She is 51 Iam 41 and it is weird she does not care to hardly ever have sex anymore. We have been married 11 years and she is not the type to cheat but I am starting to wonder??
2006-09-14 10:15:13 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think it is time for the both of you to visit a sex therapist or a marriage counsellor.
2006-09-14 10:16:47 · answer #1 · answered by Miss J 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
do u feel that she is being satisfied Mentally, Emotionally, Spiritually, and Physically by you?? =T do all u can to see if there is a disconnect in the relationship. take her out on romantic dates, buy surprise gifts, flowers, sweet notes.... do things u wouldn't normally do, but JUST to make her happy. if that doesn't work, u may have to sit her down and have a talk..because now U are not being satisfied Physically, and that's a problem. good luck, and do ur best to be the best husband u can be....once u do that, u can figure out if the problem is HER, or something else, but at least ur trying hard to make sure the problem is not YOU.
2006-09-14 17:18:24 · answer #2 · answered by sasmallworld 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She's not cheating, but just out of touch as to what helps to hold a marriage together. You need to do little things to remind her. She is alittle older than you, so maybe going thru alittle change of life. Help her out, she is your wife, talk to her. Sometimes when we have been with someone for a long time, we tend to forget about making each other happy. Things may seem to be old news, and we get out of touch with our feelings. Tell her you love her, and miss being with her, and that you don't want things to change. Its just a faze. Help it along! Good luck!
2006-09-14 17:21:32 · answer #3 · answered by Paulda37 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just do things that will remind her why she married you in the 1st place i cant belive she doent want sex may b its hormones ask a dr get help bf it cause lots of heart ach
2006-09-14 17:19:53 · answer #4 · answered by Msdeb gee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
help her feel sexy again. She problem doesn't feel sexy. You make the moves and have a very sexy weekend. Buy her rose, wine, and dinner. If you need to get some sex toy.
2006-09-14 17:22:45 · answer #5 · answered by mkgirl6 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is going through the menopause.. hormones are dropping like no ones business, guy you got to get her going good time,, tell her to go the doc's and get on the HRT
tablets,, cos i tell yer its all down hill from now,, and i should know 52 female here, TABS DONE ME THE WORLD OF GOOD
2006-09-14 17:25:02 · answer #6 · answered by valda54 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Talk about, as my wife and I did. Her answer was get it elsewhere and don't tell her.
2006-09-14 17:50:33 · answer #7 · answered by twatlicker1962 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow where did u meet being 10 years apart. she could have babysit u. haha that would be funny! she is just going through a stage with different hormones.
2006-09-14 17:18:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
She's getting older and probably doesn't feel sexy anymore.
2006-09-14 17:18:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow you made it that long, be thankful.
2006-09-14 17:36:59 · answer #10 · answered by Sausage Fingers™ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋