Marriage & Divorce - 15 September 2006

I love my girlfriend very much. we have been going out for just over 4 months. I feel a very strong connection with her and I can see myself with her for many years to come. She has told me she loves me very much and that she sees herself with me for a long time. is it too early to propose?

2006-09-15 18:30:20 · 18 answers · asked by im_my_own_number_1fan 2

For the past 4 years of our marriage, I have used the internet and female toys as a way of satisfying myself. This is unknown to my wife, who suddenly has shown an interest in using toys in the bedroom. I'm really worried that it will hurt our relationship if I let her know about my secret at this point. Also, I don't know if I'm comfortable doing this with her, as I have become accustomed to my own personal form of stress-relief. How do I handle this situation...?

2006-09-15 18:28:06 · 23 answers · asked by MICHAEL S 1

and how do you deal with it?

2006-09-15 18:25:55 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

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2006-09-15 18:23:18 · 3 answers · asked by MelanieMediator 2

My husband left 2 weeks ago. Finally, tomorrow is the day he will come to remove his personal belongings. It was a verbally abusive relationship. his life is a turmoil, and he refuses to see it. like there is a demon in him who has completely swallowed this man i love so much. he struggles with control, he refuses to trust. he wants it his way or the highway. i gave him all i had to give, and am having to leave this marriage, but knowing i did everything i could. i cant let go. i need to stop loving him, and i cant. he is moving on, after much unhappiness with me, its almost obvious to say he didnt love me, but in between the bad times, the good times show he did. what do i do? i cant let go! he has stomped my heart, and i still want to be his wife.

2006-09-15 18:21:28 · 9 answers · asked by Elly 3

My husband is georgous! He is in the military. He rides a sports bike. I know when I was single. I was always yelling(in a good way)at the the guys on bikes. I find it hard to believe that in five years a georgous man has never been hit on. Is he full of crap? Why would he lie about that? Should I be worried?

2006-09-15 18:19:38 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

Other than their attractiveness?

2006-09-15 18:06:33 · 15 answers · asked by Chuck Dhue 4

After 23 years,I thought my parents woud be together forever. Another women came into the picture and they had a arguement,now he's moved out with her and their talking about getting a divorce...what should I do?

2006-09-15 18:06:30 · 19 answers · asked by deirdredrakus 1

2006-09-15 18:01:04 · 7 answers · asked by pathos666 1

2006-09-15 17:59:40 · 12 answers · asked by Chuck Dhue 4

2006-09-15 17:58:08 · 38 answers · asked by ccifelli69 1

Should I just tell her the truth and try to patch things up or just run away to Mexico with her sister?

2006-09-15 17:53:56 · 41 answers · asked by Nice Guy 1

i want one too. i long for the days of our folks, when the women stayed hoem and took care of the home and the husband.
haaaaaa...the good old days.

2006-09-15 17:52:35 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

What if you are unhappy in your marriage but you know that it is best to stay for the children and for him. I love my husband but i am not happy. I wish i would have never gotton married again. He is the step father to my children and my daughter is now gone and it is just me and my son. I know if i left him it would rip his world apart. So i chose to stay un happy to keep him from falling apart. His first wife left him for another man after 18 years of marriage. I have been married to him for 5 years. I have been unhappy for sometime. I have threathen to leave 2 times already cause he is quite and i talk alot amoung other issues. We are kind of like day and night. I wish that i was single again cause there are sure alot of men out there that i find very attractive. and No we have no sex life either. I beleive he is to lazy to even attempt it.We have had som many problems i do not even find hi Would you stay for him and stay un happy? would you cheat and stay with him?

2006-09-15 17:43:58 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

IM NOT ATTRACTED TO MY HUSBAND. IM 28 AND I GET A LOT OF ATTENTION FROM OTHER MEN. GOT MARRIED AT 18 BECAUSE I WAS PREGNANT. IVE BEEN MARRIED 9 YEARS AND IM JUST NOT HAPPY.

2006-09-15 17:39:40 · 21 answers · asked by HALAVA 1

like in the old days, and just take care of the home.
cook, clean. the kids and all that.

2006-09-15 17:37:37 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

Bill Clinton did and almost everybody loves him and forgives him but I cheated on my wife once with her sister and everybody says im a pig. Clinton cheated on his wife at least 8 known times and I only did it once. I realize I am wrong and I will tell my wife the truth and not lie to her even if it means she leaves me.

2006-09-15 17:17:22 · 37 answers · asked by Nice Guy 1

I live in Kansas if that help I know the laws a differant all over.

2006-09-15 17:08:11 · 9 answers · asked by d_sean1 1

I know you can't tell if ones pregnant in 1 day but I didn't use any protection as we didn't plan on engaging in relations, it just happened. Should I just leave my wife for her sister if she is pregnant by me?

2006-09-15 17:06:24 · 26 answers · asked by Nice Guy 1

2006-09-15 16:52:51 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

We were just fooling around and things got hot and heavy and I accidently got her pregnant, would my wife understand this?

2006-09-15 16:42:33 · 73 answers · asked by Nice Guy 1

Chick 1
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Chick 2
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Chick 3
http://www.ytv.com/programming/shows/spongebob_squarepants/img/characters/char_sandy.jpg
or Chick 4?
http://content.answers.com/main/content/wp/en/thumb/f/ff/180px-Lurleen.gif

Well actually they're not technically for sale-I've just been stalking them and begging them to marry me. But their mase turns me on even more. And women love persistence. I'm a natural ladies' man. I mean want to marry all of them but they got laws against that in this country.

2006-09-15 16:28:38 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

The thing is, I would not care one bit if he was cheating, in fact it would be a relief! I really just feel nothing for him anymore, because he is unsupportive, unloving and no help with anything. I know he is just saying he is cheating to hurt me. I really think we should just divorce, but since we have a child (4 yr. old) everyone tells me the right thing to do is stay. What can I do? I really just want to be happy, and I want my son to be happy, most importantly.

2006-09-15 16:24:58 · 26 answers · asked by zanahoria611 2

this is going to sound silly, but i really need to know. my husband is arab and he went to dubai with a friend. his friend is a big player. i am trying not to let my imagination wander, but i feel like they might be going out with girls there.and please don't tell me about trust, because when a man is on the other side of the world with his friends, they turn into a single guy.what i wanted to know is if there are nightclubs, and bad girls there? i don't know too much about dubai, so i am trying to see if anyone could tell me. i know that clubs and bad girls are everywhere, but i heard this country is a little stricter and muslim. (i am hoping) please don't answer if you are going to be a jerk. what is over there, and what website can i see the country on?

2006-09-15 16:20:19 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-15 16:16:09 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

I married my husband a little over 2 months ago and I couldn't be happier. I met my him about 4 months ago and after 5 weeks of dating we decided to get married. I have been through it ALL when it comes to men. I knew exactly what I was looking for and when I found it, I didn't want to give it up. I thought I would NEVER be happy. But I am here to tell you that I am and I am so lucky to have found such a wonderful man that treats me and my children with the utmost respect. I couldn't have asked for a better man! Nobody really has to reply. I just wanted the whole world to know how happy I am!

2006-09-15 16:11:52 · 22 answers · asked by QDPie 2

And have no children. I want children but could not find the right man. Now that I think I have found the right man and have become engaged, he tells me he has had a visectomy. I am so depressed and know my biological clock is ticking. What should I do. I kind of don't want to adopt as I want my own child.

2006-09-15 16:09:50 · 16 answers · asked by devinshell 3

My wife and I have been seperated for about 2 1/2 months now. I left because we lived with her mother and it was a constant battle and her mother was the head of the household and her not me. Anyway after I left (only about 36 hours later) I came back only to be told she wants to be apart and she is living with her mom and my kids and I am in my own apartment. I have left notes, sent flowers, sent text messages, left little gifts all to try to say sorry and it is not her and I still love her but I get nothing back, not even a thank you for the stuff I left for her. I still love her with all my heart but the hanging on kills me.

2006-09-15 16:06:47 · 22 answers · asked by jbrown280000 1

He claims that he misses me and can't wait until I come home. (I'm deployed) Anyways, when we got married he told me he was going to get me a ring and a couple days before he told me that he wasn't going to buy it because it was too much money. So, I bought my own ring. He told me at first that he wasn't going to wear a ring at all, and now suposedly he is. When I call him he doesn't answer his phone I barely get any emails. He didn't even get a house for me to come home to when I redeploy. He says that when I get back he is going to buy me a car. You know I don't believe his ***, I guess I'm not trying to say does he love me I just want to know why am I still here? Its not love, I don't even know why I married him or why I'm with him anymore. I just think I need to write it down or tell someone so hey why not, I told everyone on the internet, let me thank you all now for your replies, by the way I'm 20 an dhave no kids.

2006-09-15 16:04:21 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am separated from my husband. We are in the process of filing for dissolution. Per our agreement he got to keep the car that was financed in both our names. He is now in financial trouble and I fear the car will be reposessed before the dissolution is final and w/o me getting my name off the loan. What recourse do i have here? I have spent a fair amount of time since the separation getting my credit in good standing as an individual and I am really stressing about this hurting what I have worked so hard for. Anyone?

2006-09-15 15:48:51 · 10 answers · asked by sammiejane67 4