Equally, he is no angel himself as he also has extramarital relationship. Somehow they have this mutual understanding since they are aware of each's infidelity. Shall I advise them or just mind my own business?
2006-09-14 16:20:01 · 19 answers · asked by fir 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Much as I would like to mind my business, it hurts to see their children bear the mental brunt each time they squabble over petty things.It's just a matter of time and Im seeing obvious cracks in the family. Each is trying to show the other their skills in hooking up other partners
2006-09-14 16:51:48 · update #1
You say they have a mutual understanding, then they already know, right? Either way, just stay out of it. People always blame the messenger!
2006-09-14 16:22:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I reckon that you should mind your own business, if they have this alleged 'understanding' then you cant really say or do anything except sit back and wait for the fire works.......... and hopefully learn a few lessons on what not to do in a relationship.
2006-09-14 23:31:20 · answer #2 · answered by tracy r 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For your own peace of mind you need to drop the hint that she is cheating. If he doesn't care you are off the hook. I did not know that my ex was having an affair for two years. I wish someone who knew about it would have told me. Then I could have made up my own mind about what to do.
2006-09-14 23:23:30 · answer #3 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would mind my own business. He cheats she cheats and maybe it's an open relationship or maybe not. What's good for the goose is good for the gander why do you care did you tell her when you knew he was cheating or are the morals only forwarded on the woman....
2006-09-14 23:23:27 · answer #4 · answered by lol_des 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mind your own buisness. If you tell on her and they break up, you are the bad guy. If you tell and they stay together, you are the bad guy that talked bad about the guy's wife. Plus if they both know what the deal is they like it that way.
2006-09-14 23:24:22 · answer #5 · answered by karicat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep your nose out of that one, sounds like they have it figured out, and if you step in and start accusing, it will blow up in your face. Sounds like either they have an open relationship, which isn't really your business, or they aren't ready to face the issues. Either way, your brining it up will only turn around and bite you in the ***.
2006-09-14 23:23:28 · answer #6 · answered by n_of49p 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mind you own business, If you get involved it will make the friend ship awkward.
2006-09-14 23:22:22 · answer #7 · answered by loveorlust06 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
normally things like that would end a good friendship
i would tell the girl that hes cheating on his wife with
and if nothing changes then i would
confront your friends husband and let him know that you are iwlling to tell his wife if he doesn't stop cheating and if that doesn't work
i would just mind my business and try to be the good friends that you are to this woman
2006-09-15 00:47:39 · answer #8 · answered by jane doe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you say they know and both do this,it is not their problem!
some people pick different life styles and even though its not for you,it is for them!!
its hard to be friends sometimes with people who live so much differently than you,but if you want the friend,ignore what they do in their bedroom,and other peoples bedrooms! LOL
if it doesnt bother them,ignore it!!good luck
2006-09-14 23:24:21 · answer #9 · answered by adc7492 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is better not to mention anything, considering that it seems that they both know what is going on. It seems that they are being mature about it amd are not hurting anybody. If this is what they like, then just let them be.
2006-09-14 23:26:29 · answer #10 · answered by babeedoll694 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋