I know guys hate talking about their feelings, so I won't even go there.....and when he is stressed he doesn't want sex, so pls don't reccomend that..... He is stressed because he doesn't know how to make more money... I want to cheer him up some way..... help!!
2006-10-08 02:48:37 · 18 answers · asked by obsession0524 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
leave him alone.
2006-10-08 02:49:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well my first answer is out the window -sex
Hmm answer number 2 -hmmm
aha-exercise
Ima dog person but men can be like cats in that they need a scratching post when under stress. A home gym workout with weights.
Even better get him a heavybag, speed bag and a stand with some gloves.
after a work out all the stress fades.he wont be snappy .he wont be terse His agression will be gone .His heartrate will be up .
He will be sweaty
Dont hit on him sexualy at this point let him come to you .Wear lingerie
H might just want to have sex after all
I know when i get like that i dont feel like sex
After a workout it is a vastly different story
If you do have sex make it very cuddly for him .
2006-10-08 10:03:10 · answer #2 · answered by bolounit1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all guys hate talking about their feelings, just not "upon request" as woman are prone to do.
The best way for guys to unwind when they are stressed is with physical acitivity that takes their mind to another place. Every guy has different activities that they like (yes sex is one) and it's usually something women may not want to do. Why don't you suggest an activity you both can do to "escape"?
2006-10-08 09:52:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The main thing a man wants when stressed is time to himself to think and when he's ready to talk, he will.
When that happens just encourage him that you trust him to figure out what to do and that if he wants to bounce some ideas off you, that you are willing to try.
That you love him and trust him as your husband and that you are there for him rich or poor, no matter what.
2006-10-08 09:51:49 · answer #4 · answered by Cookie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make a nice dinner, just you two. If you guys play board games play one of those. Go away for a weekend like a campground or just go some where that is relaxing. Or you can just simply give him a massage
2006-10-08 11:13:19 · answer #5 · answered by Lori K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He needs to know he's important to you. Just plain cuddling and snuggling. Remind him you love him, touching his face, his hands. Nothing sexual just closeness. Bathe him, pamper him. My wife worked in a very high stress environment, she would come ready to scream, She loved foot massages. I loved making her happy.
2006-10-08 10:06:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he doesn't want sex then just be supportive and available without being smothering. When he is ready to talk he will talk.
2006-10-08 09:50:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just see if he will go for a walk with you. Talk about anything that comes to mind.
2006-10-08 09:52:31 · answer #8 · answered by rebecca_sld 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would make him a nice meal and then help him relax with a message.
2006-10-08 09:57:11 · answer #9 · answered by Christy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him , if he is not willing to talk leave him alone for sometime, try to give him some suggestions for his problem if u have when he is in good mood .
2006-10-08 10:38:31 · answer #10 · answered by preity s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him a massage and cook his favorite food...then give him ice cream... that or get him to drink a little...he will open up...and tell him or assure him that money isnt important.
2006-10-08 09:51:48 · answer #11 · answered by wittlewabbit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋