to pack up her crap and ship her out. No questions about it .If my wife even hinted something like that she knows were the door is. Im behind you 100%

2006-10-08 09:53:48 · answer #6 · answered by xlhdrider 4 · 0 0

really don't know if you need ti worry right now, you know your wife and if you think something is going on then yes you need to address it, but why don't you ask her if its okay if you went with them and if she says yes then that Will give you an opportunity to access the situation and you as a male can tell if their is some body chemistry then make your decision.

2006-10-08 09:45:28 · answer #7 · answered by gsxr 2 · 0 0

You need to get out of that, because did you know that when a baby is conceived in a marriage, you can be obligated to pay child support, even if the kid is not yours, why are you still hanging on, it is very obvious

2006-10-08 09:43:29 · answer #8 · answered by twinkle 1 · 0 0

Yes you should be. One thing you need to remember, and I challenge you to prove me wrong. All women are whores!. You may not think so, but it is true. If they think thry can whore themselves out without getting found out, they will every time. She's boning this guy like there's no tomorrow. Hire a PI, and take her for everything she's worth.

2006-10-08 09:45:50 · answer #9 · answered by obxreddrum1992 1 · 0 0

call a lawyer. If she is gone for days at a time, there is something going on.

2006-10-08 09:40:29 · answer #10 · answered by oldsoftee2001 6 · 0 0

Have DNA test done, unless you want to pay the next 18 yrs for something that isn't yours.

2006-10-08 10:04:12 · answer #11 · answered by Larry F 4 · 0 0

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