My boyfriend wants me to move in with him and move to Florida and then elope to Vegas. We are in love. Just because I'm young doesn't mean I don't know what love is. We've talked about it a lot and it's his idea and he seems serious and sure. So am I, but what age is too young?
2006-09-15 04:14:26 · 21 answers · asked by Dayzi 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
wen theres no age 2 be in love...there isent a age 2 get married too...da day u think u've found da perfect guy....u hardly wanna waste netime ....but u just wanna be wid em....ASAP....
BUT
a lot depends on whether its da RIGHT GUY for u...
r u confident dat he wudnt walk away after marriage....giving u a kid...& saying..thanks for ur time...& bbye...
u dont want dat...
& if he's serious enough 2 shoulder his family...suport em...
u dont want a guy who'd be drinking beer & watching Tv... few years later...& u'd be working to make daily needs meet...
we all wanna spend all our life wid da 1 we love...but...r we sure he's da 1 ??
R U SURE ????
dont take a hasty decision 2day 2 regret all ur life....
if u think he's da perfect 1....den dont wait....
u have all ur life ahead of u...so dont ruin it....
take ur decision wisely...
2006-09-15 04:46:11 · answer #1 · answered by moooooooovin 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How young are you? If you are under 18 then of course that's too young. I don't think there is a proper age, it depends on maturity and the length of time you have been together. Marriage is a life long committment and requires a lot of work. You have to be ready to take on that kind of responsiblity. I suggest that you don't rush into marriage. People do that so much and that's why the divorce rate is so high. if you love each other just being with each other should be enough! Get to know each other first. Find out if you want kids together, plans for the future. There are so many things that you need to know about each other before you get married.
2006-09-15 11:31:41 · answer #2 · answered by faith 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OOh boy! Arn't you heading for divorce coourt.
After two marriages, both n vegas, three kids later...I found out that man...I am still too young to get married.
People shouldn't get married until about 30. I don't think people start having a better idea of life expects from you until about then.
Most divorced people are under 30 years of age.
You can't base your relationship on love for a marriage.
Everything else comes into play. You think you won't argue about who left the cereal box open ..But you will!
2006-09-15 11:18:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I was only 20 barly when I got married. When your in love real love there is no age to young. Well I guess under 18 because you would need your parents pemession. If your ready to get married then go for it if your not then tell him your not and wait awhile you have your whole life ahead of you so good luck!!!
2006-09-15 11:41:08 · answer #4 · answered by Day500 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 29 and I want to be married. But he is not ready, some times it takes time. being married is not going to change all that much in your lives. Consider the odds. You may be in love now, but do you know all his bad habits, are they some thing you can live with the rest of your life, have you ever seen him on a bad day? Sad to say but knowing the good and the BAD may be where your decision is. Premarital counseling is a good idea. I jumped into marriage with my ex and it was a disaster!
2006-09-15 11:21:06 · answer #5 · answered by jn46036 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear marriage is a big step. If you are not even 18 I would say wait. Mid 20's or early 30's if in college and want career first. It all depends on what you want out of life. Talk it over with people close to you then you decide. Good Luck and really think about it.
2006-09-15 11:19:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say not to even get married, period. And that's coming from a happily married woman. It's hard to explain, but I see no reason, if you guys are happy, to elope. Just wait, Please! Don't get married before 30 years old. I got married at 25 and wished i'd waited. And they change after marriage, believe me.
You guys might be ready, and I wish you the best, but.... since you asked, I would say later on in life.
2006-09-15 11:34:21 · answer #7 · answered by MoMoney23 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont say how old you are but Im guessing that your old enough to make your own decisions and dont need parental consent.
There is no set age as to when marriage is right. Its who you are with. If there is any doubts, even little ones, than the answer should be no. I see nothing wrong with living together first. I actually think its a good idea.
2006-09-15 11:18:19 · answer #8 · answered by JC 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is expected that only adults should get married. Are you an adult? That both of you are in love doesn't mean that you should get married at the shortest possible time. Take it slow and get to know your guy. Be sure it's not infactuation. Be sure you are ready for marriage. Marriage is a life long committment and must be taken seriously.
2006-09-15 11:34:28 · answer #9 · answered by dearson b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do you have to move? moving is a big commitment especially if your chances of making a career and life are better where you are at now. theres nothing wrong with getting married young however what's the real rush? if you are meant to be together then waiting longer won't be much of an issue.
its probably wise to figure out what you want out of life and what you want to do before you include someone else in it.
2006-09-15 11:20:25 · answer #10 · answered by Fenris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here is the tricky part, every year I thought I know everything,have grown up and yet every year my believe is proven wrong. There is no definite border I guess. I think there is a luck factor in marriage. You must know that life is a constant change and if you fail to adapt...No matter how much you think you know about love and someone, Usually there is a hidden part of him or her, so prepare for the unexpected. Good luck.
2006-09-15 11:32:22 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋