2006-09-15 17:58:08 · 38 answers · asked by ccifelli69 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It might not have been on purpose. Who says you are/were important enough to him to make him want to intentionally make you angry?
The non-humorous answer is that people (men and women) don't think!!!! Common sense is not common. Both men and women see the person they want to see and very seldom see the actual person. Most men are shallow and don't see much deeper into a woman than her physical beauty. They don't mean to be irritating but they seldom think deeper than football, food, and sex. Many women look at a man and think "he'll do - now how do I go about changing him to make him better fit my needs?". In both cases, after the initial love/lust wears off, they realize that they are "stuck" with a person they don't really like. That's when the problems and the various irritations start to appear.
After that, one or both people in the relationship start to do things to make the other angry. They do this in hope that the other person will break up with them. Let's face it! No matter how much you may want to break up wth someone, it's a lot easier and there's a lot less guilt if the other person breaks up with you. So one person keeps doing things that make the other person angry until the other person finally has had enough and ends the relationship. It's the easy way out
2006-09-15 18:02:43 · answer #1 · answered by Spiritual but not religious 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
According to what the guy does, could be one of these main 5 reasons or variations of these. Most importantly #5.
1a) I don't care if I piss you off, because I'm an insensitive jerk that I really don't care about you as a person.
1b) Not mature enough.
(common for young guys)
2) Didn't know I was pissing you off, I just said what was on my mind. (most guys)
3) We've had sex, so I can do whatever I want to do with you because you are my property (foreign men with american women)
4) To see if you'll bend and stay with them. If so, then they will have control over you for the rest of your life. Decide early what you want.
5) Because we are guys. Nothing personal, It's what we do.
2006-09-15 18:35:12 · answer #2 · answered by MikeQuestions 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well that's a loaded question? Not all men do things just to piss their partner off... it could be unintentional. There is no real answer for your question......it all depends on your situation. Do you piss men off? Maybe it's for revenge. Maybe it's for excitment. Maybe it's a sign that he's unhappy. Maybe it's for independance. Your question is to vague to answer......if it's bothering you so much you may want to seek marital councelling. Good Luck
2006-09-15 18:09:19 · answer #3 · answered by jdhunt84 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
a minimum of he places them in the sink. My husband will take a seat and eat on the settee in our mattress room, techniques you the trashcan is in palms length and he nevertheless lives wrappers, cans and what ever else rubbish he has on the tip table or chair. He yells on the little ones in the event that they go away a gadget out yet he can go away all of them over. he's taking his outfits off in the mattress room and assume them to get to the laundry themselves, I useful the hell am no longer taking them. I even have 5 young little ones and that i'm attempting to instruct them to %. up for themselves and he useful isn't a place type. so sista i've got self belief you soreness and then some.
2016-12-12 09:16:25 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I once had a boyfriend that did things to piss me off and would laugh when he succeded. I asked him why and he said that it shows him that I care about him..kinda a weird way to get attention in a way...
2006-09-15 18:00:59 · answer #5 · answered by Lova L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They have nothing else to do with their life. They can't live without us so they find ways to piss us off so that they won't feel guilty about what they are up to.
2006-09-15 18:03:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they suck in general. Mainly its to prove to themselves that you really care about them. They'll purposely do things like say something they know will make you mad just to get a rise out of you. Some guys just like to argue, and thats their way of showing they care.
2006-09-15 18:00:47 · answer #7 · answered by bandcamp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because some women looks cuter when they're pissed off.
2006-09-15 18:05:07 · answer #8 · answered by septiant 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they don't mean it to piss us off they meant it to be the fact that they are better than us so we should do what they tell us to.... and usually we don't so.... they piss us off LOL
2006-09-15 18:00:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you want the truth . Some of us just don't know how to communicate . So to get some attention we do stupid things just to aggravate . and sometimes we do it just because its fun when you forgive us. and then some of us are down right stupid
2006-09-15 18:02:38 · answer #10 · answered by fingers2full 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋