he was engaged to someone else before our marriage
my husband doesnt share any matter with me
2006-09-14 19:40:19 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Ask him. the 2 of you need to be able to communicate on all levels honestly. Did you not think of this B-4u married him. He chose you didn't he? If he or she broke the engagement on their own, and then he chose to marry you you R most likely ok. If you forced him to marry you then your most likely not ok. hope everything works out for the best for all involved!
2006-09-14 19:45:55 · answer #1 · answered by missouriaunt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some men are not good communicators, they don't always know how to express what they feel. If he comes close and hugs you or always wants a goodnight kiss it sounds good no matter what else he doesn't do.
If not, try to draw him out gently so he doesn't feel like you are invading his mind. That can be annoying to a guy who is a bit private.
My wife went through a stage where she would ask me several times a day, "What are you thinking?" After awhile I began to feel as if my thoughts were not my own. Sometimes I was thinking about something I was not wishing to burden her with so I had to make up something else to tell her. I began to feel invaded by her constant questioning. Please don't do that to him.
2006-09-15 03:32:44 · answer #2 · answered by Johnny B Goode 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
howmany days over of your marriage? In arrange marriage you have to creat love. you should behave nicely & differently so he can over come his past & start loving you.
cook good food. Be attractive all the time, encourage him for sex in night. Take interest in all his small things. findout qualities in other girl & see whether you can copy then. I think in short time you will feel that now he loves you
2006-09-15 05:54:22 · answer #3 · answered by narendra k 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A person who loves you most will never ever bring his weaker /darker side to the person whom he/she loves. May be he is afraid 2 share all things with you! May be he does not wish 2 lose you! You'll have to make efforts 2 be in his mind always. Nobody ever will forget his/her first crush/love. Does he ever try to please you? Does he keeps himself with you whenever you feel low? Does he care about you? Try to find about it . Don't cry over spilt milk, rather if he is not in love with you, make him FALL IN LOVE WITH YOU! Make new dishes for him, be passionate, Experiment with sex, & last but not the Least , DO NOT COMPLAIN ABOUT IN LAWS!
2006-09-15 02:56:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You, yourself should be the first to know if your husband loves you or not. For me, if he don't care you anymore, well he doesn't love you. But if he always kisses you upon arriving from work, hugs you at night, remits all his salaries, smiles at you all the times, i tell you he loves you very much!
2006-09-15 03:31:15 · answer #5 · answered by vsg0818 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him to say I LOVE YOU every night before going to bed.Every day I do this but all the time my husband ask why do u force me to tell a lie?
2006-09-15 03:06:32 · answer #6 · answered by zenega p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1)Are you happy?
2)Are you looked After.
3)Are you in good health?
4)Do you feel safe with him?
5)Does he take pains to help you in need?
6) Is he apologetic when wrong?
7)Does he smile?
Think and decide
2006-09-15 03:25:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lots of people has previous relationships bef marriage and still love the person they r with...Try telling him you love him and asking do you really love me...he probably just expects you to know it.
2006-09-15 02:51:48 · answer #8 · answered by lol_des 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By communicably understanding him as your husband in all the diverse spheres of your family life.
2006-09-15 07:24:39 · answer #9 · answered by mkm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him exactly what you have asked us. Let him know communication is the key to a happy marriage.
2006-09-15 02:49:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋