2006-09-14 19:00:08 · 14 answers · asked by sheba 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i have some thing in my mind as solution ! But what do u advise about my next move?
2006-09-14 19:04:10 · update #1
hey,
hope that didnt happen to you but i'll be so mad i;ll throw a rage and smack everything in the bedroom then SCREAMMM.
after that ill ask for him to apologise and wish me a happy birthday.
haha :)
2006-09-14 19:03:25 · answer #1 · answered by candy gian 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Obviously, I would feel bad -- and usually I would say there is no excuse for it, but you have to look at the circumstances and take into count what has been happening in life. Have they been working stressfully long hours ? Sometime out of their control that would have caused them to forget ? How long have you been with them and have they remembered your birthday in the past? If this is a unusual occurance, maybe you can forgive them -- but make sure they make it up to you for a LONG time !
If there is no good excuse -- then boot them to the door, of course after you have made them suffer for a good amount of time ! ;-)
2006-09-14 19:04:33 · answer #2 · answered by mama 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't get angry at this person. Sometimes people forget things, it is not really their fault. You need to talk to this person and ask them what is going on in their life right now...see what is on their mind...maybe you will find out what made them miss your birthday. I'm sure that it is a misunderstanding and that they would be more than happy to make it up to you.
2006-09-14 19:06:42 · answer #3 · answered by Natty137 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously u ll feel bad .....
bt its better u know the reason y dat person forgot ....
its just dat u expect a lot and u r nt gettin it back .... its jus a mere hick up ... try to dig in and find the solution ....
2006-09-14 19:05:17 · answer #4 · answered by Ankur 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never, ever make someone a priority in your life when you are an option in theirs..........sounds like yours is pretty self centered to forget something as important as your birthday. I hope you see this for what it is and don't carry this relationship any farther......believe me it only gets worse as the years and responsibilities increase.
2006-09-14 19:07:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Expactation is always a big problem and most of the time its the reason for breakup in relations and we should avoid it
2006-09-14 19:08:50 · answer #6 · answered by singh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It hurts, but if it was an accident and they do something to make it up move on. Do something after the fact.
2006-09-14 21:23:39 · answer #7 · answered by adobeprincess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not married you are giving it to him for free. He doesn't respect you because you are easy and needy. Answer is easy: Get out. Go back to mom. Grow up
2006-09-14 19:06:42 · answer #8 · answered by ALWAYS GOTTA KNOW 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would get really mad becuz if that person can forget ur b-day then obviously u dont mean that much to them.
2006-09-14 19:03:28 · answer #9 · answered by brittineyc 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
feel sick, actually it happened to me and w/ my bestfriend, its my bday and he's the one who forgot to greet me or send me any greetings on that day.....so sad,; but when he expressed how regretful and resentful he was, after asking for some apologies, then ,.....i accepted, anyway, thats what friends are for, we may have our own ups and downs,.......but it hurts u know, it really hurts,,,,,,,huhuhuhu!!! :(
2006-09-14 19:27:07 · answer #10 · answered by candee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋