Marriage & Divorce - 14 September 2006

as you read through my questions, i told you that my husband cheated on me with a hooker and everyday i am still hurting from what he did. somehow he gets irritated that i keep telling him i am hurt.. i am not mad.. i am just hurt... i want to forget but its not easy. is there something wrong with me? what can i do to not bug him of my pain? how can this pain go?? :(

2006-09-14 13:48:35 · 39 answers · asked by addiee 3

or are a lot of your friends going through a divorce?

I have had three great friends in the last two months tell me this. It's tough for me to hear and just saddens me.

2006-09-14 13:46:54 · 13 answers · asked by xxx 4

I admitted that I was wrong. I don't understand.

2006-09-14 13:39:38 · 18 answers · asked by pillabrut 2

my wife and i have been together for 7 years. we have kids. its best to let ya know first hand she is bipolar. ANYWAYS, she left me and the kids @ the end of february. she's been gone since then. she sees my kids every now and then. since febr., she has been involved in adultry-we are still leagally married-and drugs. she is leaving for chicago this saturday with a "friend". she has admitted to havin sex with this guy. she says she is going there for 3 weeks to get clean--whatever. she says her and this guy are just friends. hes a bum and uses her for her car and cash.
i have ignored her the last 6 weeks. ive been getting myself together, id like to think so. im havin really bad regrets tonight. after all that has gone on, i dont want her to leave. how messed up is that? i dont want her back the way she is.ive told her this. at the same time, i dont want her w/ anyone else either. she says she dont want a divorce. im sure i look like an idiot. but i do love my wife. what do i do?

2006-09-14 13:37:47 · 22 answers · asked by tnkster71 2

2006-09-14 13:29:29 · 26 answers · asked by tnkster71 2

I AM LOSING EVERYTHING.WHAT IF I PUT RAW SHRIMP IN A TOILET PAPER HOLDER AND HE TEARS APART THE BATHROOM TO FIND THE SMELL? CAN HE SUE ME?. REVENGE WOULD BE SO SWEET!

2006-09-14 13:23:06 · 33 answers · asked by ANGIE R 1

Just curious and kinda bored.

2006-09-14 13:22:27 · 23 answers · asked by Mr. Naughtiness 2

Women who are heterosexual must find a man to define themeselves. A Catch-22. You hate men but you must find one before the biological clock stops ticking.

2006-09-14 13:20:12 · 16 answers · asked by Smile 2

Just curious.

2006-09-14 13:19:49 · 18 answers · asked by Mr. Naughtiness 2

Just curious.

2006-09-14 13:18:21 · 8 answers · asked by Mr. Naughtiness 2

My husband filed for divorce a few days ago. This is copied/pasted from the web site that I saw it on.
MOTION AND AFFIDAVIT FOR TEMP ORDER WITHOUT ORAL HEARING. SUPPORT WORKSHEET. AFFIDAVIT OF INCOME, EXPENSES AND FINANCIAL DISCLOSURE. AFFIDAVIT IN COMPLIANCE WITH 3127.23 ORC. GROUP HEALTH INS. AFFIDAVIT.
I'd like to know what that all means and what is a classification form? He also filed a temporary restraining order against me. I talked to someone from the court today and he said that I have 17 days from the day I receive my paperwork in the mail to also file for temporart custody. But how does it work without an oral hearing? And when will it be decided? Also, can he somehow get custody before that? I have physical custody of the child right now. I am not giving him up to him. Can I delay this by not signing for the forms? It is by certified mail. And what happens if I don't sign for the forms? Will I get in trouble? Also, he has threatened me stepfathers rights?? What is that?

2006-09-14 13:12:31 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

My man LOVES oral and has never complained about how I do it however he has asked me to go deeper and every time I try I start to gag. He is not what you would call large more like average 5 1/2" to 6" and I can almost get in all the way in but then that darn gag relfex kicks in. I would really like to surprise him and get it down my throat any ideas how I can do this?

2006-09-14 13:09:48 · 10 answers · asked by hope4best 1

My mother was friends with this boy for one year in jr. high, she liked him.

They are 50 years old now.

About 5 years ago she found him and they started spending a lot of time together.

They talk on the phone all of the time, go to dinner, spend the entire saturday together, go to the movies, etc.

My doesn't have a boyfriend and this guy is married with 3 kids!

His wife of 15 years hates my mom and recently told her husband to cut of their friendship or she would leave him.

My mom said they weren't cheating (nothing physical), but this guy was spending more time with my mom than his wife and kids!

I think his wife should have left his loser cheating ***!

What do you think?

Is it cheating?

2006-09-14 12:58:39 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-14 12:57:19 · 12 answers · asked by lvwire 2

My wife just isn't horny or responsive to my needs sexually and intimately. Everything changed since we had a child. Their is something in her vagina that sits at the opening and when i put in my penis she says it hurts. A doctor told her this may go away if she has surgery or another child. what should we do cuz i am ready to cheat

2006-09-14 12:52:41 · 18 answers · asked by sweetone 1

Im stuck in Marriage "Limbo" so2speak. Have been together 10 years, 4 kids, house, cars, etc. I work fulltime, take kids 2 school & there activities, pay all mortgage/utility bills, buy groceries 4 home, etc. Not perfect guy by any means, but id like 2 think ive provided a decent living for them. Over the past year ive had a ton of issues: wife getting permanent work injury, my cousin physically abusing my wife's sister & slashing my tires, wife's confessed drug use, deal with both sister in-law's who dont work, cant stand on there own 2 feet (they borrowed our car, money, dropped off there kids, etc.) 1 sister-in-law has not paid me back over $400. Wife wants to keep helping them, I do not.. so we argue. I have not spoken to her sisters in 2-3 months now. We are 2 totally different people, but lately as worse as ever. Not sure where 2 go, this is all ive known for over 10 years. This is worst year of my life id say. I want 2 leave then, then I dont. Just hoping 4 sum good advice.

2006-09-14 12:52:14 · 10 answers · asked by justaguy 1

I really can't imagine a six year old just creating a lie like that.

2006-09-14 12:51:45 · 33 answers · asked by dj1973 5

i need to talk to some one on musslim marraige and divorce from sryia, or who really knows sryia laws.

2006-09-14 12:43:08 · 2 answers · asked by opal h 1

you know like Jon Benet (he was married to Halle Berry and was always sleeping with other chicks)
Is a sex addiction real and is that what may cause someone to cheat?

2006-09-14 12:39:28 · 38 answers · asked by Ms. Bootylicious 2

2006-09-14 12:28:32 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

That is if you are married

2006-09-14 12:25:32 · 30 answers · asked by DolPek A 2

I am pregnant 3 1/2 months and naturally went to call my bf well i did and guess who answered the cell phone i was shocked to relaize the woman i was speaking to was his wife I HAD NO IDEA HE WAS MARRIED!!!!I feel heart broken i really love this man i am 19 years old and he is 24 . She told me they have been married for 7 years and to verify this she sent me a copy of the marriage certificate and told me never to call again. What do i do i love him?!! And he says they have been separated for two years now that i have spoken to him and he was just there to move the rest of his stuff out of garage and left his cell phone there by mistake?

2006-09-14 12:23:46 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

for example he will tell them I had him mow the lawn and do yard work when in fact we both did the work before we hired someone else to do it and he complains to them about how I used up all the ink in the printer to frint flyers for advertisement this is only the things i found out, I can only imagine what else he tells them, no wonder they don't like me, and I also wonder if he is doing it just to get them to dislike me, I'm totally confused and I thought my husband would stand by me no matter what, it sounds petty but what should i do , am i wrong ?
is this normal? I don't talk bad about my husband to my family, i just think is wrong.

what should I do?

2006-09-14 12:17:57 · 42 answers · asked by mari r 3

come give me the car so i could get grocerys and diapers and such.... he left at 4 his work is 10 minutes away and he said he wasnt going anywhere else... he does this all the dam* time!!!! people may think im a bi*ch for being pi**ed but i dont care....what do i do to calm down...this is just so hard to deal with this all the time...! (he goes over to his ex girlfriends parents house (hes friends with her mom and so am I sometimes after work also WHEN HE KNOWS I HAVE SOMEWHERE I GOT TO BE (but i cant get there cuz he has the stupid car!!!!)

2006-09-14 12:15:48 · 8 answers · asked by ashleyhaddon 3

2006-09-14 12:15:47 · 24 answers · asked by robert8481 2

And you love your wife with all your heart or so you tell her.

2006-09-14 12:13:40 · 8 answers · asked by Questions&Answers 4

what can i do my wife desires sex from me i havent told her i feel like my performance is satisfactory to my standards she is satisfied but i know i can do better just thinking iam in a rough stretch maybe stress or feeling the effects of getting older the question is do you think she will understand even tho she feels good about my performance and what are sum ways i can improve my performance get it back 2 what it use 2 be

2006-09-14 12:05:21 · 16 answers · asked by OFFICER CAMPBELL 2

Usually is us as wife's, but sometimes the husband ....
But I know several friends that take away all the pay check from the husband & spend the money shopping for her or kids & the husband only keeps $20 for gas $10 to spend until next pay check ...Is this fair ????
If both husband & wife work then the money should be spend because is both $$$ to use on house payment or rent & house bills & to spend for the family needs... I'm incharged at home of the bills, groceries, clothes, & to save money too!!! & my hubby has access to a credit card for emergencies but we both share our $$$ for family needs as it should be .... Or how does it has to be, who needs to be handle the $$$$ & should husband keep only certain $$$ for better control ???

2006-09-14 11:49:53 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

What I mean by 'forced' is my wife and I only got married because she got pregnant. Me, feeling the best thing to do was to marry and take care of her and my child. This was over 13 years ago. Now we constantly bicker and argue but because of my deep family values I stuck it out for the sake of my child. The thought of another man raising my child makes me cringe. Now I am at the end of my rope. We constantly bicker but we're never physical. Just yelling like everyone else.

I feel like putting up w/ this is eating me alive. I don't know what to do. My friends all say that staying together for the sake of the child is the absolute worse thing you can do.

2006-09-14 11:47:29 · 16 answers · asked by kimchee_boi 3

god love never fades and i think he chose it that way to teach us love is eternal so how in the world can married people or couples love each other today and be out of love tommorrow i have read sum crazy questions from couples for example if he cant get it up how do i divorce him or i am gonna divorce her since we not having sex people i know certain things in relationships are difficult and make you unhappy but i dare you to look in the mirror and say u never upset god but he has stood by you and loved you when you didnt deserve it so why cant we do that for our mates yes i will admit you open ypourselves up for heartache and to be stepped on but are we better than the top man himself

2006-09-14 11:46:30 · 4 answers · asked by OFFICER CAMPBELL 2