i confronted her about now she mad at me was i wrong i have not said anything to my best friend need some honest advice
2006-10-12 17:06:04 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
She's mad because you told her the truth about how she is acting? sounds like she needs to be mad at herself, and she surley needs to be leaving Mr. Married ALONE! Good for you for sticking to your morals.
2006-10-12 17:07:43 · answer #1 · answered by The Nag 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
While you don't agree with the actions of your sister ; your loyalty belongs to her. Just tell her you won't be part of any alibi's and that if you are approached by your friend that you will not lie.
It's great that you are enraged on your friend's behalf but do you really want to be the one to hurt her? When she finds out on her own the best thing you can do is to be a soft place for her to land and support her through her painful time.
2006-10-12 17:10:52 · answer #2 · answered by GrnApl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should have left that one alone...because if it comes out that you knew and didn't tell, you'll look like an accomplice and even if you do tell ur best friend she may not want to hear it anyway.
If you really wanted to bust your sister out. you could have easily left an anonymous note and let the sh** hit the fan that way.
those are always tricky and best left alone for whoever is actually involved to figure out...
2006-10-12 18:09:22 · answer #3 · answered by Dani L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honesty is always the best policy, and if she doesnt want to take responsibility for her actions, well then she isnt a very nice person. as you best friend, i would want to know if he was cheating, and i think you did the right thing
2006-10-12 17:08:24 · answer #4 · answered by moluvsmark 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if i were u id tell my friend!!
I hate liars and u wont get any compassion out of me that its ur sister!!
She is having sex with another womans man!! That is beyond wrong!!
Tell her b4 she finds out u knew and didnt say anything!!
2006-10-12 17:08:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-19 07:34:40 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to step up to the plate and spill what you know. That is the only way you will feel right>
2006-10-12 17:09:16 · answer #7 · answered by PROBLEM 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you were not wrong. Your sister has put you in a very difficult position. She certainly has no reason or right to be angry at you.
2006-10-12 17:08:58 · answer #8 · answered by JC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well yeah that situation is horrible. i would not physically get involved because you will be the bad guy in the end. i would slightly get the idea of infidelity out in the open
2006-10-12 17:17:05 · answer #9 · answered by goldie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you were right and should also tell your friend. I think you should break off talking to your sister, sadly.
2006-10-12 17:08:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋