Marriage & Divorce - 15 September 2006

im recently separated and have no desire to start dating...I would like to develop a few strong friendships with some women.... what’s the best way to meet a woman, on a truly platonic level...would just like a good friend and companion...no strings or expectations

2006-09-15 04:19:12 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-15 04:18:25 · 31 answers · asked by Lothario 1

This is my problem; my husband haven't sleep with nonone but he do like to talk to female over the phone fron cht lines or in the computer . I think this very disrespectful since I have some female calling his phone while I'm with him , I even talk to them.. I know he haven't sheat on me but this can be just a biggining. I spoke to him ans he say this conversation don't mean anything but I can't belive him since it happens so many time. He constaly say that he love me and I love him too but when this things happens it make me hate him with pasion.

2006-09-15 04:17:35 · 10 answers · asked by Iris N 1

My boyfriend wants me to move in with him and move to Florida and then elope to Vegas. We are in love. Just because I'm young doesn't mean I don't know what love is. We've talked about it a lot and it's his idea and he seems serious and sure. So am I, but what age is too young?

2006-09-15 04:14:26 · 21 answers · asked by Dayzi 2

what are the benefits for a woman to get married......that she can't get being unmarried???????

2006-09-15 04:06:22 · 15 answers · asked by henry_o01 1

I am not getting what i need at home and iv'e told my husbabd a thousand times this, i have met a man online and we talk about everything...my husband dosnt know....am i having an affair? This man knows im married so is he,is it wrong that we make each other feel better emotionaly?

2006-09-15 04:00:45 · 36 answers · asked by toogoodtobebad2000 1

Needing to get my life back after having husband who really tried but couldn't control himself. Not in bankruptcy yet but it's a possibility soon.

2006-09-15 03:59:59 · 1 answers · asked by Goodmomma1 3

can you tell me what are the benefits for a man to get married.......... that he can't get without being married???

2006-09-15 03:59:30 · 5 answers · asked by henry_o01 1

2006-09-15 03:57:43 · 31 answers · asked by which is worse 1

Now I may be reading into this too much but when my wife and I are walking, anywhere but lets say on the beach, she always starts to walk in front of me, not with me. If I stopped she would be 100yrd ahead of me before she realized that I wasn’t there. To me I find that kind of offensive in a way that she is only thinking of herself. I could be wrong but do you think this is being selfish, clueless, self-centered or anything on that line.

I myself am conscious about everything and everyone around me. I always look to make sure she is close (not in a controlling way by no means) but would you feel the same if it were you? And if you do the same why?

2006-09-15 03:57:35 · 10 answers · asked by Andy S 3

When we were kids playing games, when we screwed up we would shout "do-over!" . If you had the opportunity to "do-over" any part or all of your life, what would you change, or "do-over"?

2006-09-15 03:53:25 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

What do you think about a man who dates a woman for two years, then marries her and his kids have never met her?
We have been divorced for 4 years, He has been dating this girl, (only 2 years older than our oldest daughter btw) for almost 2 years. She lives out of state and they visit back and forth...She has been here a number of times, and he has never introduced our daughters to this lady. They have seen her picture and talked to her on the phone but that is it.
Now he tells them that they went to Hawaii and got married. Now, I wish him and his new wife well. I am remarried and happier than I have ever been, but what kind of person dates someone for 2 years and then gets married but never introduces his children to his girlfriend/wife? What kind of a person marries someone after two years of dating and has never met his children? This is a mystery to me and to my daughters.

2006-09-15 03:53:11 · 6 answers · asked by Emme 4

My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 years and planned to get married. However, he bought a cheap house (while I was studying for the bar) in a school district that is horrible and cannot understand why I do not want to move my kids there. I live in one of the best school districts where kids go to Harvard and Yale unlike his school district where only 89% go on to secondary education. I am not rich and grew up poor which is why I know how important it is for kids to go to a good school so they have an upper hand in college and life. I went to a school that was similar to the district he lives in and struggled to catch up with everyone else in college. Also, his house is in a subdivision that is newer but the houses are not increasing in value which means he made a bad financial decision (although he will not admit this). I do not know what to do because I love him and want to marry him. Any advice?

2006-09-15 03:43:31 · 8 answers · asked by lady_reed_03 2

2006-09-15 03:40:47 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-15 03:38:01 · 9 answers · asked by daddyoohh2 2

I am 27 and my bfr. is 46, he also has three children from his previous marriage.
I lived with him for over a year, and this cohabiting situation is bothering me.
I don't want to marry him, I don't think he is right for me. However, the fact that he is not offering to commit is bothering me.
I would never push him into that, cuz it wouldn't worth nothing. He has to come to it by himself.
Anyway I just want to know his reasons but I can't ask him directly.
Any suggestions on my situation???

Additional Details

6 minutes ago
I've am divorced, have 6 yr.old, and my bfr. takes good care of me and my child.
I am attending school right now, and don't want to break up yet.
I find the comment about father figure interesting, cuz my dad was basicly ignoring me, though my mother was overprotective. And that's true that I am more drown to responsible, level-headed older man , the total opposite of my ex husband.

2006-09-15 03:36:50 · 9 answers · asked by Mistyfog 1

I am 27 and my bfr. is 46, he also has three children from his previous marriage.
I lived with him for over a year, and this cohabiting situation is bothering me.
I don't want to marry him, I don't think he is right for me. However, the fact that he is not offering to commit is bothering me.
I would never push him into that, cuz it wouldn't worth nothing. He has to come to it by himself.
Anyway I just want to know his reasons but I can't ask him directly.
Any suggestions on my situation???

Additional Details

6 minutes ago
I've am divorced, have 6 yr.old, and my bfr. takes good care of me and my child.
I am attending school right now, and don't want to break up yet.
I find the comment about father figure interesting, cuz my dad was basicly ignoring me, though my mother was overprotective. And that's true that I am more drown to responsible, level-headed older man , the total opposite of my ex husband.

2006-09-15 03:35:31 · 5 answers · asked by Mistyfog 1

2006-09-15 03:35:20 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-15 03:23:03 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

affair?

2006-09-15 03:22:15 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

well i must say that i live in iran and i am willing to live in another country by a new life so i am so eager to marry person who lives overseas and i am ready to start a new culture with my helping spouse.so how can i handle this issue?

2006-09-15 03:12:50 · 2 answers · asked by mahdi male 1

sob farted so loudly and nasty that I had to come out from under the table cloth and the waiter asked us to leave! How embarrassing! Has this ever happened to you? Can I ever go back to that restraunt again?

2006-09-15 03:10:10 · 44 answers · asked by marykuntfarts 1

we have been living together for less than an month and im already not up to sex. is it normal or should i take it seriously?

2006-09-15 03:08:51 · 15 answers · asked by ntu 4

I still love my ex-wife, she was very business like and we hardly ever dated. The kids came first. She wanted the kids to have what she never had growing up, I guess dance classes twice a week is what she missed out on. I just wanted our kids to be kids and not control their life like my dad still does to me. I have made lots of mistakes in my marriage. I have defended my wife even though she said I never did. I admit, I am still afraid of my father. I was afraid of my wife. She has always gotten made at me for not making the money she does. She's a RN and makes 26 an hour, I never take risks because my father taught me never to take chances because I would fail, but she said I would suceed. I trusted her. I quit my 11.30 an hour job to get my CDL license, after I did I was quiet scared of the jobs that were out there. I would turn down jobs like would take me out of state for weeks at a time, she got mad and finally had enough of me turning down jobs.

2006-09-15 03:04:57 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am 27 and my bfr. is 46, he also has three children from his previous marriage.
I lived with him for over a year, and this cohabiting situation is bothering me.
I don't want to marry him, I don't think he is right for me. However, the fact that he is not offering to commit is bothering me.
I would never push him into that, cuz it wouldn't worth nothing. He has to come to it by himself.
Anyway I just want to know his reasons but I can't ask him directly.
Any suggestions on my situation???

2006-09-15 03:03:54 · 9 answers · asked by Mistyfog 1

i am in a cohabiting relationship. do you think there is a chance of marriage now that we stay together

2006-09-15 03:01:28 · 18 answers · asked by ntu 4

My boyfriend now a husband always complaint that I have never initiate him for sex unless he started it.Please help.

2006-09-15 02:57:25 · 26 answers · asked by Baby 2

Love my husband, but I got married very young and I always wanted to have sex with an older guy. Next week I'll be in Paris for Business trip and I met a handosome and sucessfull guy that will be in Paris too (believe or not it is coincidence)....we will meet there, I have no feelings for him, only a strong attraction......he is also married. But I feel terrible for my husband. What can I do?

2006-09-15 02:56:07 · 13 answers · asked by arena 1

married, now my question is after my marriage how do i fill for my wife's visa too, because i want her to go with me. please help out.

2006-09-15 02:53:31 · 9 answers · asked by Bobo 3

I have been married for 18 years. After going turbulence and turmoil trying to make things work out after finding out about his infidelities for the past few years, I finally come to terms that we need to go on our separate ways. Till this day, he is against divorce but I just cant live with his ways anymore. What fits me in this marriage is monogomy as well as full of trust and honesty with each other. These essentials no longer exist between us. I have decided to live a life that fits me and he should live his life that suits him instead of still living in denial.

I know I cannot and will not put up with his lies and infidelities anymore. However, I do feel the fear of having to deal with this reality and the unknown down the road. Why do I feel afraid? Any advice, sincere advice that is. Thank you.

2006-09-15 02:53:06 · 27 answers · asked by DiL 3