I NEED SOME REALLY GOOD ANSWERS HOW TO COPE WITH DIVORCE BECAUSE MY ex WIFE HAS ANOTHER MAN, I CAN'T GET HER OUT OF MY MIND.I STILL LOVE HER
2006-10-08 22:25:50 · 12 answers · asked by JOE Z 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
get laid a lot
2006-10-08 22:40:02 · answer #1 · answered by jac 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to stop thinking about her so much, i know that is hard, but basically you just have to find other things to occupy yourself, go to a movie, go for a walk, keep a journal, go dancing, etc. But the most important thing you can do is get to know yourself again and be comfortable with yourself and look at the relationship from another point of view and you may start to see your feelings are either differently or in another light.
2006-10-09 05:39:28 · answer #2 · answered by sunflower 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Instead of spending all your time thinking of your ex wife and her new man get out and do somethings you like to do. If she moved on don't you think it's time you moved on as well. I know it's not easy, been there, but in time you'll know what I mean.
2006-10-09 08:53:22 · answer #3 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
counseling.
she has moved on.
time for you to do the same.
there are reasons that the marriage did not work.
those are issues you must deal with.
do you love her because now she is with someone new?
what about the time before she moved on?
if you met a wonderful lady tomorrow would you still feel like you can't get over your ex.
all questions only you can answer..... but you have to be honest with yourself.
2006-10-09 05:30:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The next woman will bring happiness to you, and treasure your love, you will become a winner,because you are a nice man, your ex not deserve to have your love, should think that you are lucky to lose her in time, because she will destroy your life if she stay longer in your life
2006-10-09 05:48:30 · answer #5 · answered by Neighbour 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey look, think of it this way you love someone who doesnt want you, now we all realise you dont deserve that, what is love when its not returned? Just bite the bullet and move on. Find someone whos worthy of your love.
And trust me it is possible!! Good luck!
2006-10-09 05:34:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first thing you need to do is change sections. You need to
move to the singles. She has moved on so it is time for you to
realise that you aren't married anymore.
sorry
2006-10-09 05:41:04 · answer #7 · answered by wHaT eVeR 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man i know what your talking about.
i all moust lost my wife here not to long a go.
i don't know what to say but get out and find you a new woman.
2006-10-09 05:30:34 · answer #8 · answered by Dr.Ted 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep yourself busy with some other things.
i just read this quote somewhere.. hope this helps:
" when you love, never stick only to what your heart feels, sometimes using your brain is a necessity...
next, never use your eyes to cry for the person who fooled you.. instead use it for the right one..."
2006-10-09 05:46:35 · answer #9 · answered by sterling 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say give yourself permission to mourn and accept that you have a new opportunity to grow. Depending on how long you were together, it will take time.
2006-10-09 05:37:03 · answer #10 · answered by Cdn_Superdave 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetie you have to go on get busy going out doing things and go on with your life you deserve better and it will come.
2006-10-09 09:06:05 · answer #11 · answered by nanny2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋