Can anyone tell me what the behavior of a cheating spouse is?

Answer 1

He might have a boyfriend. Find out if if he has hemorrhoids.

Answer 2

1) Showering before going to workout
2) More frequent after hour work meetings
3) More attentive to appearance and smelling good
4) Needing to get out of the house but not much of a reason given
5) Fighting more often and then leaving the house (they had no other way to get out of the house other than a fight)
6) Hang up phone calls to the house
7) Acting like they have something to hide or won't explain some things (nothing should be a secret from a spouse, they should be your sole confidant, best friend)
8) Hiding the cell phone
9) More time on the computer, minimized screens if you come in the room as though there is something they don't want you to see.
10) An unexplained confidence
11) Change in routine

If you feel in your gut he/she is cheating, then they are.

Answer 3

It can be just about anything...which is why its so hard to determine for sure. Mostly its just about changes in behavior. There are some common sense things, of course, suddenly being away from home more than usual with no logical explanation, usually a change in appearance...suddenly paying more attention to how the look, dress, smell, etc. Being secretive about phone calls...say someone would just sit their cell phone on the coffee table everyday and now suddenly its put away or left in the car or 'forgotten' at work, things like that. Keep in mind that all of these things can also be for other reasons...the best thing to do is

1) determine whether or not this is who your spouse has shown themselves to be in the past, because accusing someone who has never given you any reason to doubt them can be so offensive to them that it does just as much damage as actually having an affair does to a relationship and

2) make sure it isn't just YOU being paranoid or feeding your own insecurities and trying to hold someone else responsible for them.

3) if the spouse is a woman its very likely that she has been telling you she's unhappy for a LONG time and you just didn't pay much attention to it....is that the case?

Good luck.

Answer 4

I read all the other answers, and although I agree with most of them, nobody can answer this question but you honey. You know your spouse better than any of us. If things don't seem right or are a little off, question them. If it doesn't change, do some investigating to get to the bottom of it. I wish I had better words of wisdom and I hope it's not happening to you, but if there's a sudden change in behavior...something is going on...just ask, don't assume, it might be something else. I wish you luck!

Answer 5

Coming abode & showering at present. buying new undies, buying new socks, outfits buying if this is not something they do oftentimes. donning cologne or fragrance on a extra wide-spread foundation. searching contained in the reflect extra oftentimes than wide-spread probable in disbelief that anybody else contained in the international might want to discover them alluring. secret telephone calls. intense previous due evening conferences. operating weekends, operating by the dinner hour in basic terms to go back abode bathe then bypass to sleep. Hiding funds. Smelling like some different person's fragrance or cologne. Hiding their cellular telephone & the cellular telephone expenditures. averting quiet time on my own with their spouse.

Answer 6

There are lots of signs-- working late suddenly if they hadn't had to before; having to go away on business trips unexpectantly; wearing cologne or perfume, or a different one than usual; taking more time with their personal appearance and dress; being overly attentive when they ARE home, as if they feel guilty;not wanting you to answer their phone if it rings while they are with you;
However, the best way is to sit them down, make them look you in the eye, & calmly ask them!!
Good luck!!

Answer 7

Oh you mean like when their gone all the time, and even are willing to run your errands, for you... Or, when their late all the time coming home from work.... Or when they come home and alls they want to do is sleep, instead of make love to you.. Or when they start acting like everythings "Wrong" with you, and not them... Or when they suddenly care about how their dressed, or start changing how they dress, to go out the door looking better for the world then for you... Or when they start acting like grouchy all the time when their home... Yes, I had one of those, too!! And we're devorced now!! Just catch him in the shower, and try to go through his wallet, phone book or try to find receipts.. Maybe, Motel receipts... Check his shorts, see if their wet.. or have blood on them, from a female on her period.... There's all kinds of ways to find out.. You could tell him you have to run to the store, and wait about 5-10minutes, after driving just up the block, then park, walk home and sneak quietly in the door, and see if he's on the phone with someone else, and if he doesn't know your there, pick-up, the extension, and listen in.. Or when he leaves, wait about 3-4 minutes, then run down to your car, and follow him to see where he's going.. Especially those times that are "Questionable"... Good-Luck, to you..

Answer 8

You must already have some idea or you wouldn't even ask this question.

1) works late and on weekends when he never did before
2) showers before he leaves and again when he gets home
3) watches more TV instead of talking to you
4) stops taking you out places you used to go
5) sex becomes nonexistent in the marriage
6) doesn't want to talk to you anymore, just do his thing
7) drinks more
8) stays up later and later until you are already asleep before he comes to bed

Answer 9

Shady, Hiding cell phone, going in other room to talk ,working late,"OUT WITH FRIENDS" that's just what I used to do when I cheated

I noticed all of these people think u r talking about a male it's amazing we judge quickly don't we??

Answer 10

Calls on their cell w/ blocked numbers that hang up if you answer, same on house phone. Either being distant or overly courious to what you are going to be doing (GUILT). Charges you cant account for. There is an endless list.

Answer 11

Changes appearance.....loses weight, dresses different, new hair style, etc.
Physical relationship changes......sometimes they introduce new things into the bedroom, then usually after that they are not interested in sex with you at all.
Obviously, mysterious disappearances with dumb explanations.
Check phone bills and credit card statements.
Lots of time on the computer.
Defensive behaviour.