Marriage & Divorce - 14 September 2006

there was another women involved but its over. we have been together a very long time.15years. we have such a history and i love him very much. we both caused the faulter of our relationship, my being depressed and working nights, and he trying to be optimistic but not getting any results,ran instead. what to do?

2006-09-14 23:56:49 · 30 answers · asked by nonners1 3

I want to get a divorce because he had cheated behind my back with the other woman. He doesn't give me my daughters. What do I have to do next? To leave the UK without telling him about it. I am afriad of our matter will be brought at the court.

2006-09-14 23:50:40 · 16 answers · asked by Tanja Sсh 1

I've been married to my husband for 7 years, and he has never bought me a birthday present, it annoys me and whenever I tell him that, he gives me the exuse that he would not have a clue what to buy me, because I buy everything that I need myself and that I have got every thing which is true. but whenever it's his or our 2 childrens birthday I always make it special and with lots of presents. By the way we have got the most fantastic relationship ever and are expecting our 3'rd baby and he would never let me needing anything, and everything comes from him (money in the account, house, nice car etc.) exept for my birthday present.

2006-09-14 23:45:11 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous

just curious.......

2006-09-14 23:26:18 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

Due to my wife's illness ia don't have sex since 47 days. Please any one help me who have similar problem.

2006-09-14 23:18:27 · 17 answers · asked by promod 1

2006-09-14 23:14:05 · 34 answers · asked by CK1 2

2006-09-14 23:10:51 · 10 answers · asked by naeemwazir68 1

2006-09-14 23:02:01 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

He is shy in opening up with me ,i feel hurt,

If i ask for sex all the time i feel low and bad , its hurting my soul and heart.

only sensible answers and advise please!!

2006-09-14 22:56:15 · 16 answers · asked by nisha 1

some pretend -and most of the time you hear women talking about lack of satisfaction is when they talk to each other or to their secret lovers

2006-09-14 22:34:09 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband has relationships with other women via the internet with at least on of them saying that he is "...i couldnt ask for a more devoted and understanding friend, a more seductive, enticing, alluring lover". Does anyone agree with me that this is cheating.

2006-09-14 22:11:27 · 20 answers · asked by Born a Fox 4

2006-09-14 22:08:45 · 8 answers · asked by Ms bo-liao 1

my wife and are talking and one of us thinks that it is common not to have sex until marrage and the other think that it is common practice to have sex before marriage also curios as to how many partners if there was sex before marrage

2006-09-14 21:30:22 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Im separated and I want to move on with my life. I was with my husband since I was 13 years old and now that Im not with him I forget how to approach a guy and even how to act when I go on a date. I go online and I dated some of them but It just didn't feel right.

2006-09-14 20:57:00 · 13 answers · asked by Hawaiianlady 1

2006-09-14 20:45:38 · 21 answers · asked by nomedicationman 3

i am married,but my marriage is so bored.I was having this affair with this guy and i ended it recently,because i knew i wasn't going to leave my husband,but i really like this guy and can't stop thinking of him.It was really hard to end it with him,didn't seems like it was going anywhere,but bsides the sex.He says he loves me and wants me to leave my husband for him.Di i make the right decision by ending this affair?

2006-09-14 20:40:46 · 29 answers · asked by lovegirl 2

Havent seen him in about 3 years, since i moved out. Can i file and let the courts handle locating him? Does it still go through (the divorce) if they cant locate him? pretty sure he is in another state.We were only together for 10 months, no kids, or joint property or stuff like that.

2006-09-14 20:38:34 · 8 answers · asked by EileenNellie 2

Im separated from my husband only a few months and the person he cheated on and now that person his with is being unfaithful. anyway I got a phone call from one of my best friend that they say my husbands girlfriend holding hands with someone else and they was smooching. This is not the only person who saw her with someone else so I really don't know what to say when I see my husband. If he only knew the bad side of her which I know he won't. Should I tell him even though he won't understand him. R maybe I should let him see for himself and then he'll know what kind of person she is. Im so confused.

2006-09-14 20:35:54 · 25 answers · asked by Hawaiianlady 1

2006-09-14 20:34:19 · 18 answers · asked by Chuck Dhue 4

I bet just about everyone said yes..i guess i would too if the marriage was in a rut..hehe..THEN WHY DO PPL GET MARRIED? Are all married men bored of their wives? I know of (about 8) married couples that had divorces because their spouse was cheating/cheated. And it was the male 95% of the time. Why do people still get married? Sounds pessimistic but its reality. I am 23 and have had more than 2 offers from married men at my work place..Well they didnt directly asked for sex but what else could a married man want if they ask another girl out? Any married men/women that would have a one night stand knowin' your partner would never find out?

2006-09-14 20:31:29 · 24 answers · asked by julia_lori 1

While having intercourse there is sound how to avoid ? and what is that weating ? There is any problem?

2006-09-14 20:24:27 · 11 answers · asked by Asha 1

My close friend, who happens to be gay, has decided to get married. I have no problem with the fact that he is gay or that he is with his partner, but I am against his marriage for religious reasons.

Do I have choice of not attending the wedding, even though he has been a close friend for a long time? He has just never gotten married before--so this is a new one for me!

What should I do?

2006-09-14 20:20:07 · 11 answers · asked by retorik75 5

we had not seen one another before marriage although we used to talk to one another but,he turned out to be a total insane person arrogent,abusive,short tempered after marriage never cared for me,i have no finacial support from him also,his parents have also stopped talking to me now and as he had a job in hyderbad left me saying that he will arrange for a house and call me but now it has been 4 months neither he calls nor he answers my phone i want to leave him we are muslims can i give him divorce as i now dont want to live with that jerk now.can law help me in this and how should i proceed????

2006-09-14 20:16:36 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

Which method you get more satisfaction in intercourse ? Pushing full inside or pushing on the mouth of the vagina ?

2006-09-14 20:12:59 · 12 answers · asked by Sunil 1

Okay Marriage is a very important decision. According to the catholic church it is a Sacrament. It should only be done one time. Putting that aside look at the divorce rate the children of divorce the boken families and the pain involved.

People marry fast. People do this for many reasons. They want a big party. They are religious and want to have sex without sin. They want to start having children.

It seems that it takes a long time to really know someone. I have had a boyfriend now ex. I had dated him for 2 years and not known who he really was. We spendt tons of time together. I thought I wanted to marry him and now I know that would have been a very bad decison. Some people would have been married after a year which does not seem as fast as some. Sometimes this works and sometimes marriages are full of abuse and compromise. Horrible compromise. There do seem to be people who have good loving families as well.

What is a reasonable time to wait?

2006-09-14 19:59:25 · 4 answers · asked by adobeprincess 6

he was engaged to someone else before our marriage
my husband doesnt share any matter with me

2006-09-14 19:40:19 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

I can't help but wonder why a woman stays in a relationship with a man who is so wrong. These men who cheat, abuse them physically and emotionally, are financially irresponsible... you look at the woman and wonder why she cannot leave the man and with her good looks and charm she could easily get another man, a :good" man who is worth her while, but she still stays with that looser and suffers. What is the logic behind these women staying?

2006-09-14 19:39:03 · 10 answers · asked by fareen 2

Shouldn't he want to be with me whether we are married or not? I just don't think it is fair--why should I have the right to marry, when there are many people who do not have the same right to marry their lovers?

2006-09-14 19:33:22 · 29 answers · asked by retorik75 5

Me and my Hubby have been together for 6 years and we are very much in love and happy together. But I've always been curios about being with another female. Not in a relationship but I've always fantisized about having sex with a female and lately I've been thinking about it alot. I told him about it once but I don't know if he took me seriously or not. He told me once that if I ever cheated on him with another female that it would'nt be cheating because it was with a girl. I still want to be with him ofcourse but I want to experience this sooooo bad! And I want him to know about it. I don't want to sneak behind his back. I guess you could say I want my cake and I want to eat it too. Should I go on with this or should I leave it alone,push my feelings aside and only be with the one I love?

2006-09-14 19:28:42 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

We're together already six yrs. We married because of baby. My husband is a man of boring and no surprise.
When we fall in love aft 5yrs, i already love another guy who younger than me 3 yrs, i know that guy and me are Imposibble cuz he also have a long-term relationship already, but we love each other.
Then, i'm initiative of give up to contact him, because i was tired for the ralationship like this. On the moment, i thinking about break up with my bf (my husband now), but i didn't because i hadn't chance to mention that... after few months, i'm pregnant.
So we married, he married with me for our baby, for me, for our future. but i just for my baby.
During we married i'm very unhappy, my husband treats me very well, but... i really dun know what to do... because before married i dun love him anymore...
And now that guy break up with his gf and look for me, asked me together with him...
Who can guide me...

2006-09-14 19:24:41 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous