He is really nice to me. He is my cousins boss, he is good looking, very sweet, hardworking, and seems to really like me alot. I am somewhat turned on by his age, and every time Im around him he seems to pay close attention to me. I like that. We use to talk alot on the phone. He has a son who is about 19 or 20. He knows a little about whats going on and it doesn't seem to bother him. I like him and how he treats me. I met him out one night(took a friend with me)and he paid for everything that we had that night. I had a good time, I ended up staying the night with him, and sleeping in the same bed with him. I have asked questions before, and at that time I wasn't in the realtionship with the "Terrific Man", he had actually broke things off with me at the time for about 3 weeks. I got asked out to meet this guy, so I did. I ended up getting back into my prior relationship, but I wonder about the older guy. I keep thinking about that night I spent with him. I am attracted to him.
2006-10-12 07:21:25 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I ended up falling asleep the night I stayed with him, we slept in his bedroom, with the door closed. I enjoyed it. I loved sleeping with him, I acted as if I were at my own home, I slept how I would normally sleep. He seems to be very interested in me. He is so good to me. We live in opposite towns, so that is why I stayed with him. I would love to see him more, don;t know what to do. I know he would be good to me and my daughter. I just can't stop thinking about that night and what I wish I would have done.
2006-10-12 07:30:47 · update #1
Why don't you just go for it... Forget the "terrific man", what good is he when he's only stringing you along... The age difference is not such a huge deal, just hang out with the guy and see where it is going. Maybe it's not the right thing for you, and maybe it is. You won't know unless you try. Take it easy, and have fun.
P.S. A friend of mine is married to a guy 23 years older than her, been married for 10 years with two kids. He's a good provider and a great father.
2006-10-12 07:36:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
THAT'S the older guy who was 'serious' about you? Hun, THAT isn't SERIOUS. That is INTERESTED, and not even all that much. That is the THRILL OF THE CHASE. Most men LOVE that part of pursuing a woman.
He is an older man, you are a much younger woman. Older men ADORE younger women. They think they are much easier to deal with, and are able to be molded into what they want, plus they feel that they can sex them every which way from Saturday. AND since you have a child, are single, young, he can be your hero.
One thing you better know about older men/younger women, is that they seem to be very possessive because many times the age gap causes insecurity on their part. The fear is that you will meet a younger man, and either cheat, or leave them for that younger man. They are usually financially stable and secure, but they usually can't compete physically with a younger man so that is where the insecurity lies.
And again.....darlin, it seems to me that you aren't even interested in this MAN so much as you are interested in the the 'lifestyle' of having the kid, the man/husband, the house. The only thing you haven't mentioned is the picket fence, the dog, and the SUV.
You are young. Work on yourself. And raise your daughter. Get your priorities straight, cause right now, they seem kind of crooked. And as far as the older man......keep in mind what I said. Also never forget that everything that glitters ISN'T GOLD.
2006-10-12 07:48:34 · answer #2 · answered by lilac b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So, are you in a new relationship that you're not so sure about and you're wondering if should break it off to explore your feelings for this man who is way older than you? It seems to me like you're really into this older guy. You're geniunely attracted to him and find him fascinating and satisfying to interact with, so the hesitation must be that he is older. You must be wondering if it's wise to even pursue a relationship with someone who has a son that is almost your age? If this is the case, I think you should really let go of that worry. I mean some people who don't know you might judge you when you're out with this guy but we're in an era where Demi Moore can have fruitful relationship with some half her age in front of cameras no less. So, what do you really have to fear? If you like this guy go for it.
2006-10-12 07:31:12 · answer #3 · answered by NutterButter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't see what the problem is unless the older man is married. You are both attracted to each other, he treats you well & hopefully he will be the same with your child. Even if he is 20 years older, enjoy the time you have together for now & make the best of it.
2006-10-12 07:38:19 · answer #4 · answered by Elliem 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is so strange about that, what 46 year old wouldn't want to be with a 26 year old.. Age is just a number, but 20 years is a long stretch (if you are serious just remember that when you a re a young 56, he will be an old 76).
2006-10-12 07:26:12 · answer #5 · answered by sweetie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as your both of legal age, then age is just a number.
If you think he's really interested in you and not just for sex, go for it a nd see what happens. Of course he seems interested in you, because your 20 years younger. It can help an older guy get hard again!
2006-10-12 07:34:08 · answer #6 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I could accept as true with all yet a pair. i'm 24, 25 in June, and that i'm tremendously much... tremendously much... like that. i haven't listened to TOTP for above 5 years, and earlier KT Tunstall's album Drastic dazzling, the final track i offered became Catatonia's suitable Hits. I nevertheless take excitement in it too! unhappy git, I hear you assert.
2016-12-13 07:04:43 · answer #7 · answered by pfarr 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have found out that older men like younger females because
they haven't slept with everybody.
Also, the younger men know that younger females have
less bagage with them. They don't have to worry about any
old feelings coming in the way.
I would go back with the older man.
I like any age. But
you need to follow your heart.
Its not always about who is paying for the meal.
2006-10-12 07:26:48 · answer #8 · answered by anne_9268 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So get with him. Older guys treat you with more respect and know what a woman wants. But dont let him treat ya as a daughter either. Some do that.
2006-10-12 07:24:44 · answer #9 · answered by bradosmom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is stopping you? Go for it. Have fun. I wish a 26 year old woman would take an interest in me. A 36 year old, LOL.
2006-10-12 11:11:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋