Marriage & Divorce - 15 September 2006

I have custody of my two daughters.One of them has mosquito bites really bad, and I had put bug spray and skin so soft, etc to prevent them but she still got them.Once she had them I treated them with chiggerex and other creams when none of them helped and she spread them with her fingernails by scratching I took her to the doctor for treatment.They gave her itch medicine and an antibiotic to prevent infentigo.
The reason I am asking is....My little girl who is 5 is learning about alcohol and drug use at school and came home and told me that when she goes to her dads he drinks alcohol, drives, and went to a party with jello that she couldn't have ( which I assume is jello shots). I asked her dad about it he said he did take her there but he left when the ppl got "too" drunk, then he threw the mosquito bites at me. He said that his girlfriends sister is dating a lawyer who seen the bites and was concerned.Our past is one of domestic violence,supervised visits for 1yr,he is intimidating

2006-09-15 13:31:46 · 19 answers · asked by daddysgirl92280 3

2006-09-15 13:25:54 · 12 answers · asked by HeartsBreaker 2

my parents are divorced and i'm leaving for 6 weeks so we had all agreed to meet early for breakfast but then my father changed his mind and flat out refused to eat with my mother no matter what i decide i will be hurting one of them and won't get to say goodbye to one of them please help!(i'm 19)

2006-09-15 13:24:26 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am engaged to a man who is stationed in Tennessee right now. I will move to Tennessee when we get married but after that I would like to move back to my home state but he would like to move back to Las Vegas where he grew up. His parents live in Las Vegas but none of his other family or friends. I have my parents, my friends, my two sisters, my grandparents, my cousins, and my uncles that live in my state. I am really close to my family and do not want to have to move away from them. I also would not like to raise a family in Las Vegas. We are having a dificult time making a decision of where to live to raise a family. Does anyone have any advice on how to make this type of decision?

2006-09-15 13:12:24 · 8 answers · asked by soulplane 1

i love my girlfriend and i trust her with everything but i know of a bunch of guys who want her. it realy pisses me off i mean knowing that guys who are like 12 yers older than her want her among other people in the age range of 10-27 (we are 16 btw). but i just wanna know is it right to be kinda jelous

2006-09-15 13:08:56 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-15 13:08:27 · 13 answers · asked by HeartsBreaker 2

2006-09-15 13:07:20 · 7 answers · asked by karenna m 1

I love to see sexy women in high heels and stockings. Further more I like to kiss and suck on my wifes toes during sex, she seem to like it.
I guess my question is do women really like it or is she just being nice about it ?

2006-09-15 13:03:13 · 7 answers · asked by JEFF 1

My husband has lost his sprk in the bedroom all he wants to do is cuddle we both work and have 2 boys and we are really tired and usually are asleep before our heads hit the pillows, what are some ideas to bring the spark back to the bedroom?? Thanks For the help!

2006-09-15 12:54:19 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I don't care how much me and my husband have sex, even though it's good, i just want more & more. Seems like the older I get, the more I want it. Do I have a problem or what the deal with my body.

2006-09-15 12:53:40 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-15 12:52:20 · 16 answers · asked by ck12321212 2

2006-09-15 12:50:13 · 43 answers · asked by Bob 3

I have been trying to call my kids in Iowa and their dad said that his phone was getting shut off but when I call it says the person is not taking call right now?

2006-09-15 12:49:32 · 7 answers · asked by shortcakes_maple 2

My husband is such a redneck...any suggestions how to change things up?

2006-09-15 12:44:43 · 17 answers · asked by Weeber 2

Does anyone (Law Majors,Lawyers etc) know the DEFINITION/and or Interpretation of "Illegal Sex" I told my friend I said it falls under the term "Unlawful Sex" mostlly prostitution which is illegal and unlawful,so I said what are you getting at,since I know him, so heres his story,hes been separated from his spouse for about 1 1/2 yrs,both living apart,he met this girl clubbing awhile back and hes all worried about his pending divorce if they will consider him dating this girl and having sex ,will be considered "Illegal sex" per say ,I guess it would be considered "Adultry",but the thing is , I found out, she's was separated from her spouse also at the time,now she went back to her spouse but he's SOL ....so my question is ,if both partys were separated from their spouses, when they had consentual sex ,is that considered "Illegal sex"?there was no legal filing saying they were legally seperated on his part, I hope this makes sense because now I 'm all confused,thanks

2006-09-15 12:42:16 · 13 answers · asked by Hawaiian Eye 1

got married 2 months ago,known him 6, Im haveing filling hes very sneeky , I dont beleive i trust him. he opens bank accounts i dont know about puts all our lights gas cable in his name . likes me to be stuck at home when hes at work. so dont leave car . i have his daughter takeing care of her. tell me how do i find out if im wrong n what hes doing ?

2006-09-15 12:26:34 · 26 answers · asked by imthisrosetoo 1

2006-09-15 12:22:15 · 19 answers · asked by HeartsBreaker 2

do you exaggerate the pleasure sounds that your mate may or may not provide things like x tra loud screaming or or tell him how big he feels if you do tell me why you personally would do that besides the fact men have the biggest egos on earth lol

2006-09-15 12:20:06 · 17 answers · asked by OFFICER CAMPBELL 2

Ok. I am 32 and married almost 6 years to a wonderful man and I live in Texas. The problem is my parents. They've been miserably married for 36 years, live in the Midwest and now my mom and dad are very seriously considering starting divorce proceedings. I'm not sure what to expect and how this is going to affect me.

I also have a little sister who is adopted and is almost 8. What can she expect out of all of this?

My mom has threatened divorce before over the past few years but has never done anything. Now, it looks like she is serious and so is my dad. It sucks, because they're my parents, but they are making each other's lives extremely miserable, and that spills over into us kids, even though I'm not home with them anymore.

Never in my life would I have thought I'd be the casualty of a broken home. It makes me want to cry.

2006-09-15 12:19:33 · 12 answers · asked by TxCatLuvr 3

2006-09-15 12:17:57 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-15 12:15:55 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

in november my husband and i will be married a year!!! i have a son from my a previous relationship - sadly i became pregnate but had to terminate the pregnacy do to medical problems :( - at this time i am not ready to get pregnate again, but my husband refuse to use condoms - i started to take birth control pills and my husband became very upset with me and threaten to leave me :( my doctor advised that i wait at least a year or two before trying again - my husband agreed that we should wait before trying to have a child but he refuse to use condoms - i love my husband but im stuck between a rock and hard place - how can we enjoy making love with out putting me at risk???


loving wife

2006-09-15 12:14:04 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

This is really disgusting and I almost puked when I heard this. This girl likes to rub her boobs to get turned on for her husband. Isn't this disgusting? What do you guys think?

2006-09-15 12:07:27 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband still doesn't want our second baby. He's afraid the first won't have the same opportunities he had now that we have to provide for two--public school, rather than private, fewer extra-curricular things, etc. Part of me understands his concern, but I really want our son to have a sibling. I love my son and want the best for him. I hope I haven't made the wrong choice. My husband keeps saying I don't deserve his kisses or hugs and that I'm responsible for his being unhappy.

2006-09-15 11:57:22 · 20 answers · asked by mom2be 2

theres nothing like having to wash the the nasty marks your man leaves behind haha. i think il just set fire to them

2006-09-15 11:52:15 · 19 answers · asked by snoopdog 1

Hubby and I are in a debate and he says guys like a kinda flakey girl who needs "protecting" and I am say guys like a girl that is "strong and able to take care of herself"

2006-09-15 11:49:30 · 19 answers · asked by ? 5

You mess up your marriage, and marry again. The second marriage is a disaster, but you have a child. Then your first spouse reappears, and you realize you may have another chance at true happiness. You are completely miserable, and that is no way to live, but what about the kid?

2006-09-15 11:45:28 · 16 answers · asked by Robert M 2

Husband's biological kids moved after I sponsored them to come to the USA because my husband asked me and I'm an American Citizen, ages are: 11, 15, 18 and 21.They are all Muslim and so is he. If we watch a movie; he sits while everyone watches a mafioso graphically bet a man to death with a baseball bat. Different movie, everyone watches while car runs over guy then backs up over him repeatedly, no probs for Dad. Married couple in film kisses in front of their house in daylight. Dad goes ape to turn channel. 21 also demands film be fast-forwarded. Scene in Titanic where L.D & K.W. are at the front of the boat was fast-forwarded. Man and woman kiss/hug--bad, brutal violence relished?! Family goes 2 mall, 21 yr old (male) alone w/digital cable for 4 hrs. He ordered $70 in xxx hard PORN! Hubby purchased porn before kids came. Now if a man & woman innocently kiss w/clothing ON (PG film) it is quickly turned off by Dad & 21 YO son. Is this hypocrisy, insanity, normal, something else...?

2006-09-15 11:42:49 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Getting divorced is the most traumatic thing you can do in life. My husband just left me three weeks ago because he feels like it is too much to deal with his mental illness and childhood abuse. What's sad is that NO ONE he knows is telling him that he could be throwing his whole life away by doing this! You know why? Because people don't know what it means to stay together through thick and thin. I love him more than anything and I know he loves me too. But he is going to divorce me because it is so easy and so widely used as a form of not dealing with problems and moving past them. I can't stop crying because I know he is my soulmate and I am his and none of that even seems to matter. So much for family values.

2006-09-15 11:26:54 · 15 answers · asked by Mrs. Waiting 2

my husband has so much interest in having sex than i do....but i'm interested only few days in a month....how to increase my interest.

2006-09-15 11:25:44 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous