2006-09-15 19:12:34 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Neither. I calmly tell him how I felt, and we talk it out.
2006-09-15 19:15:12 · answer #1 · answered by julez 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Neither. We are one of those couples that make everyone sick. We aren't smoochy or sickly sweet but we just dig each other heaps!
If he ever makes me angry, i tell him why & we sort it out... then we have mad sex & tell each other how crazy we are about each other. Yelling takes so much energy & i dont know how people can be bothered to do it day after day. If you anger each other a lot, why bother?
2006-09-16 02:19:08 · answer #2 · answered by punkvixen 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is best to walk away for a bit to cool down. If you yell in the heat of the moment, hurtful words that are said cannot be taken back. Been there, did that.
2006-09-16 02:16:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, i'm very passive, so i usually give him the gold should. i think yelling is the worst thing to do. if you are upset he will hear you better if you speak to him. yelling is a form of abuse. my mother was very strict, so i was never taught to talk about my feelings. so now, when i have a problem, i write my feelings on the white board. its helping me slowly slip into a comfort level to allow myself to loosen up and speak about my feelings. hopefully i helped you out with something.
2006-09-16 02:24:01 · answer #4 · answered by kristy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yelling dont get no where the quiet thing helps better than you talk about what the problem was,a marriage grows stronger when your able to communicate what angers you ar hurts you.
2006-09-16 02:17:33 · answer #5 · answered by alwayssmiling 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
both if I get really angry its better for me to either yell back or sit there and take it. If I walk away it only makes things worse
2006-09-16 02:18:39 · answer #6 · answered by Mrs Magoo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a very strange sense of doing things. I make him feel really small. I manipulate him. I am the vengful type.
2006-09-16 02:15:43 · answer #7 · answered by angiesnotshy11083 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Both
2006-09-16 03:11:23 · answer #8 · answered by Rhianna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he pisses me off he knows why. I'm not in to playing childish games and making him guess what is wrong.
2006-09-16 02:43:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i usually walk away and dont talk to him for hours..(BF not husband)
2006-09-16 02:14:46 · answer #10 · answered by wittlewabbit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋