Im separated and I want to move on with my life. I was with my husband since I was 13 years old and now that Im not with him I forget how to approach a guy and even how to act when I go on a date. I go online and I dated some of them but It just didn't feel right.
2006-09-14 20:57:00 · 13 answers · asked by Hawaiianlady 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I don't think shyness is the problem here. I think you're afraid. You've been with your ex all these years, you've been comfortable with him and now that you're alone its hard to take pace. Just remind yourself that you're a strong woman and what you want you get. don't piddle away online sites. Going outside and meeting people is the only way to meet people for who they are...instead of meeting someone online and just finding out from them they have 4 wives (example) never the less...just be yourself...and someone will take notice. i hope that helps you out.
2006-09-14 21:29:01 · answer #1 · answered by deais74 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not only shy but embarrassed if the motive of approaching a guy is more than plain friendship. Not every man take the bait.
Though, we are in this generation but some good guys are scared when women show their desire/feelings to them.
2006-09-15 04:01:31 · answer #2 · answered by emator 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my god i feel the same way.
The most beautiful man in the world works at my job and all i can say to him is Hi and run away
I feel so stupid I have no clue what his name is, what he actually does (something that requires a tool belt) he could be married or dating someone for all i know. but he is so nice to look at and has the nicest smile.
I think we just need to get on with things and not be afraid.
i will be keeping an eye on this question lol
2006-09-15 04:10:28 · answer #3 · answered by knowitall 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Meet a guy in real life. Join a singles group, go out with your girl friends a man hunting, just surround yourself with men and relax you'll get used to them. You could observe how others act and what you think is appropriate. Just be yourself and stop worrying.
2006-09-15 04:03:33 · answer #4 · answered by lol_des 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at the bookstore, stand beside the man and start a casual talk," hey is that an interesting book?.."
in a crowded carfe "may i sit here...mm..ask him, is that dish nice?..the other day.bla bla bla.."
in a pub.." ..well..guess guys wld probably approach u if you dont stand with your arms folded and look like an ice cube.."
on the street " holding a piece of paper with address..hi..could you help me? if you dont mind could you bring me there?"
while online.."hi i am looking for a date"
2006-09-15 04:02:22 · answer #5 · answered by sun s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are shy then you cannot do anything. So be confident and speak to him
2006-09-15 03:59:52 · answer #6 · answered by yogesh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over him already.
2006-09-15 04:05:33 · answer #7 · answered by Andy K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
approach him nicely..be natural to urself..and be urself
2006-09-15 04:02:38 · answer #8 · answered by Sweety 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
email me at black1781@yahoo.com i'll help you
2006-09-15 04:17:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk... and smell....showing you like him....be yourself... ask him out for coffee... meet for lunch... etc.
2006-09-15 04:05:04 · answer #10 · answered by Tomorrowalwaysbetter! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋