If two people had a relationship, had feelings for each other and they ended it do you think that connection will always be there and they will go back to exes?
2006-09-14 03:57:36 · 18 answers · asked by honeyluv_2010 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If they had a true relationship - unfortunately there will always be some sort of feelings. Evidentally there was something that happened to break them up hence the lost " Trust" issue. At least you know that your boyfriend is capable of a relationship!! ;o) You will just need to trust in his feelings for you and time will work out your worries! Good luck! I wish you the best!
2006-09-14 04:02:36 · answer #1 · answered by Jules 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I for one, have no desire to be with any of my exes. However, I did have that problem with my ex bf, and his ex gf, who is the mother of his older daughter. The problem is that one, my ex was a total flirt when it comes to girls, and two, his ex still had feelings for him, and still does. She will do whatever it takes to try to get him back, and sometimes he would go so far as to call her whenever we got in a fight, just to make me mad. So yeah, I worried, because I knew the way they both were, and they both gave me plenty enough reason to worry.
To answer your question, I think it depends on the relationship the people had. Sometimes people end a relationship, and still have feelings for each other, but things just didn't work out. Or there are others who break up and never want to associate with each other ever again. It all depends...
2006-09-14 04:04:22 · answer #2 · answered by angelbaby 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i don't worry about my bf relationships of course he never had a long one, however if the relationship was a long time then yes there will always be a connection and if there are children involved it's even more of a connection, it doesn't ever go away it's always there but think of it this way he is with you right so try not to worry so much, just because there is a connection doesn't mean they will go back to the ex.
2006-09-14 06:51:00 · answer #3 · answered by rachel m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't necessarily think that they would go back to an ex because of a connection that they once had. They ended it for a reason, rite?
I never worried about my old mans exes , had one that used to call all the time after he started to date me, all I would do is tell her in a very nice tone... If you want him that bad your more than welcome to come and get him. She stopped calling.
2006-09-14 04:04:04 · answer #4 · answered by freyed2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that there is always a connection between people who were in a relationship that involved kissing and sex. There is always the possibility for them to get back together. This is because men will have in the back of their minds that they had the woman once, they can get her again. Thats how we think.
2006-09-14 04:01:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think there is always going to be exs to deal with but really if your with that special guy you have nothing to worry about. And if something does happen then kick that man to the curb, you deserve better!
2006-09-14 04:00:26 · answer #6 · answered by Jessye 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I don't worry about the exes. If someone wants to go back to their ex, then go because I'm going my own seperate way.
2006-09-14 04:02:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on the people. My husband and one of his exes had feelings for one another, and I thought for sure I would loose him, but he married me and we have been married now for 9 years. I think everyday that he choose me and not her. So it does not bother me anymore.I know that she would have never been as good to him as I am. And he knows that too.
2006-09-14 04:02:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is always that possibility. Does he stay in communication with them. My SO is always chatting, emailing etc and it bothers me. They are way too good of friends to be ex's.
2006-09-14 04:01:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, do you think he should worry about you with your exes? It's all a matter of control and ability to devote one's self to someone new.
2006-09-14 04:03:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋