from the begning stage of love onwards my boy friend is searching matrimonial coloumns( its a site for those who are not married to search their partners) even yesterday too he did. he is not searching for his siblings or friends, he is searching for girls which will match him.. and he will ask me how is this girl, how is that girl.... i got fed up now a days. he is very short tempered person but i am not like that.. adjusting a lot in this relationship...he is saying u r very very stupid person that i ever seen..i said yes anything more, i do agree for wht he says coz i dont want to make fights, if i get angry i wont be able to control myself..thats why i keep quiet.....i dont know what i have to do, how long it will go like this, its being a 3yrs relationship now
2006-10-12 15:55:23 · 11 answers · asked by ann m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Wow, ok you need to break up with this guy!! Anyone who talks to you like that, and looks at other girls in front of you, doesn't deserve to be with you! C'mon, get a grip! Surely you realize that. He's just trying to bait you into getting mad at him and break up with him. So do it.
2006-10-12 15:58:26 · answer #1 · answered by MegW12 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok I don't understand? If he is YOUR boyfriend then why is he looking for other girls to marry? You seriously need to leave this guy. Why are you tolerating his crap? Can't you see that he treats you like dirt? You don't deserve a jerk like him. He is also taking advantage of your patience since you don't say anything to him when he insults you. You're one of a kind who puts up with him. Please do yourself a favor and leave before the situation gets any worse. You will only hurt yourself if you stay with him. I hope you make the right decision. Good luck and best wishes.......
2006-10-12 23:07:14 · answer #2 · answered by * TeXaS cHiCk * 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like your in a abusive situation he could also be cheating i think you should leave him i wouldnt put up with my bf searching n looking up other girls hes looking for someone else maybe hes trying to get a triangle going n if hes been doing this for 3 years if you plan on staying with him "forever" do you want to see him checking out other girls "forever" could you really controll your temper you deserve so much better then being treated like that leave him plz for your sake take care n good luck
2006-10-12 23:06:26 · answer #3 · answered by kandy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Ann m
Your boyfriend is playing with your head. Don't put up with it. He may be short-tempered and you may fear him, but you don't need his putting you down. Some people are like that. They want someone who will take their abuse. And he is abusing you. Get out of the relationship. You don't need it; you don't need him. It can only lead to bad things if you continue in it. You are obviously a fine, sweet girl and you deserve someone who will treat you well. Remember that. Don't accept less.
2006-10-12 23:04:57 · answer #4 · answered by Nightwriter21 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you allowing this man to treat you like crap? You deserve better; the red flags have been waving for some time now; 3 yrs in a situation like that is incredible. Kick him to the curb and do what you have to so that things will be better for you. That man is pathetic!
2006-10-12 22:59:41 · answer #5 · answered by JEFFAVEGRL 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The guy is playing psyche games with you and if he halls of calls you stupid he doesnt respect you either. He doesnt sound like a good catch to me so Id throw him back and find another. There are better fish in the sea.
2006-10-12 22:58:57 · answer #6 · answered by Colin M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out now!!!!!!!!! You deserve more. Why would you stay with him so long. You shouldn't have to change who you are to make him happy. Move on.
Good Luck
2006-10-12 23:12:30 · answer #7 · answered by sweetsnickers 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
run very quickly from this relationship dear, you said first stage of love and hes looking for other girls to marry? and puts you down? i call that verbal abuse. whats the second stage?..............run
2006-10-12 23:03:17 · answer #8 · answered by rae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know he is looking. Ask yourself what you can expect from that?
Obviously he does not want to get serious with you.
So, tell him where to go.
2006-10-12 22:59:28 · answer #9 · answered by noice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he just likes to mess around with the those sites
2006-10-12 22:57:08 · answer #10 · answered by tampabayfriends 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋