just curious.......
2006-09-14 23:26:18 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
NO
always put yourself in others' shoes. this time, your partners shoes. how would you feel about it huh?
2006-09-15 05:44:28 · answer #1 · answered by поцелуй 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Quite a tough situation...
Well, I think I would keep the affair until I got bored, provided my husband did not know a thing; he had not ever hurt me this way so I ought not to hurt him either...
On the other hand, if this sex was far more important than your common life with your partner, then... I think a divorce would be a good idea... just to spend more time with your "toy".
2006-09-15 06:55:36 · answer #2 · answered by ngiapapa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF i had,,,i think i would want my marriage to perk up a bit and bring home what i had learned,,but i wouldn't have an affair anyhow,,cowards cheat because it is easier than acknowledging you and your spouse have problems and talking them out,,imagine that same person you had an affair with in later years,,do you think it would continue or falter with responsibility as the marriage has,,it is good because it is dangerous,exciting,taboo,,marriage is secure,,or should be.
2006-09-15 06:33:58 · answer #3 · answered by lex 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, because the odds of it lasting are slim to none.
If you have troubles in your marriage take care of things at home.
If you need to divorice then do that, but not until you have given it your best efforts. And don't expect a woman having an affair to hang in there. If she cheats with you, she will most likely cheat on you.
2006-09-15 06:34:00 · answer #4 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No cause id never find out since adultery is "FORBIDDEN" and i love my husband, and i respect my marriage vows to much to ever do such a thing, and anyone that commits adultery is nothing but a spinless, gutless, insensitive , coward that doesnt deserve to have any happiness in their lives.. because the pain that is caused to the one that loves u when they find out that their life was all a joke, that the person that they loved, didnt love them back, it kills them to their very soul.. that it takes years if not a lifetime to truely get over, and i dont think i could even cause that type of pain on my worst enemy let alone someone i profess to love or atleast care about..
2006-09-15 07:56:40 · answer #5 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that I'd hate myself so much for betraying my husband like that, that I'd never be able to bring myself to continue the affair. Just being around the person would probably make me physically ill.
2006-09-15 06:31:47 · answer #6 · answered by julz 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What you will do?
For me, firstly, i didnt have affair before or after marriage.
secondly, if it would have had happened in my life, just for sex i wouldnt continue the affair...
thirdly, i believe with my personality and power of physical and mental strength and by that i could have make my conjugal life enough romantic and sexual satisifed....so i wouldnt need that...
And till now i dont need it..even sometimes my wife doubt on me...but i know i love her and i am happy with her.
2006-09-15 07:05:45 · answer #7 · answered by Russel Mehedi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. I will continue with the affair . It is love and love cannot go in waste. If you really love a girl and she equally responds your love, then it is very hard to break up with your relationship even if you are married. The same was the case with me. I had married I had my love affairs with a girl. I liked her. I did not leave her. She remained with me but with some cautions.
2006-09-15 06:32:21 · answer #8 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I would not enter into an affair in the first place.
2006-09-15 06:45:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I would! it is easy to throw around insults. I was one of them who always said, never,I must be mad, its immoral.but let me tell you once it happens you cannot control the feelings. yes rather get a divorce and move on with your lover! Lets face it majority of us are in a marriage where the sex life is basically taboo! We dont want to do immoral things because were scared of what people are going to say. I say to hell with them, only u can make yourself happy and if you are happy with your lover go for it! You will pay oneday, not your friends who dish out the insults!
2006-09-15 07:34:31 · answer #10 · answered by dusty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure I would, as long as it was okay with my wife. We don't have sex with other people until we clear it with each other.
See the article on open marriage at the link. Click with care. The article has a picture of a naked couple embracing. No genitalia, breasts or nipples are visible, but you can see their butts!
2006-09-15 06:39:46 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋