2006-09-15 20:36:11 · 23 answers · asked by Purrk3y 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I would say no, it's prob some sort of attraction you are suppressing and your subconscious has pulled it to the surface in the form of a dream. It's OK to be attracted to someone outside of your relationship, it's not OK to act on those desires. Acknowledge the interest and resolve it by realizing that any affair would very likely not make you happy in the long run. The things that attract us in the short-term aren't always capable of sustaining us long-term. Take a good hard look at your partner and is it worth giving up everything you have built to go chase a singular desire?
2006-09-15 20:43:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
We have all dream of different things and some of them could never happen.
Ever dream of being able to fly? Did you fly around after waking up. NO.
Dreams are dreams.
Your dream might be telling you to turn it up with your mate.
I have always told married couples don't look outside until you have tried having an affair with the one your married to.
Have an affair with your spouse. Meet secretly together where other my might to have affair. You would be surprised how that makes things exciting.
My wife and I did this and we were both advised that one of us was having an affair. The time and place we were told about was where we secretly hooked up. We told them that it was us. They didn't believe us. Oh well. We met there the next weekend again.
2006-09-15 20:47:08 · answer #2 · answered by Mit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a sexual fantasy. You may want to have sex, but you don't want to destroy our marriage, our you wouldn't be so worried about it.
Try some sex games, costumes, role-playing , a little bondage. All that your subconscious is looking for is something to spice up your sex life. It may think that another man can do it, but it will be more than happy if you and your husband spice up your sex life yourselves.
A game of tying someone's hands with a scarf, or the sexy pirate girl has to "service" the pirate captain could work. There are a lot of little games that can make sex more exciting. Switch off with your fantasies, let him have one then you can have yours. Your husband will probably get interested pretty quick.
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2006-09-15 20:49:21 · answer #3 · answered by Dan S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not.
I would never, repeat NEVER cheat on my wife, though I have had many dreams that I have. Dreams are a way of exploring fantasies without going through with it. Just like I doubt I would ever fall off a building, but do it sometimes in dreams.
2006-09-15 20:38:24 · answer #4 · answered by The Angry Scotsman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, dreAMing of an affair doesnt constitute you subconsciously wanting one. i dreamed of having sex with a woman and i am no way a lesbian. your mind went there it is now up to you to act on that or not. sounds more like you were watching something on tv when you went to sleep or it was a conversation somewhere throughout your day
2006-09-15 20:40:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Just because you fantasize about something does not mean you would ever do it. People need to have a fantasy life, but it is best to have a healthy one. If you fantasize about something often enough, it increases the likelihood that you would actually perform the act you have thought about. Find something else to dream about. It would be a lot better for you in the long run.
2006-09-15 20:37:01 · answer #6 · answered by Candidus 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes and no.
It could only mean you are not content with your current relationship subconsciously. However, it may not indicate you have that intent. Venting out in the dream is a way to show your feeling about how you feel in yoru current relationship.
2006-09-16 06:54:18 · answer #7 · answered by YourDreamDoc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probabaly not. Are you dissatisfied with you current situation? Don't be tempted to have a affair because of the dream.
2006-09-15 20:39:25 · answer #8 · answered by nancy e 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not necessarily. Dreams can be subconscious desires and also fears. But sometimes dreams are just dreams, nothing more.
2006-09-15 20:47:27 · answer #9 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not necessarily, but it does mean you are missing something in your relationship and you better figure it out and fix it before the dream becomes reality.
2006-09-15 20:54:59 · answer #10 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋