what to you say to a man that make this kind of statement?

Question

Women who are heterosexual must find a man to define themeselves. A Catch-22. You hate men but you must find one before the biological clock stops ticking.

Answer 1

It seems to me that this guy ought to be grateful that women ARE heterosexual, or is he a homosexual? His reasoning is based on a fallacy. Women do NOT need a man to define themselves. Our brains have been working since God created us. We have our own sense of self-worth and it does not depend on a man.

It IS essential for a woman to know her worth and not sell herself short or settle for just anything that wanders past... if she feels that she needs to have a relationship at all. Some women do not feel their "biological clock" ticking at all. Some are confident enough to say, "if it happens, it happens, and that's good enough."

There are no guarantees to any of us as humans that there is always someone out there for us. If we have not taken care to be the best we can be and be proud (not prideful, proud, there's a world of difference) of ourselves and willing to please and be pleased, we shall certainly find ourselves all alone.

Answer 2

Well, Is this man Gay???

That could be the reason for his statement. Sounds more macho to me than Gay. Gay men are'nt critical of women. This guy thinks all we want are men to have hcildren before we get old.

Sounds like he has problems with women too. He says we hate men. He has problems.

Answer 3

One, women don't need men to do anything for them, most women define the men now anyway; and second they have clinics for that now a days so you don't even need a man to have a baby one way or another.

Answer 4

I say that is pure BS!!! Us women can define ourselves perfectly well without the aid of a male. I don't believe that we hate men either so what the hell is this guy trying to say anyway??? I just say he's an idiot!

Answer 5

Heterosexual women don't hate men; they looooove them. Even homosexual women, or lesbians, don't hate men unless they have MUCH deeper psychological problems than their homosexuality. A woman who hates men should not worry about her clock.

If I heard a guy say that lesbians must find a man, I'd say dream on!

Answer 6

its a lost cause because his brain is too small to comprehend anything but his male ego! sperm banks are all across the continents ready for your impregnation.....it's been a man's world too long and not many dinasaurs like that guy are still alive, just like if a man has sex with 10 partners he's a stud but if a woman does it she' a slut?!! but its afact that female widows like 82% longer after their spouse dies than men....just remind him his mother could have had an abortion and he'd not be looking so much like a donkey!!!!rat bastard!!

Answer 7

What do you say?

You say: "Funny, that's exactly what we want men to think so they can feel important. When actually they are useless without a woman."

Nothing more pathetic and desperate than an unattached man. Nothing more sexy and desirable than an unattached woman.

Answer 8

Assuming that he said it in an arrogant manner meant more to flaunt his own point of view rather that actually offer any worthwhile advice to you? I don't think that you need to respond to that - or probably anything he ever says to you. I can't even see why you would want to bother wasting your time even considering it.

Answer 9

Are you trying to say that because you weren't a planned birth that you feel like you were an accident?? I mean, ya, you might be, but you seem to be doing okay anyways.

Answer 10

I wouldn't say anything as he's not worth the bother. I would just move on and find someone who's not so full of themselves.