2006-09-14 03:10:55 · 44 answers · asked by ∂ιαиα †Matisyahu† 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He is a very impulsive man and i am an atractive and insecure woman (i was divorced when he married me)
2006-09-14 03:30:12 · update #1
YOU CAN TRUST HIM BUT NEVER UNDERESTIMATE HIM. THERE IS A SAYING IN MY LANGUAGE THAT IS TRANSLATED TO: "THE DEVIL NEVER SLEEPS" MEANING KEEP YOUR EYES OPEN AND YOUR FEELERS OUT BUT DONT ACCUSE HIM OR BECOME OVERBEARING AND FOLLOW HIM EVERYWHERE. IF HE IS YOU WILL KNOW
2006-09-14 03:15:50 · answer #1 · answered by BUG M 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Trust and communication are the two most important things in a marriage. You should trust him no matter what opinions he has of himself. Has he ever given you reason to think he is cheating on you? Are you feeling a little guilty because you have thought about cheating on him? You need to really look at your relationship and be honest with yourself.
2006-09-14 03:15:18 · answer #2 · answered by Melissa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MY ANSWER IS HAVE HE EVER CHEATED ON YOU IF SO THEN WHEN WAS THE LAST TIME I USE TO CHEAT ON MY WIFE AND NOW I WOULD NOT SO IF ITS BEEN MORE THE TWO OR TREE YRS THE YES YOU CAN TRUST HIM A LITTLE BUT IF NOT THAT LONG THEN I WOULD NOT LET HIM BREATH YET AND AS FAR AS HE SAYING HE IS UGLY WELL THAT IS JUST A THROUGH OFF YOU KNOW IF HE LOOKS GOOD OR NOT AND IF YOU THINK HE LOOKS GOOD THEN YOU KNOW THERE IS SOME ONE ELSE OUT THERE THAT LIKES HIM TO
2006-09-14 03:22:34 · answer #3 · answered by kingkong9274 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because a man is ugly does not mean he can't always find some woman to sleep with him. Everyone finds people to be with, it don't matter if you are ugly or fat or covered in boils. There is always someone out there who thinks you are *All That*. Do you actually have reason to believe your hubby is cheating on you? If you have no reason to think that he is, then lighten up on him. If you think he Is cheating then you need to reconsider your marriage.
2006-09-14 03:14:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only you can answer that. Him saying he is ugly is a way of making you think he would never cheat, but it could also be his way of proving that he never would too. You have to ask yourself do you think he would do it? If you have any doubt at all then you don't trust him 100% but 100% trust is very very hard to attain.
2006-09-14 03:12:56 · answer #5 · answered by claire 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should encourage your husband don't allow him to have low self esteem, is not good for neither of you. And you as a woman should trust him he's your husband your relationship start on trust right?? I hope so, and if he says he ugly why are you worried??? Live and let Live. Good Luck...
2006-09-14 03:17:27 · answer #6 · answered by sexychocolate 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
only u know the answer 2 that. we never really know if someone is going 2 do something wrong but we have 2 ask our selves is the thought that they might do something wrong worth not giving them the chance n seeing what the relationship brings.
someday u have 2 trust n hope u made the right decision on who 2 trust.
2006-09-14 03:13:51 · answer #7 · answered by Lady Geo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you have any REASON not to trust him? I hope if he believes he is ugly that you are telling him that he is not. You are attracted to him, after all. I can't guarantee that any man will NEVER cheat. I don't know him, plus given the right circumstances I honestly believe ANYONE could cheat.
2006-09-14 03:25:42 · answer #8 · answered by butrcupps 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try your luck but don't hope and expect a lot from him. if he has really came back to you without intention of ditching you, You will realise it by the time. you have already commited your relationship and can't easily run away. give him a chance but if it seems that he is cheating you again then no need stay with such a cheap person.
2006-09-14 03:26:47 · answer #9 · answered by crazychori 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As an ugly person myself, you should be able to trust him, because when we get to be with and love in love with a beautiful girl, that it cheating makes no sense what so ever.
2006-09-14 03:14:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any man will cheat given the right circumstances.
Keep your eyes open, ugly guys fall for smooth talking women faster than guys with good self-esteem.
Ct
2006-09-14 03:12:30 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋