Should I just tell her the truth and try to patch things up or just run away to Mexico with her sister?
2006-09-15 17:53:56 · 41 answers · asked by Nice Guy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You should get a really good job because you are going to need a lawyer and you will end up paying alimony for this one.
2006-09-15 19:12:27 · answer #1 · answered by Sky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know you messed up and you can't sleep at night, yet you're trying to hear from others that it's ok and that all will be alright. NO!!! It isn't and will not be alright......ever. You will have to live with your conscience of having hurt your wife.....if you "love her", which is obvious you don't since your still debating whether to keep her or run off with the sister. I hope she catches you and kicks your *** to the curb. I could understand if for some reason you fell in love with her sister and ended your relationship to be with the sister....no one can control the heart, but not to sit there and wonder if you should still hide it. How much longer do you think this will last? You don't know what you want and you're dragging your loved ones in your mess. If you no longer love your wife, then for everyone's sake, move on and end it already!
2006-09-15 18:04:30 · answer #2 · answered by LUIS A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, Bubba, I can tell you are listening a little bit to my answers, because of the next question....so listen again!!!! DO NOT run off. Yea, you are her husband, but that was her sister!!!! If the sister was willing to do that your wife???? Think about this! What would the sister do to you? Look, if you believe in God, confess your sins to him and pray for him to give you the strength to do the right thing and to tell your wife, also to help heal your relationship with the one you promised yourself to! Her finding out isn't the problem.... you have to clear your conscious by doing the right thing, and make it up to her. If you tell the truth you will feel much better.By the way, set up a yahoo e-mail and people can e-mail you through answers if you set it up that way... without letting them know your actual e-mail... I would have gave you further advice if you had that option set up!
2006-09-15 18:07:47 · answer #3 · answered by Country 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at this point when you are deliberating on being honest with her, there is still that option of jumping back to her sister. if you really love your wife, you should be honest and tell her about it but you have to be prepared for the consequences, aside from the making up that you will have to do. a stable relationship should have trust as its foundation, you will have to be willing to work hard to earn that trust back. as you think of doing that, are you ever feeling sorry for what you did? if you're not, and you feel within you that you will do it again the next chance you get, then save the drama, get a divorce and if you feel it's her sister that you really want to spend the rest of your life with then go for it.
2006-09-15 18:05:37 · answer #4 · answered by marisu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honest in this case will probably get you a divorce and her sister losing her sisters trust and friendship.
you can try it the old fashioned way.. all 3 of you get together, and just say the truth, say it was a 1 time thing, you're both sorry and hope she forgives both of you. (if you want to keep her as your wife, if not, file for divorce and move out while she's gone).
2006-09-15 17:56:56 · answer #5 · answered by Eric F 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get some balls and tell your wife that you're a scumbag! Then tell her sister I said she's a cun* for sleeping with her sister's husband. If I were your wife I'd probably pull a Lorena Bobbitt on your a** and divorce you. Tell her sister that she needs to confront her too and confess that she's the most awful sibling that any person could have. You both deserve eachother, because you both suck at being loyal to a person that you should care most about.
2006-09-15 18:05:41 · answer #6 · answered by sexy lady 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Um you need to tell her your never going to be able to patch things up but the least thing you can do is tell her the truth she deserves that. And you should see a doctor and get your s**t cut off you deserve that.
2006-09-15 18:11:14 · answer #7 · answered by shaylee b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aren't you a bright one? The sister? Heck, why not go for the mom while you're at it? Unreal buddy. Not much to patch up here beside the hole in your head that oozed out the brains.
2006-09-15 18:01:11 · answer #8 · answered by Hollynfaith 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-09-16 06:05:06 · answer #9 · answered by ♥Ashlyn♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I cant tell what her reaction will be but I can tell you how hurt she will be, that is if she loves you. Who knows maybe she is doing the same thing and cheating on you.
Why would you do that to her assuming you love her?
If she loves you then the pain she will feel is horrible. She will hate you for what you did to her not to mention her sister.
She may be able to forgive you both but dont ever ask her to forget or trust you ever again.
2006-09-16 04:01:06 · answer #10 · answered by sheryl e 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋