Marriage & Divorce - 14 September 2006

2006-09-14 19:24:21 · 13 answers · asked by Career Searchin 1

We're together already six yrs. We married because of baby. My husband is a man of boring and no surprise.
When we fall in love aft 5yrs, i already love another guy who younger than me 3 yrs, i know that guy and me are Imposibble cuz he also have a long-term relationship already, but we love each other.
Then, i'm initiative of give up to contact him, because i was tired for the ralationship like this. On the moment, i thinking about break up with my bf (my husband now), but i didn't because i hadn't chance to mention that... after few months, i'm pregnant.
So we married, he married with me for our baby, for me, for our future. but i just for my baby.
During we married i'm very unhappy, my husband treats me very well, but... i really dun know what to do... because before married i dun love him anymore...
And now that guy break up with his gf and look for me, asked me together with him...
Who can guide me...

2006-09-14 19:23:28 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hi ladies, can u clarify for me cuz my gf won't?
What's the difference between female's ejac***tion & female's squ!rt?

I've tried to ask my gf but she's kinda look at me w/ an embarrassed smile.

I've noticed that everytime that I give her an or*l s*x, I see a clear milky, sticky fluid coming out. So is it a female's ejac***tion or squ!rt? (By the way she & I r the only each other's partner)

Thanx to all the ladies in advance for sharing ur knowledges!!

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2006-09-14 19:15:34 · 17 answers · asked by Infinite 4

My lying ex (if you've read my prev posts) is taking advantage of his new status as married (yes, he married the woman he just met, saved him from homelessness and possible deportation), and gave notice that he will now exercise his right to take our almost 4 yr old daughter (who is forced to call his new bride mama)for his weekend visitation. my stomach hurts and she will be away from me for the first time since she was born, in a strange house (he moved into her big home), with no contact to me from 6pm fri to 6pm sunday. Stupid Texas laws, i feel like I have no rights, he doesn't deserve her, the unemployed alcoholic used to ignore her before, now he's playing father of the year. How am i going to handle this weekend w/o her? You can only do so much housework and stuff to keep busy. I don't feel like going out with my lady friends and you can totally forget a male friend for a long long ltime after this guy. I just want to curl up and tranquilize myself to sleep until she's back--

2006-09-14 19:12:17 · 7 answers · asked by nowisthetime 2

so now were divorced, what can i do to make the hurting go away?

2006-09-14 19:11:38 · 14 answers · asked by againstallodds 1

Would you 1 not say anything?
Two, confront her?
Three ask, for a divorce?
Or ask what you can do to fix the problem?

2006-09-14 19:10:42 · 23 answers · asked by Steve R 1

My girlfriend and I of nearly 4 ½ years are getting engaged, and I want to ask her father for her hand in marriage. I know him pretty well, as she and I have grown up together - we both turned 18 a couple weeks ago. I just want to do this right, as it’s a once in a lifetime event. I was wondering if you all had any idea’s on were I should ask him (without her knowing about it) - and that possibly gives him a heads up as to what is going on. I would hate to catch him off guard, though I seriously doubt I will. How should I tell him? I don’t want it to seem like I’m asking for his permission, as we are both adults - but I want him to know that I respect him and his blessing matters. However, no matter what he says, I will be marrying her. How should I word it? Please don’t say ‘I want to marry your daughter’, cause that doesn’t help. Anyone who’s been in this situation before, please, help me out! Even if you haven’t, I could use the advice!

2006-09-14 19:09:43 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-14 19:06:28 · 13 answers · asked by lipi 1

My boos get pain while my B/f pressing. What other women will do for it? he likes pressing and kissing the boobs

2006-09-14 19:04:09 · 17 answers · asked by Asha 1

2006-09-14 19:00:08 · 14 answers · asked by sheba 1

ive been with more females than women. When my husband wasnt in prison it was ok to have a 3 some but now if im alone with a girl its cheating.?

2006-09-14 18:57:54 · 14 answers · asked by Amy s 1

Does my husband really want a divorce if he is still wearing his ring?

2006-09-14 18:53:38 · 5 answers · asked by peace1274 1

I did everything for my wife when we were dating, I even bought her a new car a while back, supported her through college and law school. She had a high paying job she just got quit that she got right before got married. She was made triple my salary and saved up money and quit her job. Now when I need help, she insists we have seperate accounts, and won't even help me out now that it is me who needs a new car, she dosn't even pay a lot of the bills, she doesn't even help out for the mortgage on the house and insists that I am the " bread" winner, while she goes out and gets her nails done, buys expensive clothing, and purses.

2006-09-14 18:50:10 · 16 answers · asked by Brian P 1

I went through the Lucinda Basset 15 week program and it has helped me alot but I'm still struggling with it. I'm in a year old relationship with someone I love deeply and anxiety has gotten in the way. We get into situations where I will overreact because I don't know how to communicate my feelings. For example we may misinterperate each other and in the process of trying to explain myself I may become withdrawn. He gets mad because I'm not saying anything then tries to get an answer from me. That's when I'll overreact and scream out something like "leave me alone". He's not perfect either and he knows. Anyone with anxieties have advice? Does anyone living in New York city know of a place where I can get affordable therapy or "good" therapy for this?

2006-09-14 18:22:33 · 9 answers · asked by babylove 1

My husband is a great guy in most respects. Most of his flaws are just petty annoyances as I'm sure mine are to him. HOWEVER, I have never met a more lazy person in my life! He lays around, watches TV, reads "Sports Illustrated", talks on the phone, etc. But never, and I mean NEVER helps me around the house or with the kids. I have to beg him to mow the yard or take out the trash and usually I have to end up doing it because he doesn't. I've talked to him about this, yelled at him about this, cried about it...I'm wore out and he's not hearing me. We have 4 kids and a big house to maintain. I've threatened to call a maid service to help me out from time to time, but he says he doesn't want to spend the money. I just can't do it alone anymore. How can I get through to him that a marriage is supposed to be a team? (Please don't tell me to stop doing the cleaning, etc. because I would go crazy living in a dump!)

2006-09-14 17:55:38 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous

he has temporary custody and if it is his weekend with the boys he will not allow them to do anything in the city where I live because he considers it doing me a favor. So they had to miss a b-day party

2006-09-14 17:54:34 · 9 answers · asked by sweetsal 4

young woman with 3 children was badly absued by soon to be x husband and does not have a place to turn

2006-09-14 17:50:31 · 10 answers · asked by wolfeydifantasygurl 1

what would make you cheat on your significant other

2006-09-14 17:47:41 · 11 answers · asked by firered 2

No Kids. 8 year marriage. Own a house with $124K owed on the loan, appraising (she claims) for $150K. She wants the house, so she'll need to buy me out, as I understand it. She also says that to buy me out, she must pay half of the equity, which would be roughly $26K, minus realtors' fees of 5% (our guy would only take 2%). She also includes other fees that would bring the net amount to about $15K. Thus, to buy me out, she says, she'd owe me $7,500.

I aim to keep our car, so I'd need to pay her $4000; we'd also split her 401K ($2000 when cashed out). The way I see it, that means I should net $4,500 from the house + 401K ($7500 + $1000) minus the car ($4000). But she seems to think that she can essentially "force" me to accept property instead of cash. In other words, she could give me $4500 worth of furniture and appliances instead.

I don't want that; I NEED the money. This seems wrong to me. Is it? Is anything else in this scenario wrong? Thanks

Again - this is in Utah.

2006-09-14 17:38:43 · 7 answers · asked by johndietzel 2

I hear a lot of people talking about "Open Marraige". I hear a lot of people in East Asia discussing this,What does it mean. Please let me know what this means as to me it just seems like another form of adultery/fashionable "crap idelogy" introduced by Western culture.

2006-09-14 17:35:46 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

My friend just moved in together with her on and off again boyfriend. Her family and friends was kind of against it but, she still moved in with her boyfriend. When a couple moves in with one another do they face more diffculties than married couple do?

2006-09-14 17:25:44 · 30 answers · asked by sandysweet 2

My wife has almost no sex drive. I have tried all kinds of things like dimin the lights or lighting some candles.i tried some foreplay and still nothing. It hurts her really bad when i try to go in. What am i doin wrong?? Any help would be great. SERIOUS ANSWERS ONLY PLEASE

2006-09-14 17:16:23 · 36 answers · asked by fastacc0rd 2

from other state where he goes on business purpose or whatever... but never turnup? but after a 6 long hours when his wife calls him up he says he did not find the time to call he forgot to call? Is he really telling the truth? what must be the strong reason? But his 2 yr little one called him up 2 times since morning but he never was interested to talk saying that he is busy with his work.

2006-09-14 17:09:53 · 9 answers · asked by kiran123 2

my boyfriend and i wont to go to the court house to get marride but i need to jind out how much it will cost us we are in mcminn county tn

2006-09-14 16:39:13 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I email and talk to a coworker on a daily basis. He is coming to a work meeting we are having in two weeks. He wants to go our to dinner, but I do not know if I should. I know I do not want to have a sexual encounter with him. The connection we have is more emotional than anything else. I have mentioned this guy to my husband and I told him I talk to him regularly and that he was going to be in town. Should I not go to dinner with this guy?? And more than anything is this cheating??? Feeling that sense of closeness with someone you hardly know??? How can that be??

2006-09-14 16:33:11 · 24 answers · asked by estrella 1

2006-09-14 16:29:01 · 34 answers · asked by mongo862001 5

2006-09-14 16:20:33 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

Equally, he is no angel himself as he also has extramarital relationship. Somehow they have this mutual understanding since they are aware of each's infidelity. Shall I advise them or just mind my own business?

2006-09-14 16:20:01 · 19 answers · asked by fir 1

my wife is interesting enough..but sometimes she just wont stfu...plzz tell me how to make her stfu?!

2006-09-14 16:19:47 · 7 answers · asked by *!Rocky!* 1

I'm still in love with my ex husband and he still tells me he loves me too we still have a sexual relationship but he is living with someone and she's pregnant due nov. what should i do?

Real Answers Please

2006-09-14 16:16:40 · 18 answers · asked by alew 3