Marriage & Divorce - 14 September 2006

having sex with my wife so my separation won't be set back 6
months. Its her word against mine and I really doubt she has
any proof like a video and if she did it would not be clear-I could
always say she tried to have sex, but I pulled away and never went inside. She is a nasty hateful sob and the last thing I
want to do is to have to wait 6 months longer.
ALSO, should I deny this to my new lawyer ???
( I told my other lawyer we did 0 but I could always change
that story.

2006-09-14 04:24:26 · 26 answers · asked by don;t know 3

the guy just threw her out the house with her clothes, am so upsed she has alwayz been a good friend.. i also found out that the guy got to the point of hiting her what can i do about this?? its just so hard to give advice at this point anyonehave any ideas of what i should do??? she is only 18 years old, she is now staying with her parents but they are not giveing her the psycological help she needs?

2006-09-14 04:20:56 · 11 answers · asked by *********** 4

2006-09-14 04:20:39 · 16 answers · asked by prmami4eva_17 2

I've been married for 6 yrs. and feel so ugly at times. I'm not sure that my DH thinks I'm very attractive anymore. So, when a guy "notices" me it makes me feel good. Is this bad since I'm married (although not happily married but none the less I'm married).

2006-09-14 04:15:33 · 25 answers · asked by RainaDeLaSol 2

How long has it been?

2006-09-14 04:15:09 · 3 answers · asked by jenna b 1

I am married and am suffering from a severe case of ... well a lack of sex maybe once or twice a month. Plus I am only 25 so I am in my peak. Help please!

2006-09-14 04:11:23 · 36 answers · asked by Paka 2

I have had the picinic in the living room which went great. I need more ideas.

2006-09-14 04:09:58 · 11 answers · asked by lady_reed_03 2

I try to talk to my husband all the time about things and this is what i get.Not now,i don't want to talk about or thats just stupid.I am a very outgoing person,i talk to everyone and love having a good time when i go out.When we go out and i am dancing,(and it never fails)i hear take it easy,people are going to think this or that.Everytime i talk when we're out it's you shouldn'thave said that.I never seem to think i'm out of line and will ask friends or family that was out with us,did i do something wrong nine of of ten they tell me no.Sex talk,forget about it,he looks at me like i'm just such an idiot.I'm starting to feel like i have no connetion with him.We have been together since i was 17,we got married when i was 19 and now i'm 26.So i haven't dated anyone else and don't know how other people are.Am i over reacting and if im not how do i get him to open up?We have been to a therapist.

2006-09-14 04:09:12 · 27 answers · asked by just wondering 2

How long has it been?

2006-09-14 04:02:54 · 2 answers · asked by jenna b 1

first time in almost 2 weeks. She was on top and I pulled out, half way thru getting off, she jumps up and almost ran to the bathroom to wash her hands off. Now I don't want this to get reported and I don't mean to be crude about it....there was no other way to say it....but after that, I was so turned off and it gave me a feeling of WTF! Am I wrong to feel this way and is there any reason for her to do this. I would love to here from the ladies on this one.

2006-09-14 03:59:07 · 22 answers · asked by Andy S 3

If two people had a relationship, had feelings for each other and they ended it do you think that connection will always be there and they will go back to exes?

2006-09-14 03:57:36 · 18 answers · asked by honeyluv_2010 4

I really think my husband has a problem with porn or other sex related issues. If he is not watching porn on DVD, he is downloading short porn videos. I don't have a problem with his sexuality, I just wish that he would focus that sexual attention on me. What should I do?

2006-09-14 03:54:32 · 27 answers · asked by forever charmed 2

I am dating my overall boss in my company. I had a interview last week for new position inside my company, but in a different division. After the interview, my boyfriend (the overall boss) and I went out for dinner. Then the people who interviewed me, they saw us. Of course, nobody supposes to know we are dating… as he is married but devoicing at the moment. My interview went really well (I think). The people interviewed me , they are good work colleges with my boyfriend. Have been seen together, not it will be a positive thing for the new job… or ??? help please? Thanks.

2006-09-14 03:44:28 · 18 answers · asked by Tomorrowalwaysbetter! 2

Before my husband and I started dating we were intimit but the people that we were then we thought that we knew nothing was going to come of it. We hung out every weekend as ONLY friends but with benefits. We started to get feelings for eachother but as far as I knew nothing too serious. One weekend instead of hanging out with him even though I said that I would I met up with an ex and we had sex. I told who is now my husband what I had done and it completely broke his heart. I had really hurt him because he started to have deeper feeling for me at that time and I had thought we were just friends having a good time together. He says I told him a specific time that we were supposed to hang out but I don't remember doing that but it hurt him even more. We are married now and have been for over a year with a 5 month old son. He still feels hurt everyday because of what I did so long ago. I have been appoligizing ever since the day that it I made this mistake. What more can I do?

2006-09-14 03:42:32 · 13 answers · asked by babe112083 1

Male 33 married and not happy. My wife and I are both not happy for different reasons, we want it to work although it seems we spend alot of time fighting. We have tried counseling yet still fighting, she is aware of my concerns and I am aware of hers. She now thinks an open marriage might help? We do love each other and do not want to separate... Will this help.... have any ladies entered a situation like this... did it work?

2006-09-14 03:40:55 · 8 answers · asked by on2try 2

it has been a year, what all would i be able to do. or can i even file for divorce

2006-09-14 03:40:04 · 9 answers · asked by snetta1 2

Just wondering how often this has occurred. It is sad but I am sure it does happen.

2006-09-14 03:34:37 · 14 answers · asked by Jennifer L 6

2006-09-14 03:33:14 · 15 answers · asked by jackie 2

Okay, I've been wanting a baby, but my husband's not ready yet. He says that he thinks he will be in a couple of years. I'm trying really, really hard to be patient, but all I can think about is us having our first child. I'm trying to keep myself occupied but it's not helping.

We have two dogs, I'm going to school (I'll graduate next year with my Bachelor's degree), I work full time, I'm active in church, and I do independent research.

He's going to get a new job soon, so I won't have to work and we'll still have a great income. We've sat down and wrote out financial plans (to save for the baby), get a college fund started, and I've been working on my health. After I graduate I'm going to get into an "all online" graduate school program so if he does want to have the baby a little earlier than we're planning, I'll still be able to stay at home.

I'm still having trouble waiting...what can I do? I don't want to seem like I'm sad to him, it's not fair to him...

2006-09-14 03:30:23 · 13 answers · asked by Tea_Girl 4

I understand the concept of cooking and cleaning...just not as it applies to me...

Men are like coffee...the best ones are rich, warm and can keep you up all night.

Why do I have to get married? I didn't do anything wrong.

Don't assume I'm not into cheat meaningless sex...

Ran into my ex the other day, put it in reverse and hit him again.

All men are idiots...I married their King.

Behind every great woman.....is a man checking out her ***.

Nothing gets me in the mood like a man doing my dishes!!

Being unstable and bitchy is all part of my mystique :)

Damn right I'm good in the kitchen! I can eat for hours!!

Admitting your an asshole is the first step.

How come all the cool girls are lesbian

I only fake it so he'll buy me stuff.

I want it all and I want it smothered in chocolate and whipped cream!

Whisper my favorite words..."I'll buy it for you."

I know I know reported, amazingly though, I don't give a sh*t!!
Have a great day Ladies!!!!

2006-09-14 03:30:01 · 18 answers · asked by sasha 4

How is this acceptable? "Boys will be boys" and "men are visual creatures"... bullshit. What, the fuq? Am I supposed to just revel in the joy of being lied to and deceived? All you who basically told me this in my last question, and all who beleive it, can go suck an egg. You are by yourselves on that one.

2006-09-14 03:19:54 · 22 answers · asked by Goddess of Nuts PBUH 4

I don't want to lead any answers so I won't supply any details.

2006-09-14 03:19:28 · 28 answers · asked by thebuffettour 2

2006-09-14 03:10:55 · 44 answers · asked by ∂ιαиα †Matisyahu† 7

me and my wife have been together for 2 years there have ben some isuses but nothing major. but the relationship had lost some fire so we decided to break up and be friends but still live together and sleep in the same bed and on ocations be intimit. this happend 3 weeks ago 5 days ago we talked and we told eachother we were in love and we could work it out. so we decided to come clean about the past 3 weeks i told her the truth nothing had happend i hadn't even talked to a woman during this time she told me a guy at the gym was after her but she wasn't interested she didn't want to be with anyone but me. great right? we had 4 wonderful days and yesterday i desided to check her emails big mistake i found out they had gone out several times kissed and he was refering to her as my future wife. so i cofrunted her she denied everything i showed her the prof and she still denied it but little by little started confessing she said they'd gone out and kissed but no sex. my heart is broken.

2006-09-14 03:01:35 · 26 answers · asked by icemike 2

How do I get started?
Can I get a free lawier?
What are all the programs I should be on?
I have two boys:5and3
stay at hom mom .

2006-09-14 02:57:29 · 15 answers · asked by Angela J 1

I also have a year old girl who is so beautiful and loving and is so glad when she sees her father. Should i divorce him? I am actually not happy and I'm always leaving when the tensions is high to find peace some where.
The fact is that he's in the habit of disgracing me often and even jumps on me to fight. It's two years since we got wedded and I'm 32. can anyone say something to me.

2006-09-14 02:54:44 · 39 answers · asked by cicom35 1

i love my bf and he loves me too... however, we never seem to spend enough time due to his part time degrees, work and national sevice... what should i do?

2006-09-14 02:52:59 · 14 answers · asked by chimologies 1

as i posted before we are having some trouble and i want to do something really special that he wont forget

2006-09-14 02:43:21 · 10 answers · asked by sweet - angel 3

About 3 years ago my wife and I moved in with my mother in law. Over the course of the 3 years we build an addition on my mom in law house, I took a mortgage with my mom in law to get the money. Then the trouble started she refused to help with any of the bills, including the mortgage she signed with me stating she had no money. She spent her money on what she wanted (mostly buying my kids and convincing my wife I was no good) Everytime I would talk with my wife about any issues while living there I was a stupid idiot (yes i said my fair share of nasty things too) who rehashed the same old things. I could not take the fighting and feeling unimportant to my wife any longer so I left and now my wife wants nothing to do with me, I am heartbroken because I love my wife but cannot live with my mother in law and my wife does not want me anymore because of all the fighting that took place. I feel my wife became more of a daughter to her mother than a wife to me in the end. I am confused

2006-09-14 02:41:24 · 12 answers · asked by jbrown280000 1

I do realize this is sad, but I was wondering if other women were like this.

2006-09-14 02:39:59 · 24 answers · asked by Jennifer L 6