I'm in deep love with my bf we make a plan to marriage soon but my Problem i'm not a virgin i fear to tell him the true becos maybe he will decide to leave me, so please help me,
2006-10-08 22:30:20 · 10 answers · asked by nana d 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If he is that worried about your virginity then he's the one who needs a head check. So what if your not a virgin. You should let him know before you do get married. He may not have any prob. with it. Is he still a virgin?
2006-10-09 01:44:22 · answer #1 · answered by kajunmommie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on a lot of things. How does he feel about marrying a virgin, if it is important to him would you be able to live with the lie. R u sure he will never meet someone who knows you are not a virgin? R u willing to start your marriage on a lie? The decision is yours. Irregardless of what happened in your life befor the thing is that he has you heart now and you would want a relationship without any fears of the past popping up.
2006-10-09 05:39:05 · answer #2 · answered by svt 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is going to find out when you consummate the marriage, you should talk with him, and tell him the Truth, and if he Loves you, this will not be an Issue. Good luck to you.
2006-10-09 05:40:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make him get used to about the stories of women not virgin, the more he loves you the more he does not mind about it
2006-10-09 05:40:31 · answer #4 · answered by Neighbour 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest - have an open discussion. If he leaves then maybe he is not the best one for you
2006-10-09 06:00:07 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why build a relationship on a lie? it might surface later in life and make a much bigger mess.
come clean, you'll feel better, you'll test his love and if it wasn't meant to be, better find out now.
2006-10-09 05:39:13 · answer #6 · answered by webby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let's not start a marriage based on lies. That's just a formula for failure.
2006-10-09 05:47:00 · answer #7 · answered by Tony 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is he religious? what’s his religion?
is he a virgin? if u want email me.
2006-10-09 05:34:28 · answer #8 · answered by jesica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be honest this is what my wife say s he will enjoy your experenice
2006-10-09 05:37:53 · answer #9 · answered by jac 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He won't know anyway
2006-10-09 05:33:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋