i love my bf and he loves me too... however, we never seem to spend enough time due to his part time degrees, work and national sevice... what should i do?
2006-09-14 02:52:59 · 14 answers · asked by chimologies 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Quality over quantity.
If you want to continue the relationship, then both of you should strive for quality time together to make up for the lack of quantity.
2006-09-14 02:55:54 · answer #1 · answered by kja63 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can be tough when a relationship is long distance or the people in the relationship are very busy, but I think it also makes you appreciate the time you do have together. If it really bothers you and you can't seem to get over those feelings of lonliness, maybe you should try and talk about it...see if he can give something up or if you two can agree on a set amount of hours spent together during a week. Don't demand he give something up however, and don't make him feel guilty about his schedule, he will only resent you in the end
2006-09-14 10:01:44 · answer #2 · answered by violet1656 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to keep yourself busy when he's busy. Engage in a hobby - hobbies to beautify yourself? Example, learning to do nail art, makeup, or joining an exercise club. Honestly, i used to feel that way too, but i came to understand that no one will be able to give me 100% of their time as they have to lead their lives too. Besides, he is not involved in unfruitful and harmful activities - think on the bright side. Remember, an empty mind is the devils play ground.
2006-09-14 10:03:12 · answer #3 · answered by Raven Hood® 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I totaally agree with the quality over quanity comment...I don't get to see the guy I'm sorta seeing...my dad says we are doing the way old fashioned courting thing.....but when I do see him it is way special. Last night he took me and one of our mutual friends out to supper...he was hungry and saw that I was down at her house so he texted me and said he was hungry and after several text messages showed up saying lets go....he always walks down to her house if I'm there so that I can bring him home and we can have so one on one talking time before I head out of town and home myself...there are times when the lack of time with him get annoying or just really hard to deal with but you know I really ask myself...ok he can't spend time with me right now because......of what ever.....is he wishing he was with me or talking to me instead of being where he is....I might not know the actaul answer but I bet I'm on his mind here and there throughout his day after all...he has called me from work to find out how my dr's appointment went....or to let me know he'd be running late cause there's a problem that he is in the middle of dealing with.
2006-09-14 10:05:23 · answer #4 · answered by monkey_love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look if he don't have time for you now he will never have time for you. Trust I have been there. You need to leave him and find someone who really loves you and want to be with you. Becuz if really loved you then he will make time for you.
2006-09-14 10:05:09 · answer #5 · answered by JUSTME 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to each other. Communication is the key to any relationship. Without that....the relationship WILL fall apart.
2006-09-14 09:57:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
People will stop at nothing to get what they want. Especially if they want it bad enough. You should busy yourself and try not to wait around for him. If you mean anything to him, he'll stop making excuses.
2006-09-14 10:04:54 · answer #7 · answered by Mommy2Liam 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just sit and have a serious talk with him... u said he loves u very much then he will come around....dont worry.
2006-09-14 10:13:47 · answer #8 · answered by Miss-Kenya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, If I was a girl, I would drop him like a pile of crap.
Why be hanging onto him when he doesnt have time for you. sure you cando better than this guy.
2006-09-14 09:56:14 · answer #9 · answered by apostle1938 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
seriously!!!! how do u not make time for that special someone??? i dont care what he does i bet i've done more and i would be able to make time....sounds like bs to me.
2006-09-14 09:55:19 · answer #10 · answered by mr_fury666 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋