Marriage & Divorce - 12 September 2006

okay so this is what happend i am getting married in 4 weeks and we went for our final meeting at the restaurant we are having the reception at..they tell us that they are moving to a different location at the end of the week... now okay we have already sent out the invatations for that location...what should we do, send out new ones or would a note be appropriate for this situation? and do we rsvp this one?

2006-09-12 12:50:49 · 7 answers · asked by Allybaba 2

my private parts when we're being intimate. He will touch my breasts and my butt - but he won't touch the BEST part...he will perform oral though? What gives? Anyone else have this problem?
My "parts" are all normal and yummy when we get it going - and most of the time I'm waxed!!!!

When I ask he says he'd rather see me touch myself??????

2006-09-12 12:44:37 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been with my husband for 14 yrs, i am not in love with him anymore. I feel obligated because i have 4 children, and i am just comfortable that is have someone around. I dont want to be with anyone else but dont feel i want to be with him either, he has a drug problem and we have been through this for a long time he has tried rehab but just keeps going back to the drugs when he gets out. He holds a job and is a nice guy but has cheated on me before too. He hasnt since about 3 yrs ago but i cant forget about the times he has before. Does anyone have any good advice to stay or go and how about to do it. He could really be a great guy and dad if he would just put us first.
What should i do.

2006-09-12 12:38:15 · 18 answers · asked by bradosmom 3

2006-09-12 12:37:42 · 11 answers · asked by kimbriang 1

I have been married for 12 years. My husband was recently caught in a lie about him looking at porn. ( UNderstand it is not the fact he was looking at porn) It was the fact that he lied about it to me. I mean and is excuse was i know i lied that i looked at it and i knew that when i was looking at it, I knew it was disrespectful to you, i dont know why i did it. I have only done it once. It took him 3 wks to come clean on it and then he tried to say it was not porn and it was just models, then he said yes it was porn.
I just dont know how to trust him again i know it may sound silly to you that reading this, but i am a big trust person, he knows that i tell him everything that i do. Even when it dont matter i just do it as a respect thing to him. I am worried that he has been lying about alot more then he has told me the truth on. I am just worried that there is something going on here that i am missing and worried that he lies about alot to me. it is devasting to me.

2006-09-12 12:33:09 · 7 answers · asked by stephanie_30101 1

I have been divorced since 1993 but now that our daughter is older we need to change our custody and child support guidelines. I need to know the legal term for this so i can research and see if i can file without an attorney. Any help you can give is appreciated

2006-09-12 12:31:34 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

How often when you have sex do you like it down and dirty compared to the nice and sweet missionary gaze into their eyes style? And just how down and dirty do you like it?

They can vaporize my questions, but they can't vaporize this womans attitude!!

2006-09-12 12:31:31 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

on his days off he drinks and it bores me if i do leave he blames me that he drinks because i leave him alone,how do i put it in his face that his immaturity is a problem?

2006-09-12 12:31:18 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-12 12:23:34 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

would you go to lunch, or a movie?

2006-09-12 12:21:56 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

we live in the same house after 18 yrs, have two fantstic children, but she wants her freedom, I don't excite her. but it tears me apart not to be with her, i'm falling in love with a woman I don't stand a chance with, what can i do, apart from stop being a wimp.

2006-09-12 12:16:49 · 19 answers · asked by saxons_uk 1

My husband has collected porn magazines, videos, and now pictures from the internet for years. I feel like I'm being compared to his collections and am not interested. It's a turn "off". So why do men need to collect it anyway?

2006-09-12 12:09:54 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-12 11:59:51 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

My Husband won't do anything except go to work (won't even take the initiative to go out) and this wasn't the plan when we got married. He loves to talk about what he's going to do. But, I'm in grad school full time, work full time, and do most of the housework. I end up nagging (and, I hate it). I'm losing respect for him. He rarely screws me. I'm resentful and am not sure if I'll forgive him later for all of this. This has been going on for two years. How long can the marriage go on like this? Is this a normal problem?

2006-09-12 11:55:14 · 29 answers · asked by LaMorena 2

me and my husband have been together for 8 yrs married 3 yrs and lately i have not been sexually fulfilled . How do i tell him ?

2006-09-12 11:47:11 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

The husband of an aquaintence of mine left her for another woman. Now my friend is always bragging about this woman saying, "Oh, I'm sure she's beautiful. Oh, she's very educated and he's so in love with her". She has never even seen this woman. Why does she seem to need to think this woman is so special? I don't get it.

2006-09-12 11:44:58 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-12 11:41:38 · 19 answers · asked by J 1

I've been married 7 years. Since we have a little boy , our relationship seemed going down hill. 4 Months ago, I found a girl's driver license and her photo in his wallet. More than that I found her emails that were very naughty , like" wish you in the bathroom with me, taking shower and helping me with..." I also found out that my husband called that girl every hour , every day. I confronted him and he told me that just purely friendship!!! I tried really hard to accept his explanations but I couldn't because he still locks his cellphone. He hides his car key and wallet as soon he gets home. These make him very suspicious that he is still doing stuff behind my back.
I truly love him and want to work things out, but he seems not working hard enough on our relationship.
What should I do now? I'm thinking hired private detective
Please give me some feedback .
Thanks

2006-09-12 11:40:28 · 15 answers · asked by anh n 1

I left my ex because he was cheating on me with a stripper . I found some pics at his house. Has anyone been threw this.
It really sucks.

2006-09-12 11:36:25 · 16 answers · asked by klaudia 1

I have been knowing my boyfriend since I was 13 (9 years) We were bf/gf then but it was not serious. The relationship got more serious when I was about 16. Well, we talked about the idea of marriage and he gave me my engagement ring on Feb 14, 2004. We were both in school then and weren't thinking about planning a wedding then. We moved in together Apr. 2006. Now he's out of school and I'm in my senior year and i'm ready to start our new life together. We've talked about this together and I asked him when, and he told me that it didnt matter. He knew that I have started making plans for July 2007. After a couple of nights of me complaining to him for staying out with friends to 5, 6, 9am, all of a sudden he says that he isnt ready. the funny thing about this is he told me thru AOL IM! He says that we're not ready because we're too young (21 &23) we need to enjoy life, marriage is a big step and we're not prepared. Is there something that we need to prepare for before we get married?

2006-09-12 11:36:01 · 10 answers · asked by Sparkle 1

I found out 3 mos ago. it was with my cousin. I still love him, but don't trust him. Today I notice that he is using his anonymous email acct. so I followed up by changing his password on his phone bill to see his call logs. Nothing we there, should I tell him that I went snooping or wait until he approach me; was I wrong; what should I do?

2006-09-12 11:35:10 · 7 answers · asked by sassy lady 4

My wife is loosing her hair....How do I approach her on this issue?

2006-09-12 11:24:29 · 18 answers · asked by e_guanajuato 3

Is it bad for a man to ask his wife for a divorce after nearly 30 years of marriage when all they do is exist together? My friend has no sexual relations with his wife anymore. They eat out because she's to lazy to cook. If they eat in it's only because he cooked! She won't clean the house. He does it. He works a full time a job. He cares for the yard. He has no life. They don't fight but they're indifferent to each other mostly. They don't share anything. They don't go anywhere together just to be together. The marriage is loveless. He say's he isn't happy but he feels bad to ask for a divorce because he also isn't mad at her. He just isn't happy. He loves her but he's not in love with her. I suggested counsiling but he say's no. He say's the love isn't recoverable. I don't get it! So, what do you think?

2006-09-12 11:22:58 · 16 answers · asked by Night Wind 4

Just curious. I've noticed that the firs thing womendo after sex is go clean themselves. Is it because the sperm is constantly dripping or why? I like to preserve their scent for as long as I can

2006-09-12 11:21:38 · 13 answers · asked by yo y 1

2006-09-12 11:18:44 · 6 answers · asked by btemscfd645 1

This is actually a follow-up to my revealing clothing question. So this lady at work comes into my office wearing a push up bra and tight top with vast amounts of cleavage showing. She leans over my desk asking for me to explain something. I do my best not to look, but take the occassional sneak peek. She comes back in later wearing a sweater. I was a little embarassed even though nothing was said. Note - This is a woman in her late forties.

2006-09-12 11:17:44 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

So they really work? Did you ever use one?

2006-09-12 11:12:43 · 4 answers · asked by Lea 4

2006-09-12 11:06:29 · 2 answers · asked by docswife 1

Does anyone have a friend of the opposite sex, that they practice their technques on?

I had one, but he has a girlfriend now. She doesn't understand that it's educational!

2006-09-12 11:04:41 · 30 answers · asked by ? 2

I have been with my boyfriend for two years and I am slowly falling apart. He has such a mean streak to him when something is said he doesn't want to hear and is irritated with me in second for the littlest thing. He was abused as a child mentally and mom took the divorce out on him. I dont know if that relates to why he does what he does to me. He disrepects me by calling me names, not being interested in me, or by playing mind games. He even puts down women drivers, says most girls are dumb, and everyone is an idiot!! He is very well educated and left another state to be with me a year and a half ago because he said he couldn't be without me. I don't think there is someone else because he has always been like this and its the same pattern. He will be great for weeks and then something will set him off and he picks me to take his crap out on me. You may ask why I am with him..its because the man I fell in love with was different and now Im in it emotionally. Hes not on drugs.

2006-09-12 11:03:24 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous