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2006-09-15 13:54:50 · 12 answers · asked by how do u deal with divrce, 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
My dad always told me that the cause of a broken heart is the cure!! You already know the answer to your question you move on when your heart tells you to. However hanging on to the past can be harmful for the both of you. If you really know it's over then move on and soon!! That doesn't mean that you won't always care for her. Good luck!!
2006-09-15 14:01:52 · answer #1 · answered by Jackie G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you fall, do you stay on the ground and wait for someone to help you up? Sometimes, but there won't always be someone there to help you. So what do you do? Get back up on your own, maybe slowly, but you will. Like everyone else, you will have your own grief and fears to move on, but believe me, you won't regret it , you will always remember that person. Maybe the next person will make you just as happy, but will never compare to the past. But don't bother comparing either, it will only worsen your ability to move on. Be happy, think of what tomorrow can bring, and the things you haven't done in this world. THERE are so many things I bet you haven't done. Ces't la vie....That's life hun. GOOD LUCK, and take care!!
2006-09-15 20:59:42 · answer #2 · answered by LadyD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because you're not together anymore doesn't mean that your love immediantly dies... it takes time to heal, Just like any wound. Just be careful of looking back, focus your attention on moving forward, do things for YOU, and know that you will love again and you will go on with your life. And keep your friends close... they're what will get you through it! Good luck
2006-09-15 21:01:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
From my own personal experience........the only thing that really was helpful for me was a support group that I attended weekly for a year.... and my journal.......may sound corny but when you put your feelings down in writing you are processing them. Did alot of writing in support group and talking, sharing with others that were moving through the same pain and grief. You see if you do nothing.......your pain and grief will just sit there and surface in the way of health problems, anger, weight issues and will also surface in your next relationship. You have to feel your feelings......it's the only way to work thru them.
2006-09-15 21:04:05 · answer #4 · answered by Janet 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forgiveness will free you. You have to forgive her for not loving you in the same way as you love her. Then you give yourself permission to let go. It may take some time if your heart needs to grieve, but the time will come when you feel free again. Then you are.
2006-09-15 20:59:01 · answer #5 · answered by Namaste 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know. My husband left me three weeks ago. I love him more than anything and I know he loves me. He just doesn't want to deal with his issues, so he is running. I know he is going to file for divorce. I don't want anyone else though. He is my soulmate. Hang in there. That's all I'm trying to do.
2006-09-15 21:01:17 · answer #6 · answered by Mrs. Waiting 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why can`t you go back to her? do you love her? does she love you? true love can make it work.
2006-09-15 21:02:58 · answer #7 · answered by theladylooking 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
force your self to remember the bad times not the good times.
2006-09-15 21:03:51 · answer #8 · answered by thepainter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't rush into anything because you might hurt someone who wants something your not ready for yet
2006-09-15 21:00:28 · answer #9 · answered by Ray_Ray 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can always try counseling. People can change.
2006-09-15 21:35:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anna L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋