Am I ever going to marry my soulmate?

Answer 1

Yes, I believe everyone will - everyone has one, after all.

I met my soulmate the day we were born, he was put in the crib next to mine, our parents discovered we lived minutes apart, and from that moment on, were joined-to-the-hip; instant best friends. Always at each others houses, always on the phone, always together - people use to make fun of us and tell us we were going to get married one day, and we would deny it, saying we were 'just friends'. Both of us were homeschooled, so we were constantly doing schoolwork together at our houses, and going on feild trips sitting side my side in our mothers mini-vans. I've had poor health all my life, and when I was 10, I was in the hospital...for like, the 20th time. Whenever I was there, he would be worried sick and insist on seeing me, so my parents would tell nurses he was my brother, because he was too young to visit me otherwise. He told me when we were alone in the room that he was going to take care of me the rest of our lives, because I was his best friend and he never wanted to loose me, he kissed me on the forehead, and whispered that he loved me. We planned our weddings out at 12, I was going to be his best woman, and him, my man of honor. We were going to move into a duplex house, and if our signifigant others didn't like it, then they weren't the ones for us. We stayed 'just friends' for another year, at which point things began to change noticably. I had had a crush on him for what seemed like forever, but was too afraid to tell him, because he was my best friend. So I kept quiet, and watched as other girls flirted with him and my heart broke. But whenever I would ask him if he liked any of them, he would always tell me no. One night, we went to a play together, and we held hands without realizing it...I started to wonder...could he maybe like me back? But I was too afraid to ask him, so I kept waiting and waiting for him to bring it up, and say that he meant in just a friendship way. However, a week later, he called me up as usual at night for our 3 hour long conversation (our parents gave us our own phone lines, just so we would stop tying up theirs), and told me that he had something important to tell me, and when he was finished, he was going to hang up the phone and call me back in an half hour. Immediatly, my heart started to pound...I hoped it was what I thought it was, but feared that it was that he had decided to go out with another girl. He admitted that he had fallen in love with me and hung up. I was overjoyed to the point were I ran around the house laughing hysterically and doing cartwheels, my parents thinking I was nuts. When he called me up, we discussed - very anlytically, may I ad - getting together, and decided to follow our hearts in the matter. We always talked about marriage and having kids after that point. We had our first kiss a couple months later on top of a ferris wheel, had our first make-out not too long after that, lol. He proposed to me at 14 in a love letter (we have over 400 inbetween both of us in a 4 1/2 year span), gave me a diamond ring at 16, and a few weeks after we turned 18, officially asked my parents for their blessing in marriage. We're getting married next Autumn a few weeks after we turn 19...and have never been closer or more in tune with each other

Answer 2

Have faith. Yes.......there is not even a need to look for him/her.
She/He will come at the right place and the right time but you have to be prepared first...meaning if you are a man you should be ready to be the Knight and Shining Armour, with broad shoulders to listen, you should be able to show how much you love her not only with words but in actions and be strong in times of weakness, you should also be prepared not to take her for granted, be able to say no to disloyalty and will have the balls to mean what you say and do it.

If you are a female, If I may rephrase Pascal's quote.....do not go for a man with only his built and handsomeness, do not love him for that for the small-pox, which destroys his physical appearance without killing him, will cause your love to cease. And if you love a man for his judgment or memory, do not dare do so; for he can lose these qualities without ceasing to be.

Look for the soulmate whom you cannot live without, whom you feel incomplete without him or her by your side, look for someone who needs you and loves you as well- and vice versa.

Your soulmate will neither look for appearance as appearance will matter the least, its your character and heart that counts. Your soulmate would rather choose a heart of gold than running after you for looks and wealth.........
Finding your soulmate is a costly thing, the question is, are you ready?

Answer 3

Soulmates come with patience. Everyone has one, but if you rush into finding just the right one, you are probably moving faster than God intended for you to. If you find your soulmate and don't pray about it, you might end up fighting your soulmate for the rest of your life because you moved faster than God told you to.

Answer 4

That really depends on how long you and your soulmate have been together, but if I was you I would take my time just the same it is better for you because that gives you some time to both to get to know each other. My advice take your time!

Answer 5

have you met your soulmate? if not you better keep looking. you have to put yourself out there because no woman is going to just knock on your door and fall in love with you out of the blue. if you have met your soulmate then you should ask her to marry you. You may never meet your soul mate. Not everyone mets the one they call a sould mate, they settle for the next best thing and marry someone they are compatible with.

Answer 6

Hi Chuck, Give it time,you will know when you mean your true soulmate.I have found mind and it's really a great loving feeling.We are link as one.I know what he is going to say,and he knows what i'm going to say.I felt his pain 3000miles away,and my friend found his phone# on the internet.And we are emailing back and forth until we meet in nov.of next year.So yes, you will find your soulmate and marry her.Remember,you have to believe.
Have a good life. A friend.

Clowmy

Answer 7

You will know the answer to that question when you find your soulmate, think about it.

Answer 8

Don't give up, you'll find your soulmate.

I did, and I can't marry her because we're lesbians.

Answer 9

Marriage is a gamble. A game of chance. Finding a soulmate's like striking 1st prize. Most people get 'opps! please try again'. Therefore, its better to bring your expectations down to earth so you won't get youself too disappointed.

Answer 10

well, if u believe in the term soulmates....lol.....just be patient, the right person will come into your life when u least expected it......in the meantime, enjoy your life n' date many interesting people....life is short, who knows who might u meet???

Answer 11

Ask yourself whether you are ready to commit into giving more that what you are giving now? You have to be very frank and sincere.
Marriage is a lifetime comiitment of responsibility, love, sex, trust, fidelity, loyalty, patience and transparency that need to be shared with openess and sincerity