Marriage & Divorce - 14 September 2006

In my case...
My ex husband and I were living with his grandmother because the sonofabitch couldn't hold down a job and support our two kids right. One night, while he actually was working, he comes home and notifies me that he's moving in one of his "co-workers". The poor thing was abused by her current boyfriend Blah Blah and had no where to go (yeah right). I told him that was not going to happen and I gave him a choice...
Either she does not move in or My children and myslef move out.
Well I'm divorced now so you guess his choice. I left the house that night and went to stay with his aunt, walked into the grandma's house the next morning and caught them in bed together with my 3yr and 1yr babies in the room next door. I was divorced 2wks later under the grounds of adultry. Having his grandmother and aunt testify in court on my behalf didn't help his situation any. 10 pnts. to the person who can beat that!
What kind of person would throw that right in their spouse's face?

2006-09-14 10:15:24 · 10 answers · asked by Bridezilla 2

She is 51 Iam 41 and it is weird she does not care to hardly ever have sex anymore. We have been married 11 years and she is not the type to cheat but I am starting to wonder??

2006-09-14 10:15:13 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have no problem paying back the money which was supposably 13,000 dollars my problem is this they are charging me 17,000 dollars in intrest which brings the total to 30,000 dollars and the intrest keeps adding up at like 20% of the remainder of what i owe at the end of each year this is highway robbery!!!!! worse than a loan shark would charge!! how can they get away with this? i have been paying them back for 20 yrs now I have payed my child support and don't owe my ex any more money . my son is 25yrs old is there any way Ican put a stop to this highway robbery ? or at least stop the intrest from continuing please help me . I just don,t feel I should have to pay so much morein intrest than she got from them in the first place I,m not trying to get out of paying the money back I just don,t think I should have to pay so much more than what they gave her in the first place please help if you can

2006-09-14 10:04:48 · 6 answers · asked by tazmatic1 4

Is it possible to be best friends with a member of the opposite sex?
What if they are both married? Does that change anything?

2006-09-14 10:04:27 · 30 answers · asked by texasgirl5454312 6

I'm about to choke him (not really). He's completely gone overboard with how he looks and is mad at me because I won't get on the bandwagon. It's about to destroy our marriage.

2006-09-14 09:59:33 · 12 answers · asked by i have no idea 6

2006-09-14 09:59:31 · 13 answers · asked by yes, it's me 2

What type of pastor counsels a couple who are 17 and 18 yrs old (with a new baby) once and then marries them?
Is this ethical? how? I ask because that what my husband of 13 years and I did and this marriage cant possibly have God's seal of approval. I didn't know any better then and our parents wern't part of our lives not actively anyway. (note we didnt marry until he turned 18)

2006-09-14 09:58:33 · 2 answers · asked by ms_sweet_real 2

I have been with my boyfriend for three years now. We are 26 and 29 we are not getting any younger he has been married in the past and I think he is scared to do it agin. We have a 1 year old dautgher togther. And we have lived together for two years now. I am so ready to get married how do I let him know with out me haveing to ask him myself. I want him to ask me.

2006-09-14 09:55:08 · 20 answers · asked by Mrs E 3

2006-09-14 09:55:03 · 3 answers · asked by pigforrent03055 1

What type of pastor counsels a couple who are 17 and 18 yrs old (with a new baby) once and then marries them?
Is this ethical? how?

2006-09-14 09:52:49 · 4 answers · asked by ms_sweet_real 2

please dont bash me i have been with my husband for 7-8 years married for alomost 1yr. he has no sex drive I want it more than he does.

2006-09-14 09:51:10 · 19 answers · asked by Rebecca H 1

2006-09-14 09:47:43 · 6 answers · asked by Kabul Cowboy 1

When a guy talks on the phone in another room and then leaves for about 10-15 minutes and then when he gets home is very affectionate when He is NOT an affectionate person any other time and he gives his wife alot of compliments.

2006-09-14 09:46:14 · 15 answers · asked by sweetlittlemama2006 4

I am so sad. After reading some answers to the other questions where men complain about not getting sex enough from their wives, I realize what my problem is. It's not that I hate sex, I just don't feel an emotional connection to my husband anymore. I love my husband, he is a very good man. He works hard and takes good care of me. But for whatever reasons, I do not feel emotionally connected to him and it causes me to avoid sex. Why do men withdraw themselves from their wives? What the heck am I supposed to do to get things right again?

No hateful responses please.

2006-09-14 09:45:04 · 10 answers · asked by HazelEyes 5

2006-09-14 09:44:32 · 23 answers · asked by marine_one1996 1

2006-09-14 09:43:33 · 35 answers · asked by SHASON 1

My husband and i need somewhere that is relaxing, and fun! We need to spend time together and have fun! I am willing to go anywhere, just to get away ! Not to expencive ! Does any one have any ideas

2006-09-14 09:39:33 · 13 answers · asked by bdmrplemons 2

what if im an illegal immigrant?like i overstayed here and i got married during my stay here?

2006-09-14 09:36:53 · 6 answers · asked by jc_pox09 1

2006-09-14 09:36:08 · 16 answers · asked by budget strapped 3

I have been trying to get a divorce for 5 months now. When we went to a temorary hearing, my husband got visitation rights but child support has been held in abeyance. I need money to support my child. My child still has needs no matter how he and I feel about each other. He has never given a lot for her support but every little bit would help.

2006-09-14 09:34:00 · 3 answers · asked by smiley 1

Why are they your ex then if you want them sooo badly??? Stop stringing along somebody else

2006-09-14 09:33:46 · 5 answers · asked by Raineybaby 4

My wife has just come home from work (9.00pm) and now she is cooking my dinner, if she had prepared the meal before she went to work this morning she would have only had to heat it and I could have had it by now, unorganised.... are all women like this ?

2006-09-14 09:31:15 · 56 answers · asked by banditblue1200 4

what do I do to plan a wedding for just 10 guests?

2006-09-14 09:27:38 · 14 answers · asked by Junior 2

Its been 8yrs.that i have been married and i still think about my ex at least once a day. how did you get over your ex-love? help...

2006-09-14 09:22:36 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-14 09:20:33 · 28 answers · asked by truckcct1234 1

Seems to me it happens a LOT. Even when the husband is fully supportive of sending money to family overseas.

2006-09-14 09:15:06 · 7 answers · asked by Jeffrey B 2

My mother passed away years ago. Does the new wife get a title, officially? She's not technically a stepmom, I don't think.....

2006-09-14 09:13:31 · 10 answers · asked by Jim Bo 1

2006-09-14 09:03:34 · 41 answers · asked by oyster bay bob 3

My husband said maybe we should get separated the other day out of no where! What do you think could have caused this. Nothing has changed in our relationship. We have two little girls as well...Any ideas as to what I should do?

2006-09-14 08:59:13 · 21 answers · asked by amandaholes19 2

If a few months before you were to get married, the "love of your life" came back looking for you "out of the blue" what would you do? You do love your future spouse but you and this person were separated by circumstances beyond your control many years before, you never really did stop loving her and missed her A LOT for many years and now is like she "came out of the grave" and you are VERY confused. Is not an easy situation is it? How would you handle it?

2006-09-14 08:52:49 · 50 answers · asked by Anonymous