Marriage & Divorce - 15 September 2006

2006-09-15 23:53:31 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 10 years. He has always said that he wants kids someday, I told him in the beginning that I never want kids and if he couldn't deal with that then leave. Well he didn't leave and never talked about kids again until this week. Now he keeps making hints about kids. Medically I can't have kids, I hurt my self very bad when I was a child. He brought up having my sister or his sister carry a baby for me. I told him no. I told him if he wants kids so bad why did he stay with me for 10 years. He said because he wanted to change my mind. I don't intend to change my mind. Now what do I do? I do love him but if he is going to pressure me with this should I leave? He even jokes about going to find a female that he can have a kid with just to have one. Does this mean that he could or has cheated? I told him that if he wnated anothing female to leave but he said he didn't want anyone else?

2006-09-15 23:53:26 · 12 answers · asked by kittykat78 2

How many saw others while dating your spouse and after getting married kept on doing it?

2006-09-15 23:43:27 · 12 answers · asked by Mit 4

the wazooooooo?

2006-09-15 23:43:22 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-15 23:40:55 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-15 23:27:43 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

he is already married but dont like his wife and she also like him but having two kids

2006-09-15 23:16:38 · 15 answers · asked by sarita k 1

My wife has been having an afair for 2 months, I found out 3 weeks ago this morning she packed her case and left. The kids think shes at work. Wat do i do now?

2006-09-15 22:40:17 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-15 22:21:00 · 4 answers · asked by biliben613 1

I'm from USA and planning to marry a man from Pakistan , in which I will move to there.?

Was wondering if anyone has had expereince in this , and if so could give me advice and tip's. To make the transtion as smooth as possible.

2006-09-15 21:32:22 · 11 answers · asked by tammy_fine2001 1

she is not interested in relate or trying to sort any problems, she just expects me to move out of our home which we jointly own with nothing but the clothes on my back can she do this?

2006-09-15 21:27:10 · 51 answers · asked by heartbroken 1

2006-09-15 21:23:15 · 30 answers · asked by Satarani 1

2006-09-15 21:03:29 · 29 answers · asked by bad? 1

2006-09-15 20:36:11 · 23 answers · asked by Purrk3y 2

all what they think of is how to keep themselves entertained, responsibility ,hard working and how to make others happy are so heavy on their sholders, with men there's gain with no pain

2006-09-15 20:35:43 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

staying with our parents. But my wife did not receive my parents & younger brothers warmly. She did not behave well to my parents & younger brothers.She also proposed to live separately. One day she quarreled with my mother with loud voice & my younger brother tried to make my wife calm but my wife also misbehaved with my younger brother. When she was desperate, my younger brother gave her a smack.Then and then my wife has created a untold disorder & left our house after two days instead of our entreaties.However, after three months without caring my parents honour I went to my wife's native village & brought her to Dhaka & started living separately. I intention was to rent a house close to my parents house so that I can look after them time to time & one day we again live with my parents. But my wife is not cooperative to my requests & also not interested to continue relationship with me if I propose her to live together. So please advice me how I will solve this problem.

2006-09-15 20:35:36 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

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2006-09-15 20:31:41 · 25 answers · asked by http://hogshead.pokerknave.com/ 6

as i am going to abroad for further studies ,her parents are agreed only when i marry her before i leave to abroad ,so my problem is as we don't have minimum age for marriage and so please tell us where to marry her and as I am a cristian and she is an hindu. But marriage is compulsory so give us your valuable advice for me and i will be thankful for you ,and i will be leaving this month 30 only so give yor advice .

2006-09-15 20:26:47 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-15 20:19:23 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

do the wifes at home cheat more than working wifes because they get bored or have more time? what do you think is the %

2006-09-15 20:12:42 · 18 answers · asked by knowitall4now 2

things to look for after 13yrs

2006-09-15 20:12:37 · 10 answers · asked by bigcat 1

Wife not working for last 8 months due to recurring illnesses. Husband moves his 5 (yes FIVE) step kids into home 6 mo ago. Wife does all homework, PTA, supervision of the kids etc. Oldest step kid is 22/adult and got job 2 months ago. Husband still constantly stresses about rent, basic utilities, food, and finances. While visiting her I overhear the following...Wife asks husband if 22 YO is helping him with bills. Husband tells her, “You have no job and bring no money to this house so, you have no right to know how much money my child is giving to this house. And anyway I’m not going to charge him a dime for anything. He is free to give me whatever he wants or not but what he gives me is not your concern.” What would you do/think if you were the wife in this situation?

2006-09-15 20:08:09 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am not attracted to my husband. And I am passionate about my ex. See the problem is they are trchnically both my husband. One by commonlaw and taxes which I would have to get an affadavit divorce. But also got legally married to current husband. I have sex with ex on occasion, but no attraction to husband #2 when we do have sex. Commonlaw is out os atate in military and #2 lives with me? what to do. Sex is important to me. I am the type who needs passion and yearning. what to do? I have a child with each. Who do I choose.?

2006-09-15 19:22:12 · 16 answers · asked by angiesnotshy11083 1

2006-09-15 19:12:34 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

This question is for my brother,
His wife left him because she said that when she would ask him to do things for her we wouldnt. For example she wanted a car so than she could at least see her family that lived further away. But he kept putting it off, He doesnt get along with her family cause they werent very good to her or him alot of the times. But now she wants to patch things up with her family and he finds it hard to forgive them. So he doesnt want to see them. Shes a stay at home mother who is going crazy cause she cant go out and do things because of not having a car. He would get her one but he wants a new one so that it will be safe for her and the kids, and right now they dont have the money.But she thinks its all just a excuse. Theres alot of other things she has wanted but he just didnt listen.Now that she left, he realizes he should of. He told her he has changed but she cant belive him, how can he prove to her that he has changed, and make sure that he wont change back?

2006-09-15 19:04:34 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been married a little over a year. Things moved REALLY fast between us. Started dating on July 4th, engaged august 4th and married on sept 4th. He is a really nice guy and he would do anything to make me happy... but I'm not happy. We have a covented marriage. My first instinct is to run and get away from it, and just let the wounds heal. but I am terrifed of breaking his heart. but I now that me staying is only pushing us further apart....hurting him more. I dont know how to bring myself to tel him that I dont want to be with him anymore and I dont love him in the same way he loves me. Should I stay with him and sacrifice my own happines for his? or should I leave and completly crush one of the few decent guys left? please help

2006-09-15 19:01:50 · 15 answers · asked by Cory 2

Married people only (happily or not), what made you decide that THIS person would be the one you'd marry? How old were you and how long were you together when you married? I'm wondering how people make that leap from 'I love you and want to be with you' to 'lets book a hall and pick invitations'. Guys, why did you propose to THIS girl?

2006-09-15 18:54:32 · 14 answers · asked by lucy_shy8000 5

2006-09-15 18:49:21 · 9 answers · asked by dieseldick3408 2

I got married to a nice man, who I now have a child with. But my marriage was based off a rebound. I still love my ex very much. I have a child with ex as well. I am not with ex anymore because we had alot of financial and other stress factors in there. My husband is good to me. But I love him ina freindship roomate sort of way. My ex never cheated or did anything bad. He was a good guy. But we were young. And didnt know how to handle ourselves. I cant forget ex or stop my feelings. I am not sexually atracted to husband at all. And yearn for my ex. I guess I want to know what others would do in my situation, and some advice would be great. I have not gone back to my ex because I do not want to hurt my husband and for stability reasons regarding my kids. We are local and hub works local, ex is in military in virginia. Ex wants to work it out, husband is content with me and I am torn on what to do. Have two kids one with each and they are a huge factor in my choice. Someone please help!!

2006-09-15 18:46:44 · 12 answers · asked by angiesnotshy11083 1

i am really interested in the future and am dying to know who im going to marry....SO is there a way i can find that out without all the voodoo and psychic stuff.

2006-09-15 18:30:31 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous