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2006-09-15 20:31:41 · 25 answers · asked by http://hogshead.pokerknave.com/ 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think it depends a lot on the strength, tenacity and wisdom of the couple, as well as if they are prepared to continue life without their families.
I am a mixed race catholic and my husband is Asian Hindu, his mother refused to accept us or our children, although he still had contact with his family we were never involved.
I have been ostracised from all family events, as have the children. We have built a life for ourselves and are doing fine.
2006-09-15 20:37:57 · answer #1 · answered by horsegal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, they can be a major challenge if you realize that religion is often simply the outwardly visible indicator of deeper cultural beliefs or conditioning.
Initially, when love is at its romantic peak, couples will overlook unique cultural differences to accommodate their loved one. But later, as torrid romance subsides, and the more practical aspects of a relationship gain prominence, what were once cute quirks lovingly accepted, can become annoying or disturbing obstacles to deal with or overcome.
Overall, cross cultural relationships are difficult at best, and may not well stand the test of time.
2006-09-15 21:03:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, because your religion doesn't pay your bills in this world. It is only up to the couple to decide how much part religion plays in your relationship. If both people understand each other and respect both sides, there shouldn't be any problem.
2006-09-15 20:37:02 · answer #3 · answered by Sush517 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your asking lots of Q's at the moment. You are almost at the next level. lose 5 points for every Q you ask. Answer a few and get to level 5.
2006-09-15 20:35:30 · answer #4 · answered by 90210 aka Hummer Lover 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. If you both talk it out and decide together about what path the children follow.
I know couples that have sent their children to both churches so they would see and be able to choose.
It can work if you both love each other and don't belittle each others religious beliefs.
2006-09-15 20:36:08 · answer #5 · answered by Mit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The way the world is currently going, yes, but more due to your neighbours deciding to start ethnic cleansing on your street rather than any kind of family ideological differences.
2006-09-15 22:49:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only when the marriage is between two idiots who have no idea what marriage is all about. Religion has nothing to do with it because the marriage is still between two HUMANS who make mistakes.
2006-09-15 21:01:07 · answer #7 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it depends on the sanity, wisdom, maturity and flexibility of the two people involved. If either of them is lacking in these areas it won't work. If they are both abundant in these areas the marriage will flourish.
2006-09-15 20:45:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My Grandparents were Jewish/Lutheran.
If their love for each other transcends their adherence belief and guilt perpetuated by their religion, and they respect the views of their partner, almost anything could work.
2006-09-15 20:34:26 · answer #9 · answered by Roadpizza 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. I'd say that love and respect of a trusted spouse will easily save the day over the dictates of any two differing beliefs... especially if the sex is good. LOL.
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2006-09-15 20:39:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋