What cause a man to have an affair?

Question

What truely make a man want to have an affair?

What causes a woman to have an affair?

are the really the same issues?

Answer 1

Lack of passion excitement and shared interests.

I make sure my man get Oral WHENEVER and WHEREVER he asks me
ANAL too, outdoor sex, I take spankings and bondage and we do threesomes and swinging........ I make sure he gets everything he ever dreamed of WITH ME ..

Answer 2

A man could be just bored with the same sex always, some men simply will try for something new and will come back to their wives more in love than ever..Some men try to to do something new in their sex life and they simply can not get their wife to be involve in something as easy to go on top or go on button..Old people say a woman should be princess, a good friend and a wh....and a what happens with a woman when she has an affair is that she gives her soul, body and brains to the man she is having an affair with..very rarely a woman has an affair like the man to be involve in something new, when she does is mostly for lack of love and care, a man should be a good friend, a good father and also a good lover

Answer 3

If it is a man or woman some of the time they are not getting any at home but the people at their work see them more than anyone else so they start to talk and most of the time are in bed together before they know it sometimes it is love but most of the time it is lust

Answer 4

Im 20 years no affair but I would with Joy!

Answer 5

Men: Boredom, wanting variety and excitement. Not getting sex at home. Insecurity.
Women: Feeling emotionally neglected. Lack of attention from her spouse. Boredom. Insecurity.

Men and women are motivated differently. Men are more physically driven while women are more emotionally driven but what it comes down to is the same thing...cheating is cheating and it shows a lack of commitment on both their parts.

Answer 6

Men truly want respect. Women truly want emotional love. When a man is respected by his wife he will show emotional love to her. When a woman truly loved by her husband she will respect him. When one of these is missing, needs are not met. If the man or the woman omitts their spouses greates need, the relationship is put on a spin cycle without any love or respect. Marriages with unmet needs can lead to extramarital affairs. Communication is so important.

Answer 7

I think Insecurities are a major reason. They want to be wanted and have low self esteem and having people want them makes them feel better about themselves.

On the other hand I think that maybe unhappiness with your partner may lead to it as well. There might be someone out there that treats them better and their partner is the one with the insecurities and are too down on them. Or control them too much.

I think these are the two biggest reasons for infidelity

Answer 8

men and women both have affairs to either get back at their significant other or spouse for something or because their spouse is just not making them happy, they usually become bored with them, these are not the same issues because men and women dont think alike, heaven forbid if they did

Answer 9

Insecurties

Answer 10

Men: Lack of sex, wife gains weight, lack of control in life

Women: Insecurity, husband busy all the time, Needs not being met.

The end

Answer 11

They are either unhappy with you or unhappy with themselves and are trying to find it in other people, and also most men are dogs period due to todays culture in worshiping "players" "pimps" and women are nothing but "hoes" and "biatches" But if you are asking this because it has happened to you just remember this hun, behind every good man is a better woman. :)