2006-09-15 21:23:15 · 30 answers · asked by Satarani 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I see no problem with it
2006-09-17 05:51:56 · answer #1 · answered by funseeker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most people dislike it because 1) It's sexist! Why is it not called husband swapping. Wife swapping implies two male chav. pig type guys inspecting each wife's body to see who gets to take it for a test drive like she's a used car! 2) What you call "wife swapping" a person with a healthy mind/morals/love for his woman would call being SINGLE. In other words if you wanted to do that why in the flying flip did you GET MARRIED in the first place? Just stay single and sleep with a different woman ever night. Why smear the beauty of a marital bond with your sleazily, porno mentality?
2006-09-15 21:31:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
anything?? Everything is wrong in that. You need to get life. You couples need counseling. Even after counseling you still want to try it, then its your wish. But be ready for changes after the whole episode. It could have a drastic negative effect in future. You may always try to compare her or she may always try to compare you with the other person, and i can tell you that will be really disgusting. May be its not worth it. Institution of marriage is very sacred and you being an Indian (i assume), the onus of holding to your vows is even more with the social structure.
Hope you change your mind or at least get a counseling and then try it. May something is wrong with the whole relation and a little change can make whole lot of difference.
2006-09-15 22:38:32 · answer #3 · answered by smilingface 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wrong? Nothing I suppose. BUT, people have tried many different ways of living together over the last few thousand years. Marriage- which IS two people, has been found to work best. You MAY live as you please, but don't be suprised if tinkering around with different methods of being together turns out to be unworkable. Just as a cook may use sand rather than flour in a recipe, but shouldn't be suprised when the dish tastes lousy, if they change the recipe.
2006-09-16 01:25:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Regardless if you agree to it now, when its time to look yourselves in the mirror the next day, you won't be feeling that way. You both will always wonder if they enjoyed it more with the other person than with you, and will you go sneaking off with this other person, or find other people. You made a vow before God forsaking ALL others. Don't break this vow to God or your spouse. There will be too many regrets and it isn't worth it.
2006-09-15 21:27:12 · answer #5 · answered by Sandi A 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what you are swapping your wife for. For example, swapping her for a new Harley may be a good idea. But I would not suggest you swap her for another woman. I mean, what is the sense in that???
2006-09-15 23:12:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are an A S S H O L E.
Why did you get married. Did you need someone to exchange for sex.
Guess marriage vows mean nothing.
Welcome to the wold of A.I.D.S.
Any special words you want said at your funeral?
2006-09-15 21:43:36 · answer #7 · answered by Mit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do it and let us know if your relationship with your wife changes at all.
Aside from that unless you're military I'm pretty sure as long as all parties are consenting then go for it.
I love my wife too much to knowingly let some other dude touch her in a sexual way. I'm pretty sure it goes double for her towards me. There's no way she'd agree to some dude touching me in a sexual way or some other woman touching me in a sexual way.
2006-09-15 21:38:44 · answer #8 · answered by cinattra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um i see many pitfalls in this situation even if all are consenting . first off who knows what feelings you will be allowing to come between your relationships . second how about all the possible physical situations that can come from this preg ,disease I'm sure there's a few more i left out . I'm not thinking id play Russian roulette with my wife if I actually loved her .
2006-09-15 22:03:13 · answer #9 · answered by wiz of ia 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't feel like it is. As long as both are not just agreeing because they are talked into it, but because they are also curious and want to do it as well. If they are talked into it, then they will feel resentful and hate whoever for taking them into it. I"m assuming it's the women who may have a problem with it? anyways, it's between the four of you, and no one else, so no one else need know. As long as it's OK for the four of you, then do it.
2006-09-15 21:52:43 · answer #10 · answered by t.larae 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont Like it but many PPL do Its Called Swingers if yall want to be swingers its ok!!! I Know a few People that are Like that but they always come home to their Spouse
2006-09-15 22:53:17 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋