Marriage & Divorce - 15 September 2006

2006-09-15 15:48:12 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-15 15:44:37 · 13 answers · asked by Baby 5

i got married about 2 months ago,and my wife is a great cook...everyday i wake up to a breakfast platter,homemade lunch to work,and great dinners...my wife is always been since we've got maried"eat it up so you can grow strong" but i am not growing stronger,i am growing larger. all this delicious foods has made me put on quite a few pounds,but my wife always is eat up! i don't want to say no because its so good and i don't want to hurt her.. are there any guys out there whos wife has/is doing this to them? if so tell me what i shold do..before i gain ANOTHER 30 lbs

2006-09-15 15:42:35 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

I recently found out that my husband is talking on his cell alot with a coworker. okay me started having problems and on the verge of divorce but he claims that she has nothing to do with our problems and that he would never leave for another woman and that she is just a friend, but I only found out who she was because I checked his phone bill and then called the number and got her voicemail. Also about two months ago we had the same situation but he would never tell who she was but since it was not important he could stop the calls anytime. And he did for awhile and then they started again. A couple times a day and night.

2006-09-15 15:41:30 · 32 answers · asked by Zuny 1

I have been married since i was 18 (9years). I realized that I have no friends. Well I do have friends but I dont hang out with them much. My wife told me that I should start hanging out with my friends. After a near death experience I realized that I need to enjoy life to its fullest. I then started to hang out with my friends. I have gone out to the ball game, to a wedding and other stuff. I have been having lots of fun. Now my wife is upset because I am hanging out with my friends. She has been cranky for two weeks and says that I should pay more attention to her and the kids. I do not go out much (one a week) and i feel she is giving me to hard of a time for doing this. She doesnt talk to me much and make me want to hang out more with my friends. Is this my fault or is this her fault. Should I kick her to the curb?

2006-09-15 15:38:27 · 8 answers · asked by Lover Boy 1

I know his SS

2006-09-15 15:36:25 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-15 15:26:59 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

date again or become intimate with the opposite sex? My ex husband had an affair and left me for his secretary after 18 years of marriage. I SERIOUSLY almost died of a broken heart. It's been 5 years now and I haven't even kissed a man. I decided that I don't ever want to feel that bad again so I am not taking the risk of getting involved in a relationship.

2006-09-15 15:26:48 · 31 answers · asked by bluejasmine3 1

2006-09-15 15:21:47 · 12 answers · asked by roger g 1

I feel like I am just a fixture in my own home (house). Today I brought a box of kleenex tissues and put them on the table in the living room, my wife removed them back to the cabinet.
I put my medications on the counter to take, and she puts them back in the cubbard. When I mention it, she says she does not want the medicne on the counter. I have tried putting them on top of the micowave, and that did not work. She told me that I should put them in the bathroom, but I told her that some medication are not to be storred in the bathroom.
When I put on the after shave lotion, it spilled ont eh bathroom counter, I took a tissue and wiped it up, then she complainted that I splashed it.
I cannot wear my shoes in the house, and they are not dirty . We sleep in separte rooms, and she complains that I do not wear underwear. I blew my nose this morning with a tissue or handkerchief and she told me that it is too early for that, she could not stand it. Married 38 years What is wrong

2006-09-15 15:12:40 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

Help! I've had very little sex drive since I had my son almost two years ago. I'm on Zoloft, which I know can have an effect, but I'm too scared to go off of it. (I'm on a pretty low dose anyway... only 50 mg.) Is there anything I can do to get it back? Supplements? Really good erotica? My husband is getting very frustrated and it is putting a real strain on our marriage.

2006-09-15 15:09:12 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

We spend no time together anymore I feel like we are roomates than anything. I have expressed my concerns and told him over and over agian how we need to spend time together and he says I know and nothing changes. We have finacial problems and I have tried to talk with him to get organized so we can get on track again so things can get better and nothing seems to get anywhere. I have lost all hope and have just fallen out of love with him we have nothing in common anymore and are not on the same path so I'm ready to move on in my life. This is something that has been progressively getting worse over the last few yrs. I feel alone. I want to be with someone that wants to share their life with me and likes some of the things I like.

2006-09-15 14:58:59 · 30 answers · asked by Carrie H 1

2006-09-15 14:56:25 · 17 answers · asked by Curious One 1

THE REASON I ASK THIS QUESTION IS BECAUSE MY FAMILY MAKES ME MAD A LOT BECAUSE THE DON'T LIKE MY HUSBAND AND THEY FEEL THEY CAN VOICE THAT TO ME WHEN EVER THEY GET READY. BUT INSTEAD OF ME YELLING AT THEM I YELL AT MY HUSBAND ABOUT WHAT THEY SAID ABOUT HIM AND I DON'T DO IT TO MAKE IT MAD I JUST DO IT TO VENT. I FEEL AS THOUGH MY HUSBAND IS THE ONE PERSON I SHOULD BE ABLE TO VENT TO ABOUT ANY AND EVERYTHING MAYBE I'M WRONG. HE TOLD ME WE NEED SOMEONE PROFESSIONAL TO TALK TO ABOUT OUR MARRIAGE.

2006-09-15 14:53:48 · 12 answers · asked by KEY 2

If someone always says something that somebody does, doesn't bother them, yet they are constantly pointing it out to anyone who will listen, when that person does that particular thing, are they being truthful? Or are they overcompensating, by pointing out to others "hey look, this person is doing that again, but I am cool with it"?
It doesn't make much sense to me. I would think "who are they trying to convince, others, or themselves?"
I was wondering what you guys think.....

2006-09-15 14:52:34 · 10 answers · asked by pandora the cat 5

2006-09-15 14:51:04 · 17 answers · asked by sarah 1

They recently moved and she found them in some old boxes from storage. She was very angry and upset. I think what she did was wrong and she owes my brother and apology. She disagrees. What do you think?

2006-09-15 14:50:15 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have 2 kids(5yr old & 6m old
i love him

2006-09-15 14:49:01 · 23 answers · asked by tinkerbell mommie 1

2006-09-15 14:48:49 · 6 answers · asked by Baby 5

Is it me or am I crazy....I've been married for 5 years and its been a slow ride downhill since the day we said I do....Ending it was probably the best thing I could do for myself...I feel great I look great and I am full of ambition that was previously dead.....

If I would have stuck it out like my parents I would despise my partner to such a degree that they would make me sick....instead we beat it to the punch and are now great friends who are devoted towards making our daughter's life a great one. I really believe many of my warped views on relationships and self-image are due to the fact that my Parents fought for the 18 years I lived with them

2006-09-15 14:36:42 · 9 answers · asked by macrominded 3

2006-09-15 14:33:02 · 2 answers · asked by girlnamedmaria 6

my question is because of this i'm being treated for severe depression and can't work , how will the judge look at this?

2006-09-15 14:32:14 · 4 answers · asked by angry 1

2006-09-15 14:26:08 · 5 answers · asked by girlnamedmaria 6

I have a temporary order of protection (PFA) against my husband. He attacked me in front of our children because he found out I removed his loaded gun from the house. He threatened to kill me. His hearing is on Tuesday. I am a little nervous even though I have good council. Who should I look at when I answer questions from the attorneys? Hubby's attorney has no good defense other than denial and slimy tatics like implying I have borderline personality disorder, out to punish husbnd, and a bag full of other unwarrented stuff. Any advice on how to cope with him? Any general overall advice? I appreciate your feedback. Thank you.

2006-09-15 14:26:06 · 3 answers · asked by bob 2

My friend is in a unhappy marraige, shes been married for 25yrs, has 3 boys two of them grown up ,the last one nearly a teenager.
I believe that they have grown apart, as they met when she was very young.
She met a really nice guy, 5yrs ago.
They became very good friends, and at the time was a shoulder to cry on, when things where rocky in her marraige.
She has fallen in love with him, and like wise him, but she totally respects herself and marraige, so does the guy. So its no affair for sure, but DEEP LOVE for each other over the years.
She believes and so do i, that this guy is her Soulmate.
What should she do in her situation?
Serious and helpful answers please, God bless you all.

2006-09-15 14:19:07 · 19 answers · asked by Petal62 2

2006-09-15 14:16:13 · 33 answers · asked by wizardbear_2000 1

2006-09-15 14:05:49 · 11 answers · asked by Baby 5

i was just wondering cause i feel like having a beer w/o husband around

i dont have kids and its over between me n hubby anyway

2006-09-15 13:55:14 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

lies

2006-09-15 13:54:50 · 12 answers · asked by how do u deal with divrce, 1

2006-09-15 13:47:21 · 26 answers · asked by treejamin 2