I bet just about everyone said yes..i guess i would too if the marriage was in a rut..hehe..THEN WHY DO PPL GET MARRIED? Are all married men bored of their wives? I know of (about 8) married couples that had divorces because their spouse was cheating/cheated. And it was the male 95% of the time. Why do people still get married? Sounds pessimistic but its reality. I am 23 and have had more than 2 offers from married men at my work place..Well they didnt directly asked for sex but what else could a married man want if they ask another girl out? Any married men/women that would have a one night stand knowin' your partner would never find out?
2006-09-14 20:31:29 · 24 answers · asked by julia_lori 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well, I can tell u that I can cheat on my husband right now without him ever finding out BUT...I won't...and will never. Why? Because it's not about him. It's about me and my inability to go home to him, look him in the eyes and pretend nothing happened. I just wouldn't be able to live with the guilt and for that matter...myself. Besides, I take my marriage vows seriously and I believe in upholding it.
2006-09-14 20:35:05 · answer #1 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, because whether I was happy or not ultimately I would be the one living with the fact that I was untruthful to myself and that person. If your going to marry a person you should stand by that person thru thick and thin even if they get on your nerves. Turning to another person to find a moment of pleasure is only going to make you just as bad as the crime itself(adultery is a sin)
2006-09-14 20:37:07 · answer #2 · answered by Red 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No.
BUT...
IF that other person cheated on me and I found out about it, oh yeah, why the hell not? All bets are off and so are the gloves!
Oh, also, one more thing, those so-called "offers" at your workplace? They're considered sexual harassment AND grounds for divorce, should their wives find out! Why are you sitting on this? Do you find this kind of attention flattering?
2006-09-14 21:11:39 · answer #3 · answered by coorissee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have never been married but was w/ my son's father for 8 yrs, the last 2 , i have to shamefully admit, of which i cheated )w/ more than 1 man). i finally answered him honestly about whether i cheated yrs after i left him (thinking i could find someone better). he has forgiven me but i don't ever expect him to forget b/c what i did was wrong & immoral. after 8 yrs apart, i am happy to say, we are trying to work things out & i will never cheat again!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-09-14 20:39:26 · answer #4 · answered by momatendofrope 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if u've heard this law of physic: "Every action there is an equal but opposite reaction". This law has been proven effective in the physical world as well as in this real world.
Wait....I think this is too deep for u. Just forget of what I've replied.
2006-09-14 20:37:54 · answer #5 · answered by Infinite 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel like cheating then nobody can stop you from doing so. Go ahead and do it and bear the consequences but don't come back to us complaining and regretting your deed.
2006-09-14 20:44:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may THINK they dont know, but they do know. My boyfriend cheated on me and I could tell and i brought it up to him and he admited it and apologized (like that would help). If you love your spouse, you know your spouse. If you cheated on them, they should know. Its just a feeling that you get.
2006-09-14 20:34:34 · answer #7 · answered by SEXiiNESS_2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No because I would have to answer to someone who was a lot harder than my wife. My conscience, if you have a conscience, or any feelings at all, you would remember that you made an oath to be FAITHFUL at your wedding ceremony.
2006-09-14 20:38:27 · answer #8 · answered by rswdew 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say "No" I could never live with the guilt and it would negatively effect my relationship with my spouse.
2006-09-14 21:41:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO .... If I knew I wasen't gonna get caught. what is the risk in that , people like to cheat for the risk...
2006-09-14 20:39:25 · answer #10 · answered by Been 2 I 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋