I have no doubts about marrying him; i would've never said yes if I did. He's been this way from day one; i loved him then, I love him now, i'll love him tomorrow. It's more that I am worried about him. I want him to be around forever, and to be happy with me, with life, with us, and it makes me feel inadequate that he doesn't seem to always feel that way . . . You don't walk away from someone you love because there may be something wrong. Love never fails.
2006-10-12 16:54:38 · 7 answers · asked by at_thebuzzer 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I read your previous question and I just want to know...if u have no doubt that u want to marry him then what are u worried about? The truth is, no one can be happy 100% of the time. Sh!t will come up here and there and it will make one feel either depressed or angry. It seems to me that u are wanting him to be this jolly fellow all the time and I think that's unrealistic. If something is bothering u about his attitude, why not sit down with him and find out what it is. Then maybe u can both come up with a solution to whatever it is. Constantly worrying about it on your part is not going to help. If u have doubts about his happiness with u, by all means, communicate with him and find out his side of the story. It could be that he's suffering from depression. Who knows???
2006-10-12 17:06:14 · answer #1 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So they say,but don't get your heart set on something that may never be the way you think it should be.You'd better find out for sure if he feels the same way first.Sound like you have doubts about him loving you forever.
2006-10-12 23:59:57 · answer #2 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF he has health or mental issues or addictions he needs to get them resolved before you marry or at least managed and under control- it is better to PREPARE than REPAIR- you are not married yet- don't play the martyr- and wind up being tormented- and putting your future children through hell- D
2006-10-13 00:00:35 · answer #3 · answered by Diane W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
anything you accept before marriage will probroly go on after your married.no you don't walk away from someone you love but marriage is not a cure all, and problems just don't dissolve, and yes love does fail.
2006-10-13 00:07:37 · answer #4 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ppl get into these "funks" all the time. we cant be "up" all the time. some ppl do enjoy staying home and chilling out. if you love him and he loves you and there is open communication talk it out. good luck to you.
2006-10-13 00:19:45 · answer #5 · answered by hamhead 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he needs to be evaluated. He can be bipolar or have depression.
2006-10-13 00:05:29 · answer #6 · answered by JC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am very happy for you and really wish you all the luck in the would god bless you both.?
2006-10-12 23:59:34 · answer #7 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋