sex question?

Question

what can i do my wife desires sex from me i havent told her i feel like my performance is satisfactory to my standards she is satisfied but i know i can do better just thinking iam in a rough stretch maybe stress or feeling the effects of getting older the question is do you think she will understand even tho she feels good about my performance and what are sum ways i can improve my performance get it back 2 what it use 2 be

Answer 1

of course she will understand she is your wife and the best way to spice up your sex life is talk to your wife about, if you can decide something different to do together it will it more exciting because what ever you do you will do it together

Answer 2

Tell her how you feel. Tell her you want both of you to stay satisfied and are worried that age may be affecting your performance a little. She will probably be very willing to find ways to get back 2 what it use 2 be.

Answer 3

I don't think age in itself is a factor - my boyfriend is 46 and he performs better than most men half his age! I think the trick is to make sure you're doing what feels good for both of you - if you worry it'll be over too fast, slow it down, change positions, prolong the foreplay. We like long, slow, oily, full-body massages....

When we have a weekend without the kids, we're at it 3 or 4 times a day. If Viagra entered our relationship, it might kill us!!!

Answer 4

I am guessing that you are not getting satisfied and she is.

Ask her what some of her fantasies are that you could fulfill together. I think you just need some creativity to put some fire in your bed. Perhaps you can spend more time on her to really get her excited. You may need to feel her desire for your body.

Keep communication lines open in the bed. You need to talk to your wife about your concern.

Answer 5

This is what my husband did for me. REAL rose petals spread ALL over the room, candles, massages. Just every once in a while do something different. Dont chase her around like a dog, let her know that you love her, and whenever she is ready you will be ready to go. Just be sweet and tender. It will get her.

Answer 6

(not sure if you have kids or not) but try to have a weekend where you can get away from everyone and anything. this way you two can get away and do things that you never done before. you can role play, try new positions, bring toys into the action, try having some strawberries and whipp cream. Kamasutra!!!!!!

Answer 7

I don't understand; if she's not complaning, why are you? Are you trying to be in competition with someone else (just anyone you might see)?

If you really feel that something is wrong with you physically, speak candidly with your doctor. Otherwise, just relax and enjoy the fact that you make your wife happy.

Answer 8

Woman are for the most part "understanding" creatures.. IF u talk to them.. especially when u "Feel" a certain way about something.. so just talk to her, let her know how ur feeling.. she'll understand..

Answer 9

have yall tried experimenting? or trying out new erotic fantasies together.role playing or a carmasutra guide book. and i dont mean to sound odd when i say this but have u ever considered anal sex? it is very thrilling and exciting and it gives me a rush and my husband is very satisfied. give it a try.

Answer 10

Oh... you need to stop smashing you head against the wall with this kind of thoughts. If she loves you she will wait for you and understand you.