This is the senario:
Last Two years my best friend found out her hubby was cheating on her but he denied it as all cheaters do!
Anyways, earlier she found two condoms and it was a brand she never saw before.She left it there so that if he removed it she would know that he is cheating but she forgot abt the condoms and only remembered when she found out he was cheating!
The question is " is there a condom called "hot n spicy?"if there is she would leave him , for he tells her she was dreaming that she found condoms!
Also he found red marks on his necks n he said that he got drunk n ppl burnt him with a car lighter!Is that possible n the marks would go away two days after?
Thank you so much for an answer to a question of two years!
Additional!
She keeps hearing rumors abt him n when he was sick he confessed he loved her!when he got well he said he never said that!He keeps hurting her by not admiting his blame n shifts the blame on her saying she is cheatin!
2006-10-08 20:23:14 · 9 answers · asked by ? 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I've never heard of hot and spicy condoms but what more proof does she need? The signs are all there right before her eyes.
2006-10-08 20:36:40 · answer #1 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheaters ALWAYS are the first to accuse. My ex did this constantly. To assuage her guilt, she accused me of what she was doing. And she had a Masters Degree in Shifting Blame & Manipulation.
Those Hot & Spicy condoms must've been a novelty item that "warmed" when used (like some lotions) or had a light cinnamon flavor. And no, I don't believe that this was a figment of the imagination. Also, lighter burns don't go away after 2 days, hickies do. That has to be the lamest excuse I've heard in a looooong time.
2006-10-09 04:58:20 · answer #2 · answered by Larry F 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first thing the "Cheater" will do is to shift the blame on to the other. What is this girl waiting for, just to see if she actually catches him...Doesn't matter what the condoms were called, the Trust has been broken, and instead of playing "Investigator", help your friend out, and get her out of there. This guy is now telling her that she is imaging things, Take care of your friend, give her Support, Two years is too long to be Emotionally abused.
2006-10-09 03:44:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are thinking that he is cheating on you..
1) You dont have trust in your relationship
2) You're just paranoid
3) You're dreaming like he said
4) Your mind wants to believe that he is cheating
Talk heart to heart with him, if you really think he is cheating, get all your proof then dump him...
You dont want to look like a ***** and a fool when you find out he wasnt cheating on your after you dropped him...
2006-10-09 03:27:39 · answer #4 · answered by Shadowfox 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even thinking he is cheating, means you don't trust him... what is a marriage without trust?
You are never going to be happy... The cheating thing is always going to nag at you....
Leave him - you are making 2 people unhappy and life is to short...!
2006-10-09 03:28:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i don't know about the hot and spicy condom but i can tell you that that is messed up he is making her feel dumb and she shouldn't take that from him he is being messed up and she needs to leave him he is an ***!!! im gonna check up on that hot and spicy condom though!!!
2006-10-09 03:27:15 · answer #6 · answered by ilovechris!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hate to be the bringer of bad tiddings but sounds like he is cheating. and cigarette lighter burns don't go away like hickies do .
wow.
she needs to leave him. if there isn't any trust there in the relationship then there isn't a relationship.
2006-10-09 03:26:50 · answer #7 · answered by beckdawgydawg 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you want him to do bring his girlfriends home with him in person? He has done Every thing but, You know the answer, now you have to deal with the looser. Do not feel bad, he doesn't care about you
2006-10-09 03:29:24 · answer #8 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
please never ever second guess your gut!!!!! if it say's cheater...more times than not cheater!!!!! and we alway's accuse other's of what were guilty of!!!!!!! sorry. you must be more woman than i cause i could not and would not be OK with such behavior it only get's harder for you and easier for him!!!!leave while your still healthy (AID'S) hello
2006-10-09 03:32:54 · answer #9 · answered by lauriesthemom 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋