Based on answers from previous questions, I got into idea that women needs attention for emotional health and for dealing with kids.... And from mens point of view, they make money for the welfare of the family, to buy car or house .... thinking of future. As a result there are deeply involved in work.
So there comes a gap, a husband who is deeply involved in work and a wife who is looking for love?
What can be done to bring the couple together?
2006-10-12 16:37:52 · 10 answers · asked by hindu saint 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
get a life
2006-10-12 16:40:33 · answer #1 · answered by iluvluceee 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh yeah, a lot of couples have problems over that. This is what were doing right now and so far its worked great. There should always be transparency, if anybody needs something or is troubled by something, just say it flat out, nobody can read minds after all, communication and listening is very important, whatever it is you have to say, silly or serious. Trust is also important, not just with fidelity, but in knowing that things will work out and know that both of you are giving your best efforts. As for fidelity, the husband must always try to include the wife in outings, functions and whatnot, (ivillage.com, look at it, its really good). Next is to plan a date night at least once in two weeks, doesn't need to be expensive, just be alone together and plan something NEW to do or go to. Don't forget the little things like touch or hugs or whatever, if you want it then go for it, don't wait for him/her do it. If he/she doesn't seem to respond well, then, its time for a talk of how you want things to change(depends who has the complaint) and start from there.
2006-10-12 17:20:48 · answer #2 · answered by stormsandblues 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To keep your love life great, do these things.
1) Pay attention to her for at least 10 minutes everyday. Show Affection, Support (even if you don't support it), Appreciation, and Praise (this one not necessary). This easily by remembering these letters... ASAP.
2) Bring flowers (gifts) for her, and take her out on a honeymoon (dates/vacation) at least once a month. Act like this is your first date with her.
3) Be a good listener. Listening is better than talking for a man.
4) Be responsible as the house leader (if you are the leader), for there can only be one captain for a ship. But remember that with more power comes more responsibility.
Oh, by the way to avoid cheating? If you do these things, and if she loves you to death, she will try to please you more (usually she will succeed), and if you are more pleased, wouldn't you want to please her more?
2006-10-12 17:19:22 · answer #3 · answered by DN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Married life isn't always happy. Especially when the hunny moon years are over. Then it comes to work. That's where most people find the difficulty and unhappiness. Marriage is a constant growth between two people. But, eventually that little click happens. You become more sure in yourself and your spouse. You will find that there isn't one thing you can do to prevent the other from cheating. That is truly their decision. But, not always accusing them of doing it doesn't hurt either. That tends to push most people in that direction.
2006-10-12 17:28:56 · answer #4 · answered by d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you already know that your wife is looking for love than you already know what needs to be done in order to make it happen.....Do you love her? Then ask yourself, what needs to be done in order to keep a happy home....If she were working it wouldn't be so difficult for you to maintain a happy home. She should get a job to help you out so you would not have to work so hard....That way you two can plan quality time together maybe a once a month adventure.....Good luck
2006-10-12 18:00:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anastacia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have only one child.
Make sure the husband is a homely man.
Be sexually available to the husband.
Spend alot of time doing things together.
2006-10-13 05:15:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you never cheat then your marrage will last if you do in time it will end . called lack of trust and once this happens no matter who male or female the . trust. love. isnt there no more. my opion?
2006-10-12 17:03:29 · answer #7 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk,cuddle,laugh.life is busy but make the time or it slips away making you strangers.
2006-10-12 16:41:20 · answer #8 · answered by maykithapin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do everything together you can, share dreams and be good to each other.
2006-10-12 16:45:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely . .. . there is always a way IF the parties invovled want there to be one.
2006-10-12 16:45:51 · answer #10 · answered by at_thebuzzer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋