god love never fades and i think he chose it that way to teach us love is eternal so how in the world can married people or couples love each other today and be out of love tommorrow i have read sum crazy questions from couples for example if he cant get it up how do i divorce him or i am gonna divorce her since we not having sex people i know certain things in relationships are difficult and make you unhappy but i dare you to look in the mirror and say u never upset god but he has stood by you and loved you when you didnt deserve it so why cant we do that for our mates yes i will admit you open ypourselves up for heartache and to be stepped on but are we better than the top man himself
2006-09-14 11:46:30 · 4 answers · asked by OFFICER CAMPBELL 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
And I dare you to walk a mile in their shoes you over judgemental jerk.. Who do you thinkyou are? You have no idea what caused the problem in the first place and it's not for you to judge anyone...unless you would like those same people to take a long hard look at you...***.
2006-09-14 11:51:33 · answer #1 · answered by sasha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you make some good points.....people as a whole need to be more forgiving and less selfish about just what they are getting from a relationship and think more about giving. There are SO many factors that go into making a relationship work, and in the end only those two and God have the final decision. God tells us what is right and wrong, and we face consequences if we try to do it our way. Sadly that is why we have so many adulteries, abusive homes, and loveless marriages that end in divorce. Some divorces are justified, others are just used as an get out jail free card cause it no longer "works" for you.
People need to think long and hard about what marriage is and decide if they have the strength of character, endurance, love and forgiveness for such an institution.
2006-09-14 12:07:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can it be love, indeed. Love gives, power takes. Power tries to control others. Are you exercising love or power? It seems to me that focusing on adjusting your own attitude would be a much more loving thing to do, rather than judging others. Why not just love and let be? We each need to walk our own path in life. Let go, let God.
2006-09-14 12:08:14 · answer #3 · answered by shine_radiantstar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont believe everything that you read here...and dont take it so piously personal.
The things that are written here are as vague and with as little detail as possible. Try to helpful if you can. We are not better than the top man...we are human.
2006-09-14 12:01:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋